23
0 days, who cares. Call yourself from a place if you want to.
I think you're "from" whereever you went to school the most in or better put, whereever you grew up in and spent your formative years that defined your worldview.
I'm from NYC and as a native New Yorker, we don't see anyone as a New Yorker who hasn't at least gone to high school in nyc. I'm from South Brooklyn specifically. Its a game we play with other natives and we compare schools and talk trash. I won't see anyone truly as a New Yorker otherwise.
But to not natives, it really doesn't matter. Be it a month or ten years, it's the same shit. You know your neighborhood and you keep your head down and do what you need to do to survive. Any other transplant gatekeeping on you can kiss your ass. You wanna be a New Yorker, you're a New Yorker.
You're as native to New York as the horses that came over on the Mayflower. As a native American, its always a trip to see immigrants looking down on shiner, newer immigrants. Talking about natives and non natives like that means anything in a gateway city like NYC, SF, or LA is laughable.
You can be a South Brooklyn chump all you want. It doesnt mean youre any more "new york" than an Amish kid who came up to the city on rumspringa and never left.
I wasn't trying to be rude to you or your heritage, I was just giving someone insight to the mindset of a local while also trying to make a friend. I'm really sorry if I offended you. I'm not a horse. I'm people. I'm hurt by your use of immigrant. I'm a war refugee and a lot of my family died before we were lucky enough to land in nyc. I'm lucky to be alive and I consider myself lucky to count myself as a South Brooklyn chump.
Oh yea! And welcome. Wanna join a book club with me? I'm trying to branch out more socially.
The moment you defend the local homeless population from asshole tourists.
I live in a small New England town. Families that have only been here 3 generations are "new"
To me, being from a place means you were born there.
I'm from a navy base hospital!
I always assumed the answer was as soon as you moved there? Just moved to New York? You're a New Yorker now. Just moved to Texas? You're a Texan now.
I feel like it's pretentiousness-dependent, some places you'll never be a local in the minds of your new neighbours.
If they can't kick you out, you can say you're from there.
Well, it doesn’t matter where I go. I’ll always be a Californian. Or if living abroad, I’ll always be an American. These locations are what’s shaped me and after a certain age, that’s just not gonna change.
I think the moment you live in a place or have citizen ship in a place, you can identify as being one of them. As far as where you're from, I think that can be gray. If I was born on a military base in Germany, but moved to Florida as a baby, I'd probably tell people I was born an Germany, but I grew up in Florida, or just say in from Florida depending who was asking.
this post was submitted on 21 Aug 2026
23 points (100.0% liked)
Asklemmy
55342 readers
187 users here now
A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions
If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!
- Open-ended question
- Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
- Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
- Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
- An actual topic of discussion
Looking for support?
Looking for a community?
- Lemmyverse: community search
- sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
- !lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities
~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~
founded 7 years ago
MODERATORS