[-] mjsaber 19 points 1 month ago

Trump should be "I don't know"

[-] mjsaber 21 points 2 months ago

I'm wondering what her specialty is, it wouldn't surprise me if it's something the administration wants to ban. Of course, that's pure supposition since it's not listed in the article, but an effective way to ban women's health and affirming care would be to remove those that provide that care.

[-] mjsaber 19 points 3 months ago

I think France has won more wars than any other nation in history.

[-] mjsaber 24 points 5 months ago

Austin, we won.

[-] mjsaber 20 points 8 months ago

I practiced in the shower and in the car when I did it - I wasn't out and didn't have many safe spaces.

Are you focusing on resonance at all? It's generally more important than pitch. Focus on raising your resonance, and pitch will follow.

Also, if anyone is interested in starting a discord to practice voice training, please invite me!

[-] mjsaber 20 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I'm a nurse. Does that count as "blue collar"? Because I absolutely need to shower after 12 hours in the hospital.

[-] mjsaber 22 points 1 year ago

Thank you. Already had a meeting scheduled with a lawyer tomorrow.

I just wanted to do some good. I didn't even get a chance to pass off my patients.

[-] mjsaber 21 points 1 year ago

Anyone. It isn't about my physical characteristics. I just want to help people and instead I just get ridiculed and critiqued. I'm tired of being alone and sad. My cat is the only reason I haven't killed myself, and I don't know how much longer he can hold that dam.

[-] mjsaber 21 points 1 year ago

As a trans girl, I get a lot of interest from other trans girls, so it checks out for me.

[-] mjsaber 20 points 2 years ago

I'm working to set up connections to folks in Canada that will be willing to relocate LGBTQ folks across the border.

[-] mjsaber 17 points 2 years ago

Grindr. Cause I'm sure you want to see the ads, lol

[-] mjsaber 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Just want to comment on the "trap is ok/not ok debate."

It's totally cool if you or your partner(s) identity as a trap. As an older trans girl, being a trap was a badge of honor. It meant not only do you pass, but you're fucking hot. Almost like a trap/not trap distinction of attractiveness (which is also horribly misogynistic and demeaning), but it was a qualifier.

So I get it, part of me likes the idea of being called that - in a private, contextual sense. But the problem is the word and the connotation it has in the general zeitgeist, which implies that a trans person (typically a trans woman) "tricks" a man into having sex with her, and then deserves whatever happens to her, regardless of how dehumanizing it may be.

It is the horrible, completely unjustifiable rationale behind the Panic Defense, and that's why it is a term that needs to be buried. Continued use of it is an unconscious signal that trans women are perpetrating some kind of deception just by existing in a man's field of vision (if, of course, she comes close enough to cis white heteronormtive standards of beauty).

Be woke. Don't say trap (except in the bedroom. And then smack my ass a little ๐Ÿ˜‹).

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