It’s not but it is for society to be strong and work well just as it men’s duty to make sure women are doing well too. Seems to me you wanna break the societal contract because you’re a sexist feminist.
Congrats, I hope that works well for you. Sure you left the US shitshow but if you think Canada isn’t one too just wait. Everywhere has shit, humans shit, it’s nature.
Yeah don’t put effort where it isn’t reciprocated that’s a bad deal for men too.
There’s only one of you and you do not seem like a general to me, just a pissed woman.