I don't think my outlook on the big companies has changed much - I quit Facebook around a decade ago, and like you I quit Twitter after the Great Muskening began. I'd been increasingly disillusioned with Reddit over the last few years as well - this recent nonsense was simply the last straw.

What has changed is my determination to continue opting out, and to make a serious attempt at community-building in spaces like this one and Mastodon.

My outlook on tech companies, me being a monetized commodity, hasn't changed. I never liked it. I have an almost unused Twitter account that I opened when Twitter was new. And, quickly realized that it was not my thing. I don't have accounts with Facebook, TikTok, and whatever else is out there. I got a Reddit account to have discussions with other fans. Being here is refreshing. I'm not a commodity here. I'm a Star Trek fan, chatting up other Star Trek fans. I'm very happy to be here.

For me, its less "Oh my god how could this happen!?" and more "I told you asshats so!"