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[-] MoreThanCorrect@lemmy.world 80 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Brother in law adopted a young dog a week ago.

Very nice pitbull that got along well with people and the other dogs at the gathering, including ours. It had been adopted and given up two times in its life already for no reason of its own (emergency in adopted family life then an unexpected passing of the next adopter). It emotionally bonded so quickly to my brother in law.

Issue is, my brother in law is a mess himself. Young with a lot of personal issues, barely home, and not able to commit to taking care the pup. He impulse adopted the dog and really realized that this past week.

He decided this morning to give it back to the shelter. We, along with other family members offered to take the dog instead of giving it up. He's a great dog and only needs a bit of training that is expected with any young pup. Brother in law, stubborn as he is, outright refuses any option other than giving it back to the shelter. No care for the realistic hard chance it will have getting adopted again after being given up for a third time. The pup has a real chance for a good life but no, shelter it must go.

The oven also died so no buns.

Edit: We are planning on getting in contact with the shelter he adopted from to see what our options are if he is returned there. We expect to have to fully adopt with everything that entails. We'll be out some money but the pup will be in an active home instead of a 8x4 cell.

Hopefully there is some thinking done tonight and the pup will be rehomed without the shelter step.

[-] meco03211@lemmy.world 37 points 11 months ago

Brother in law, stubborn as he is, outright refuses any option other than giving it back to the shelter.

It's hard to admit you've made such a big mistake. The magnitude of the solution directly relates to the magnitude of the mistake. If you got a jacket that you wind up not liking, no one would be put out if you returned it to the store. He's only stubborn because he's trying to convince himself he didn't fuck up that bad.

[-] conciselyverbose@kbin.social 11 points 11 months ago
[-] meco03211@lemmy.world 20 points 11 months ago

That was the point. Most people understand that. I'm saying the brother in law is trying to convince himself his mistake is on the same level as getting a jacket you don't like.

[-] Orbituary@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

People who treat animals like they're objects belong in a shelter. They should not be allowed to care for pets.

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[-] Gingerlegs@lemmy.world 69 points 11 months ago

My sister claimed Bill Gates is making Tyson chicken use crushed up crickets in their breading on their chicken nuggets.

[-] TaterTurnipTulip@lemmy.world 47 points 11 months ago

That came up on Alex Jones recently. So, uh, sorry, your sister is likely listening to InfoWars or something adjacent. My condolences.

[-] Orbituary@lemmy.world 27 points 11 months ago

I'm stealing this. That's fucking hilarious.

[-] threelonmusketeers@sh.itjust.works 17 points 11 months ago

That sounds like a great idea. More protein, less carbs, and likely a lower carbon footprint.

[-] lyth@sh.itjust.works 14 points 11 months ago

I could believe it. Not because of weird antisemitic-adjacent conspiracy theories but because Tyson chicken already tastes like my front yard

[-] xkforce@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Considering chickens eat a lot of bugs, that seems like an excellent way to cut out the middleman

[-] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

the middleman

The middlechicken

[-] eran_morad@lemmy.world 61 points 11 months ago

Mom bullshitting about vaccines. In a house where the owners are both scientists.

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

My brother does this, the other 5 of his immediate family are in the life sciences.

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[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 52 points 11 months ago

None.

I spend Thanksgiving at home, alone, with my dogs. It is the absolute best.

[-] BallShapedMan@lemmy.world 48 points 11 months ago

My kid argued with me about what one sixteenth of a pie looked like when he was serving me. He tried to give me one eighth and I was already full!

[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 43 points 11 months ago

Had mine last month (Canada), over at a conservative's uncle's place but things turned unexpectedly...

I was going in expecting a left vs. right kind of political shouting match between my cousins and I against my conservative relatives.

What ended up happening was everyone was unified in a shouting match against my dad... who was the only one convinced that the future generations won't be going to shit if we stay the status quo.

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 10 points 11 months ago

won't be going to shit if we stay the status quo.

While proven improvements are good, simply changing things because it sucks right now is not a great idea.

There is no problem so bad that it cannot be made worse, and the cons are banking on you not knowing that.

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[-] TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

At least both sides can agree on something? Not something productive, but it's something!

[-] Godric@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago

Post-dinner, boys went downstairs and argued about football bets and whether or not the losers of a card game had to take shots.

Girls upstairs, I'm told and overheard, had a passionate discussion with Grandma about gay people.

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[-] RanchOnPancakes@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago

Turkey. Fried or Baked. Baked won, as is right.

[-] FullOfBallooons@leminal.space 22 points 11 months ago

Whether or not that song "Lil Boo Thang" is sampling "Best of My Love" by The Emotions.

It is, and I think my mom even realized she was in the wrong, but she kept playing dumb. Mostly because she knew how much it was driving my sister and I batty.

Thankfully it wasn't really an argument, just a goofy conversation.

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[-] Rhaedas@kbin.social 20 points 11 months ago
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[-] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 16 points 11 months ago

Whether Petbarn is, or should be, open on Xmas day. My stepson is yelling and stamping his feet, absolutely certain that they are, and if not, they should be, on the off chance that someone needs to buy pet stuff.

[-] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 14 points 11 months ago

Whether we should cook the turkey medium or medium rare. Medium rare won, thank God. /S

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[-] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 13 points 11 months ago

Almost got to drop the "well, pass the arsenic, that's natural" line, but the conversation got derailed before it reached that.

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[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 12 points 11 months ago

We don't do thanksgiving over here in the Netherlands, but we DID just elect a bunch of super conservative xenofobes as the largest party, so I'll give you one guess.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 12 points 11 months ago

I did not have a dinner this year. It was to involve Niagara Falls, but then the car explosion occurred yesterday and the fear of terror deterred any activity today except the flurries that surround me.

[-] xkforce@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

There wasnt one. I just had thanksgiving with my mother and we agree on the impprtant things. The only issue is that a lot of students wanted me to tutor them RIGHT NOW. Nope. Not today. You can go find someone else to help you today.

[-] wrecksalot@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

my conservative relativemanaged to get through the entire thing with the only argument being her insisting that I have more pie. I am extremely thankful this thanksgiving.

[-] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago

Child 1 said their friend did a thing. Child 2 then started they did that too, but better. Said friend was not present, but somehow child 2 was still trying to compete with them. Smh

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[-] zeekaran@sopuli.xyz 9 points 11 months ago

Despite the quality of the guests, there wasn't one.

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