I also choose this guys wife

Slight caveat, i haven't read the book yet but from what I've heard The Culture fits that description

I'm really late to this whole thing but this book is one of my favorite comfort reads. Idk, I think it feels weirdly wholesome where it's just 2 people(a guy and a huge scary space spider?) trying their best to save everyone and even though it didn't have an antagonist, it still felt like there was one in the form of space bacteria(?). One of my favorite reads

Careful, Picard.