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I love sex,but my gods is it highly overrated by society

[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's how I learned I was ace. After my first time I thought "what's the big deal about it?" Thought about it for a few months, and realized that not all ace people are sex adverse or even try to avoid it.

I'm literally married, but I sometimes feel like my husband and I may both be on the ACE spectrum. He's the only person I seriously dated in my life, and we've been together more than a decade. I never felt strongly attracted to anyone in that way until I got to know him.

Sex is great, but I'd say there are other facets of our relationship that we value even more.

[-] SkyeStarfall 11 points 1 year ago

I feel like sex is weirdly both over and underrated by society. There's put far too much emphasis on sex as this be all end all super special thing, and at the same time it's underrated about how nice it can be if you let it and remove any hangups about it (such as religious shame), and embrace it fully (as in, accepting and indulging in kinks, your sexuality, etc.).

For me it's like, it's not a special or super serious thing at all, but it's great and can be a lot of fun, especially together with the emotional closeness. It's like a hobby. So let yourself be a sex nerd!

[-] TheRealLinga@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

Well said! It is totally like a hobby. There more you do it, relax about it and explore its many forms the better it is!

[-] Smorty 3 points 1 year ago

Interviewer: What do you do in your free time?

[-] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, I too enjoy the sexy sex very much

[-] lugal@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago

"sex" is a mass noun like paper. It's not countable so it's "one more piece of sex pleeeease"

[-] Zagorath@aussie.zone 14 points 1 year ago

It is an uncountable noun, but it's more like water. So you ask for "one glass of sex please", or if you're feeling particularly spicy "one jug of sex please".

[-] Microw@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

That's what makes the post so funny, yes

[-] moistclump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Less sex. Fewer pieces of sex.

[-] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Sorry sir, we're right out of sex. Would a swift kick in the butt do?

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 8 points 1 year ago

I've done a lot of things in my life and sex still remains number 1 in terms of fun.

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

I believe sex addicts don't really experience the fun part any more. For e.g. you're so addicted you're sleeping with horrible people you're not attracted to, and may even be dangerous or contagious.

[-] netwren@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I haven't tried hard drugs but nothing else even comes close

You ever done just the Netflix part of Netflix & chill? It's actually legit

[-] Kit 4 points 1 year ago

I must not be having good sex because it wouldn't even be in the top 5 for me

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I can show you how it's done. 😏

[-] Kit 1 points 1 year ago
[-] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 year ago
[-] Kattail_ 4 points 1 year ago

i upvoted this because of you

[-] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

Noooo! It was right at 196!!!

Now I might as well upvote lol

I think it kinda is like that? Maybe not that exact sentence structure, though

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