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[-] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 217 points 8 months ago

Would fucking love it if we just got rid of tipping all together. Employers -not customers- should be responsible for providing employees good pay.

Factor the difference into up front price of the food/service and be done with it.

[-] pyrflie@lemm.ee 94 points 8 months ago

Tipping was never the problem, subsidizing owner profits out of worker pay was.

Tipping is freedom of expression for the customer. Wage is the obligation of the employer.

If it isn't a living wage the company shouldn't exist. Full stop.

[-] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 64 points 8 months ago

But it should be a hard opt-in, no "decline tip" bullshit, social engineering is still at issue

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[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 17 points 8 months ago

Definitely. In my country, tipping aren't expected but it's a pleasant thing to receive in service industry, in US of A, tipping is expected and people will vehemently defend the status quo.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

It's expected because waiters can't make minimum wage without it. It's not defended because people like that waiters are paid so little, it's defended because they're paid so little and politicians, until now, have seemed to have no interest in changing that. Like so many things in this country, the people have to come up with a patchwork solution just to keep others alive because the politicians don't care.

So yes, I will defend tipping until this is fixed everywhere in the U.S. And I doubt it will be fixed any time soon. I'll be surprised if it's even fixed in these five states.

[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 9 points 8 months ago

It has already become your culture, like it or not. Whether you tip or not, employer has to make up the different if the tip doesn't add up to the minimum wage, so you're essentially subsidising the employer as of now. Fixing the minimum wage will not get rid of tipping culture either, and exploitative employer knows that, so they will continue to pay the bare minimum and expect the customer to foot the bill.

I wonder if everyone reaction will change if we change "Tipping" to "Subsidising", because that's what the current status quo are.

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[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 9 points 8 months ago

Unless "we" change it via legislation, that's never going to happen. Let's explore how it would play out as an individual restaurant initiative:

Restaurant raises staff wages, raises prices to cover the increase. Even if you disclose it on the menu, customers don't care: they see prices 20% higher, they choose to eat somewhere with cheaper menu prices. This is frequently what happens when restaurants try to do that.

If the restaurant increases server wages less than what they would make in tips, the servers will leave for another restaurant. The benefit of tips is that the harder you work, and more tables you take, the more money you make. Good servers can make $50+ an hour if they hustle.

Source: 8 years experience in the industry.

[-] AtariDump@lemmy.world 10 points 8 months ago

The benefit of tips is that the harder you work, and more tables you take, the more money you make. Good servers can make $50+ an hour if they hustle.

I shouldn’t be paying my server’s wage; the restaurant should.

Name one other job (that isn’t in the food service industry) where the buyers subsidize the worker’s salary voluntarily.

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[-] mechoman444@lemmy.world 147 points 8 months ago

Please! For the love of God! Get rid of tipping!

I hate tipping! As the consumer I should not be responsible for proving a living wage for someone else's employees!

[-] kameecoding@lemmy.world 80 points 8 months ago

as a European I have to say both the Tipping culture and the not showing the full price in stores with VAT included is just mindblowing.

It's literally a culture of hiding true costs, weird af.

[-] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 26 points 8 months ago

Hotels too. The advertised price is never accurate because their stupid resort fees.

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[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 21 points 8 months ago

It’s literally a culture of hiding true costs, weird af.

Makes me happy though in this day and age that people are waking up to this fact, and are starting to push back on it.

In the past corporations/governments thought people were a lot more unaware, than they are today.

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[-] DeGandalf@kbin.social 109 points 8 months ago

As a german the whole tip system in the US is both redicilous and hilarious to me.
We have tipping here, too (we literally call it "drinking money"). With the difference, that it's pretty much voluntary and if you don't have much money (e.g. as a student) noone will expect you to tip.
Having tips be part of the actual wage totally defeats the point of them...

[-] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 39 points 8 months ago

Are you a true American if you don't shaft your employees for every penny that you can though?

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 16 points 8 months ago

This is actually a great reason for ending tipping. I used to feel like I was on the server’s side, slipping them cash the business couldn’t steal, but I never use cash anymore so have no idea who it’s going to. Also, businesses are getting more sleazy with required “tips” and fees, and it’s all one giant tax fraud no matter which way you put it.

Actual prices on the menu are better for the customer, actual pay is better for the server, accounting for everything is better for the business and accurate reporting is better for all of us who depend on services paid for by taxes

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[-] Buffaloaf@lemmy.world 17 points 8 months ago

That's how it started here too.

[-] brandocorp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 8 months ago

https://time.com/5404475/history-tipping-american-restaurants-civil-war/

After the Constitution was amended in the wake of the Civil War, slavery was ended as an institution but those who were freed from bondage were still limited in their choices. Many who did not end up sharecropping worked in menial positions, such as servants, waiters, barbers and railroad porters. These were pretty much the only occupations available to them. For restaurant workers and railroad porters, there was a catch: many employers would not actually pay these workers, under the condition that guests would offer a small tip instead.

“These industries demanded the right to basically continue slavery with a $0 wage and tip,” Jayaraman says.

[-] DBT@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago

I was so confused the first time I went to Germany. I asked someone there about tipping and they said, “you can, but you don’t have to.”

That didn’t really clarify it enough for me so I just tipped like I do in the US. Didn’t want anyone thinking I was a jerk.

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[-] solrize@lemmy.world 77 points 8 months ago

"Ballot measures pending in Michigan, Arizona, Ohio and Massachusetts, and a bill being reintroduced in Connecticut". There.

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[-] pete_the_cat@lemmy.world 58 points 8 months ago

So that should cover everyone in this day and age since everyone asks for a tip now /s

[-] magnetosphere@kbin.social 38 points 8 months ago

IT’S ABOUT TIME.

[-] acutfjg@feddit.nl 28 points 8 months ago

That's great, but minimum wage needs a huge overhaul.

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[-] ozmot@lemmy.world 27 points 8 months ago

How is it a minimum wage if you dont have to pay it in full?

[-] CosmicTurtle@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago

There's a loop hole where companies don't have to pay minimum wage if tips amount to the minimum wage that would have been earned by the employee.

It's a shitty way for companies to not pay their employees and expect customers to pay them.

[-] fat_stig@lemmy.world 24 points 8 months ago

While I abhor the whole concept of tipping, the thing that really grinds my gears is that we are expected to pay a percentage of the bill for service. If I order a basic cheese pizza or a 16 ounce tomahawk steak with a big chunk of foie gras and all the trimmings the server does not have to do much extra work for the latter. But if I have to tip $5 on a $20 pizza, why the fuck do I have to tip $100 for almost the same amount of service for the steak? Sure it weighs more and you might need to make an extra trip to serve the trimmings, but WTF, the server is not providing any more value by serving an expensive dish.

If I order an expensive bottle of wine it takes no extra effort to serve, why should I pay a shit ton more service charge?

USA, get your shit together, this is so not right. Land of the free? My arse.

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[-] auraness@lemmy.world 23 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

It's also bullshit that tipped workers rarely pay taxes on the vast majority of their earnings. We're subsiding their wages, access to infrastructure, and social services.

[-] abracaDavid@lemmy.world 34 points 8 months ago

Lmao this has got to be the most misplaced anger ever. You're mad at people that don't even make minimum wage aren't paying taxes on the maybe $35k a year? How about the billionaires that basically don't pay taxes? Maybe we should deal with that first.

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[-] eclectic_electron@sh.itjust.works 22 points 8 months ago

Reminder that a "living wage", and what most servers make, is at least 3x minimum wage, so tipping is still going to be required.

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 32 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Why? I hope this is just the first step toward the end of tipping culture. Why should servers be held out as a special category deserving higher pay? They deserve a decent wage at least minimum, just like everyone else. If businesses need to pay them more to attract employees, then that’s the free market at work. That’s more predictable, transparent, honest toward all of the business, the employee, and the customer

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[-] Rediphile@lemmy.ca 14 points 8 months ago

Tipping is, by definition, not required.

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[-] BigTrout75@lemmy.world 15 points 8 months ago

While I do tip. It does suck that eating out pretty much requires a donation because we all agree that food workers don't make enough to live on. And I live in a State where they get full minimum. Just give the workers food and boarding and we can call it a deal, oh wait..... Let's not.

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[-] negativeyoda@lemmy.world 11 points 8 months ago

In this thread: hot takes from people who have never worked in a restaurant

[-] Rediphile@lemmy.ca 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Most of us against tipping have absolutely worked in restaurants, which is exactly why we are against it. The only people in favour of tipping (which also have reasoning that makes any sense) are those who don't tip and end up being subsidized by everyone else.

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[-] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

I think people who make tips like them because they get a bunch of money randomly on nights they work. But the problem with it is that it's random. If they are required to pay you more money then your pay check will just always have a bunch of money in it so that's better. People can still tip if they feel you did a good job. You shouldn't be dependent on that to live. You should be guaranteed a living wage for showing up and doing your job.

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[-] Roccobot@lemmy.world 11 points 8 months ago

Since Lemmy is trying to be better than Reddit, can we agree that titles should be like '5 US states...'? Not every person that reads news here lives in the United States 🕊️

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[-] werefreeatlast@lemmy.world 10 points 8 months ago

The state of Texas is committed to ending slavery in the coming decade. As a first step they are proposing that minimum wage should cover an entire cardboard box living quarters. And we're not talking shoebox size Amazon hand me downs that still have the return address tag! They will remove the tag and provide enough duct tape to seal that portion of the box. Under article 17 of the 2024 end of slavery pact, they propose that men and women under the age of 27 shall not be responsible for sealing and or weather proofing their cardboard boxes. Older people are not covered yet, but may be covered as soon as two or three more migrant babies are sold back to their respective Mexican families. Indeed, Texas is making strides to accommodate the world's demands for fair treatment of human rights and the people who should have them.

[-] littlebluespark@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Ah, how modern commercialism loves to forget that the minimum wage was intended to be a shameful thing...

edit: a shameful thing for employers to stoop to, ffs 🤦🏽‍♂️

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