This is the thing, I used okcupid ages ago, too, but for dating. And I met some nice people ... but it turned weird at some point and I started getting loads of messages from Arabic men, and couples looking for a unicorn. And the connection with genuine women trailed off.

I gave up on it, and then promptly met my now-wife through a hobby meetup, lol

Thanks, unfortunately meetup.com seems to be only used for advertising experience days and the like in Spain ... I suppose I should check again though, just in case

I wasn't sure if Bumble bff was still a thing, I'll definitely give it a try too :-)

Thanks!

I'll be in Spain

I always imagine binders as being hard to put on, so maybe it's a team effort?

(also, ouch! I will never doubt the dedication of a dude who wears one, they must really hurt)

Anywho, valid point about checking IRL ... I have a couple of male acquaintances who might know of stuff worth going to :-)