whoa your reply didnt show up on lemmy ml, i think its really time i move my main to another instance. I never did any kind of drugs and refuse to do so, its just not worth the impact on your health.

how is it the instances job to moderate for the user? I get defederating from like spam stuff, however the user should be in charge of its own flavour. Well, we will see what approach wins, i just find it odd how one can choose federation over centralization and still prefers to be babysit.

defederate enough and people will switch, much less friction to just go to a more open instance. much better than what we had with centralized sites.

I hope kbin gets federated by lemmy.ml it seems they have been rather trigger happy with blocking. It seems we will have to wait and see which instance is the most free.