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(Ru)le Dilf (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] femboycuddles 8 points 3 months ago

It's weird because I have no idea. Someone asked me years ago what I would name myself if I were a girl (this was way pre-crack) and I just instantly knew. The name stuck around in my head until my egg cracked.

[-] femboycuddles 10 points 4 months ago

LIES! I swear I am literally eating cereal right now while "Hey Soul Sister" is playing on the radio.

[-] femboycuddles 13 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Avoid the reflection, it's telling us lies
It shows expectations, the scratches of time
You feel its tenacioussness, "keep your disguise"
When maybe it's time that's been rushing the tides

A song and a place change so much in your life
The times which we sing each a bridge to our minds
While manipulation is leading to crimes
To live out your live you must first stay alive
And it hurts to stay behind
To leave who you really are inside
When and how should be the questions, never if or why

So claim your stake
You seek to fit the norm
it has so many different shapes
if you try you can belong
search for those that make you strong
they gather in forts
Against the odds
You'll get to know the feeling
It's you, no piece of cloth
Learn the tricks most never learn
What others are given you have to earn
But the greatest gift you can recieve
Is loving yourself, and all of your tears
In eyes and through dresses
With or without
your mask and your mirror

Don't be discouraged, you will endure hardships,
if you ever get lost, use your map to find harbours

Avoid the reflection, ignore its exaggerated lines
Be yourself, regardless. Take your time

[-] femboycuddles 11 points 5 months ago

FYI for german transfem people that want to have backup in case they ever want to have biological children (hate that word): Most insurances cover you freezing sperm if you get a note from you endocrinologist to the sperm bank.

[-] femboycuddles 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

0) Killdozer

[-] femboycuddles 33 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Also Blahåjar were in pro-gay-marriage-ads by ikea

[-] femboycuddles 20 points 5 months ago

I was so confused when the lyrics didnt rhyme
E I E I O

[-] femboycuddles 12 points 5 months ago

English is my second language but I learned that "it" was the pronoun used for inanimate objects and animals whose name/sex you don't know yet.

[-] femboycuddles 10 points 9 months ago

I saw a really interesting video essay on this topic once. The difference is in the way that gender is percieved in collectivist societies rather than the individualist societies that western societies tend to be.

In an individualist society transgender people are percieved as rebels that are in conflict with their AGAB, while in collectivist societies changing your gender to match your energy is confirming the social construct and supporting the society. still, gender non-confirming people are often seen as a threat and I guess gender plays into that.

This is all from memory though, might not apply to Thailand or is completely wrong

[-] femboycuddles 8 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Huh? Am I missing sarcasm or have we read two completely different articles?

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Brrule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Wikipedia image with the caption "BRRR go brrrrrrrrr"

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frog rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] femboycuddles 7 points 1 year ago

I love high-waist pants! My first choice when I am not able to wear skirts. Goes great with croptops, too

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pictu(rule) (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] femboycuddles 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

what no my brain is too smooth for that i just thought "haha its 19(5)6" and then didnt clarify enough

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Tankie Conspi(rule)acy (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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snugg(rule)s (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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