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[-] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 138 points 2 years ago

I thought it was gonna be 3-4 times a day, but in a week? Those are rookie numbers

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 2 years ago

their problem is that they're a god damn prude, only 4 times per week? call the pope we have a new patron saint

[-] Neato@kbin.social 111 points 2 years ago

Well, femboys are men who dress feminine. Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men? Because you can certainly be attracted to women with penises (trans women) and be straight and be attracted to feminine-presenting men and be gay.

Personally I think you should just embrace whatever you find attractive and not worry about the sexuality labels. But I know not every society allows just permissive views.

[-] azertyfun@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 years ago

Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men?

yes

More seriously, in my experience androgynous/GNC features are widely considered attractive in bisexual circles because they combine attractive features of multiple genders, which is at least twice as many attractive things.

However someone discovering themselves as "not straight" might not have enough understanding of the relationship between gender and attraction to answer your question.
In my case as I hit puberty I realized I was attracted to girls, so I thought "ok I'm straight". Years and many ignored signs later I realized I found feminine men hot, so I thought "I'm straight so it's because they're feminine". Then like a year or two later I caught myself thinking a definitely-not-effeminate actor was hot (not for the first time) and the other shoe dropped. Yeah, I'm a dumbass, but point is that it's much easier to put a label on oneself and go from there, than to deconstruct something as complex as gender and attraction.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[-] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

This has been the most informative ted talk I've seen in years.

[-] LuckingFurker 74 points 2 years ago

Can't blame them though, femboys are hot

[-] Coasting0942@reddthat.com 76 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

OP is straight.

Femboys make him hard.

Ergo, femboys are women.

Source: Johnny Bravo

Edit: So begins OPs first step into internet research to disprove me….

[-] LuckingFurker 21 points 2 years ago

True and real

[-] CyanFen@lemmy.one 67 points 2 years ago

Am I the only one who feels like exclusively jerking to their SO is weird as fuck?

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

It sounds like a thing they teach you at sunday school

[-] cobra89@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Unless your SO is Scarlett Johansson, but I'm pretty sure even Colin Jost jerks it to someone else now and then.

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[-] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

It’s insane and disappointing how many people think like that today. People who can’t seperate fantasy and reality and are so insecure about other people’s thought that they want to dictate them.

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 47 points 2 years ago

3-4 times this week

Pffffft

[-] So_zetta_slowpoke@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Those are rookie numbers.

[-] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 44 points 2 years ago

Geez, it's almost like rigid guidelines on sexuality are a farse.

[-] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago
[-] Rozauhtuno 41 points 2 years ago

ONLY 4 times a week?

Those are rookie numbers, git gud noob.

[-] Mandarbmax@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

4 times a week while in a serious relationship though is a lot more than 4 times a week while single.

[-] Rozauhtuno 12 points 2 years ago

skill issue

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 7 points 2 years ago

Anyone who doesn't nut once a day counts as asexual imo

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[-] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 41 points 2 years ago

Maybe not as straight as he wants to think he is

[-] FQQD@feddit.de 35 points 2 years ago

I mean, who doesn't

[-] kingcarlosxiii@lemmy.ca 33 points 2 years ago

Wait…ya’ll thinking of your Spouses/Significant Others? Honest question. The only time I ever thought about my spouse while masturbating was before they were my spouse.

[-] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Jesus gives you a pass if it's your property.

Edit: OH now the Christians are mad for suggesting woman are less than human?!

[-] SternburgExport@feddit.de 32 points 2 years ago
[-] Franzia 29 points 2 years ago

Damn. Outrageous! What is society doing to our men? Making them horny over feminine looking men? 🤔 what will the l2sgbtqia do to us next? Make me feminine?/ 🥺 please

[-] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 2 years ago
[-] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

I have masturbated to worse things...

[-] sunnie@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 years ago
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[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 years ago

We're missing that /u/femboyaddict was taken.

[-] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago

That's a damn weird concept of relationship loyalty.

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