[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 19 points 1 year ago

I think it's kinda sad when a kid really blames their parents that it was born.

I come from a deeply traumatized and broken family. I've had this believe for a long time. But by blaming my parents i am just reducing myself, my value and my autonomy. And i am reducing the complexity of life, history and my parents 🤔

Don't mind me, i am just philosophicly reflecting on my life.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 14 points 1 year ago

I knew my gender identity was a lie

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 14 points 1 year ago

We give kids less money because companies exploid them. Kids don't know their rights and adulds are telling them their not worthy of something like human rights. In most countries childlabor is illegal cause companies will abuse every person that can't defent themself.

Mistakes are part of a normal human being but work tells us we need to fit, so the big tech giant don't lose dome of their money.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 19 points 1 year ago

Ich möchte den tollen Move des deutschen Schachverbunds nutzen um zu sagen: aus historischer Sicht ist der "biologische Vorteil" eines Geschlechts C in Thema Y erstunken und erlogen.

Nachdem Religion und Naturmagie vom Wissenschaft abgelöst wurde, wird sie gerne von Nicht-Wissenschaftlern gerne zweckentfremdet, um Gatekeeping zu legitimieren. Wer kann schon etwas ernsthaftes gegen psyeudo medizinische oder biologische Argumente sagen? Für Laien sind sie schwer zu entlarven und kaum von realen wissenschaftlichen Meinungen zu unterscheiden.

Wenn Frauen falsch trainiert werden, sie keinen Zugang zu gleichen Möglichkeiten haben, die Möglichkeiten nicht ihrem Körper entsprechen, oder sie durch Hausarbeiten/ Kinder davon abgehalten werden, zeit für Sport y zu widmen... dann kann man auch keine haltbaren Datenlagen erschaffen.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 17 points 1 year ago

Same with my younger sibling. It was very obvios early in their life, but we didn't had words for it either. Didn't understand and didn't took it that serious.

I had my period with 11 years, but suffered till i was 30. Cause it was a tabu to talk about that. I need to Suffer, i was told. BS.

It is crucial to give kids knowledge that they are not wrong. That they are not weird. That they know everything is okay and their parents are here guiding them. AND they need to know that other people are not weird so they can learn empathy.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 20 points 1 year ago

Mindwandering while conversation/ sex was always annoying to me. I never understood why i am doing this and how to turn it off, cause "everyone else seems to get it right" and they made me feel bad for it.

It is importaint to talk about these stuff and reach out to people, who feel the same way.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 34 points 1 year ago

I wanna eat the real spicy food! In germany everything is watered down so n00bs can eat it🥲

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 24 points 1 year ago

Op is my todays hero ☺️

Cause i am an science historian interessted in the history of psychology and psychiatry. I want to understand why normal citizen are so paranoid when it comes to seeking psychologal help. When i found up what bs doctors in east germany did to their patients...

it is really importaint to double question your knowledge!

What reddit taught me: as a scientist working for a gouverment run institute i had no idea of all the bureaucracy and administration stuff. Redditors from my country told me a lot. Now i know how to nor be a 'arbeitsdrohne'😆

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 54 points 1 year ago

My boyfriend and i can't wait to watch this movie 😊 💕 (but cinema got expensiv dudeee 🥲)

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 18 points 1 year ago

It is not the problem but a problem. I grew up in a western country and everyone told me, there is no need for feminism anymore. It took me years to understand that's a lie, but if you simply don't know were to get informations... if you are told feminist now are hysterics so you don't seek their help/advise... there is nothing left than to recreate the things you are told.

Cause if you get yourself educated you can easy become social isolated.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 45 points 1 year ago

I work with cultural heritage and have the strong believe, that information should be open and easy accessible. Citizen have a right to access to knowledge and to educate themselves unter their circumstanses. But of course the Infrastructur cost money and this should always be a discurse between all parties. And not been dictated by major companies.

It is a really hard fight for museums, archives and libaries lately. What do you do when your electricity bill jumps up to 5 million during the war in the ukrain?

We need to unite and search for ways to keep the Internet accessible.

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