[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 11 points 10 months ago

Besides all the reasons other commenters have said, it's because mental health is a pseudo-social phenomenon among teens.

Having a mental illness gets them attention, online and in person. I have two teens, and even though both have diagnosed mental illness due to trauma from their other parent, they still seek, discuss, and revel in self-diagnoses.

If a friend claims to have something, they rush to the internet to do "research," and begin exhibiting "symptoms." Same thing is true with other labels.

We have a dearth of parenting, due to needing two incomes to make a household run. Adult attention is scarce, so teens make up for it with wild claims and garnering attention from other teens. The internet makes it easy to model behaviors. So yes, there is an increase in mental illness, but not the kinds, nor for the reasons the internet would have us believe.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

A grumpy old person because I'm too exhausted to plan a costume, and I don't know how to have fun.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago

Wouldn't that be all Kraft Singles ever?

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

Probably because those of us in the more flexible areas of the Kinsey scale are leaning away from men in light of everything.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago

I think it sounds more like a bunch of men feeling threatened by the fact that women find being attracted to imaginary women a pretty big turn off.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

It would be nice if men learned that attraction doesn't have to mean objectification, and that real women are way better than a cobbled together Frankenstein "perfect" monster woman.

I mean, 99% of these men would have zero chance with a woman half as attractive. They seriously need to start figuring out what WOMEN find attractive instead of wasting their time with empty fantasies if they want to get a real relationship someday.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

For some of us, the joy of good food is the only reliable joy we have.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 40 points 1 year ago

I mean, the #1 reason is because it makes it taste like banana.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Next time, try "what difference does it make?" or if you don't want to be confrontational, "It's medically necessary."

You shouldn't have to feel anxious just for getting a meal.

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So I had a situation at work where the project lead refused to communicate with me, and instead went to my boss about everything. I thought it was me, but my (male) boss suggested it might be misogyny. (My work is male dominated. I'm the only female lead of my role in the company.)

I occasionally run into situations where someone, man or woman, not only dislikes me but does everything they can to destroy me. I figure I'm just offputting, but I've had unrelated comments from others that it is because I'm direct and opinionated, and not afraid to defend my opinion.

I'm having a hard time mentally processing the opposing concepts that I'm a bad person, and that is why I make this kind of enemy, and that there's nothing wrong with me, it's their problem.

For the record, I have all kinds of self- deprecating behaviors to try to soften my opinions, and they generally work. Just sometimes, there is no way for me to have a perspective and not be offensive to someone.

I'd welcome your experiences and thoughts, if any.

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