Your girlfriend is the asshole here.
My girlfriend says she doesn’t like that I don’t work and don’t do anything to “develop myself”.
Yet, she herself doesn't work and she relies on you financially.
she says she doesn’t want to get a job because I don’t have one
That's just an excuse for her not to get a job.
I would get where she's coming from if she has a job and doesn't rely on you financially. Sorry but she sounds like a leech that's complaining her provider isn't providing enough.
The fact they would protect abusers just to comply with their faith speaks volumes about their priorities. I mean it's no surprise when they already protect the predators within their ranks, so why not do the same with their followers?