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[-] pdxfed@lemmy.world 130 points 3 months ago

Older people can be just as bad as young ones about phone addiction and poor habits let alone manners

[-] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 34 points 3 months ago

My mother was constantly on her phone playing games or scrolling social media/TikTok/YouTube. Even when her favorite shows were on she barely paid any attention.

[-] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 months ago

My mom used to knit during shows, and either miss a plot point, or lose count of a stitch and have to unravel stuff.

For movies, she was notorious for falling asleep and getting upset that we finished watching it anyway.

[-] FatVegan@leminal.space 9 points 3 months ago

I was on vacation with my girlfriend and we met up with her parents abd went to dinner with some of their friends. All in their late 60es early 70es. Me and my girlfriend are around 40 and the kids 5 to 8. The children aren't really alliwed on their phones and i thought it was rather rude to hang on my phone. Then i saw these elderly people either playimg candy crush or something similar or asking their phone 20 timea in a row how long the coastline in italy was, or similar questions. It was way too loud for chatgpt or Gemini or whatever to pick anything up, so they just kept asking. It was quite bizzare to me, because 30 years ago, i would've been the kid on a gameboy and people their age would tell me that it's bad and rude.

[-] pdxfed@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Parents and grandparents are more isolated than they ever been, and have lost social skills along with the rest of societies where phones own the users rather than the other way around. People are lonely everywhere and old folks struggle with this in many industrialized societies. No one is around to tell the older folks how they look, that it's strange and uncomfortable, and many don't have grandchildren now to help them see what else is out there in life. Young people need older folks around and both groups benefit as do parental-age people from this historic arrangement. It's fucking tragic, like watching the death of a species...and that's before you bring the environment into it.

[-] kbal@fedia.io 40 points 3 months ago

Not that I'm in any position to speak for an entire generation but I feel like a lot of Gen Z also can't understand why Gen Z can't put their phones down and watch TV like a normal person.

[-] criticon@lemmy.ca 30 points 3 months ago

My boomer parents are looking at two screens 24/7. Either TV + tablet or tablet + phone or tv + tablet

Bonus points when I call them and they don't answer because they say they didn't have their phone with them

[-] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 5 points 3 months ago

I swear to god, same parent telling me I'd pop my eyes out for playing aoe 2 for 6 hours non stop, watches 2 screens non stop. I honestly don't even get, if you're not watching the news, why is it on? If you're playing solitaire, fine do it, it engages brain, but then why did you buy 400 hint bundle. When I wanted a better bike for my local race, it was cheating (real reason was affordability, which was valid). But then playing solitaire with hint isn't?

And then they wonder why I don't value their opinion, what did they do wrong?

[-] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 4 points 3 months ago

Are you my sibling?!

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 29 points 3 months ago

"tiktok will ruin your attention span"

Flips between channels every 20 seconds muttering about how there's nothing good on

[-] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 23 points 3 months ago

Watch older tv and you realize how much time is dedicated in many shows to recapping what happened three minutes ago before the commercial break.

[-] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 months ago

3 minute commercial break? So like TV from 60s?

Last I heard the average sitcom comes in at 16 minutes for a 30 minute block.

[-] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I haven’t really watched made for broadcast tv since, say, 2008 and House episodes are about 42:00, 6 breaks, 3 min each. Maybe it’s longer, fewer breaks. But I’m sure it’s trashier now.

[-] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 months ago

I got curious and did some quick searching. Looks like it depends greatly on the content and network with dramas usually having shorter breaks than sitcoms. The Big Bang Theory for instance averaged 17 minutes apparently.

One interesting factoid I found was that The Wizard of Oz, which is 101 minutes long, took up a 120 minute block in the 60s unedited but a 180 minute block today with edits to make it shorter.

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[-] stoly@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Gen Z is gravitating towards analog. It’s the boomers who are addicted.

[-] hansolo@lemmy.today 4 points 3 months ago

My first thought as well. My parents and in-laws are constantly on screens while watching TV.

[-] kubok@fedia.io 19 points 3 months ago

I know plenty of Boomers who are additcetd to their smartphones. Even more so than the younger generations. Some even have the TV on in the background while doomscrolling.

[-] BzzBiotch@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

Correction: boomscrolling 😁

[-] kubok@fedia.io 2 points 3 months ago
[-] null@lemmy.org 16 points 3 months ago

This isn't really a shower thought. It's more of a shower opinion.

[-] Mesa@programming.dev 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

To play devil's advocate; being on your phone is an isolating activity, while watching the TV is generally more communal, and was especially so in the era in which Boomers have spent most of their life.

Millenials and most Gen Z have shows that everyone watched growing up, but that's going away increasingly, with on-demand streaming and customized feeds replacing the latter. I think it's a very obvious culprit of why young people today struggle to talk to one another.

I am Gen Z.

[-] FatherPeanut@pawb.social 5 points 3 months ago

Honestly, I've kinda grown to hate these phones, yet I find myself constantly going back like it's a digital addiction. Compared to entertainment media prior to these horror pocketbricks, seemingly everything had more novelty. TV/Movie nights were special and shared with family, and man it was always fun picking out what CD to pop into the player. Gaming sessions were entertaining because my brother would join, and we'd have a couch party with a GameCube, or even a Nintendo DS with a multiplayer game. He was such a screenpeeker.

It plagues me that the more I think on it, I truly dont feel it's nostalgia, there seems to be a lost novelty, and the phone and internet largely seemed to replace it all. Now, couch parties are had as a Discord call, movie nights are supplemented with a customized YouTube feed. Even the era of personal websites are fading away.

On a side note, all those things are possible for us to have today, yet we don't. It feels like a conscious decision to pursue convenience over connection, but why did we pick this path?

[-] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

This. For better or worse people would gather to watch a show at a particular time and day. It often turned into much more of a social event than a let’s watch this show event. A thirty minute show was a several hour gathering of people. Laughing, eating, having a good time.

You cannot replicate that using a phone.

[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 13 points 3 months ago

Because TV is boring as hell most of the times and majority of it is ads which cant be blocked.

At least with phone i have to move my thumbs or put a little taught into how to express myself.

Standard TV is just a complete mind numbing existence. It's pretty much equal to just being in a coma. Even sleeping is better, at least the body is recovering at that time. Standard TV is one of the worst ways to consume data garbage.

Of course there are good movies and documentaries, but those are a minority.

[-] pulsewidth@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

Actually, boomers are some of the most phone-addicted people I come in contact with 🤷‍♂️

[-] Rhaedas@fedia.io 11 points 3 months ago

Gen-X quietly in the corner, remembering how they watched TV a lot too, but also mostly got kicked out of the house to play outside and "don't come back in until dark".

Edit to emphasize this wasn't necessarily a choice we made for ourselves. Boomers (and the Silent Gen before them) wanted their peace from the kids, so we were on our own. Good and bad points to that kind of character building.

[-] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

So much TV. Mostly UHF on Saturday mornings until cable came along.

[-] starlinguk@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

My parents said I was addicted to TV. So they told me I was allowed to watch 4 hours a week and I could pick the programs I wanted to watch from the TV magazine.

Turned out that this just meant I could watch the shows I wanted instead of them switching them off. I only had 3 favourite shows, I never watched anything else anyway.

[-] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago

Millennial here: don’t come back until dark wasn’t exclusive to GenX.

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[-] Triumph@fedia.io 7 points 3 months ago

Boomers grew up in the 40s and 50s. 60s a little. Television had three channels and you watched when the broadcast was happening. That was it. There was already a long history of non-TV activities to do.

Today with phones and telecommunications everywhere, along with "I can consume whatever content I want to any time at my whim", is an entirely different landscape.

I wish the media environment was as basic as it was in the 50s.

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[-] mspencer712@programming.dev 7 points 3 months ago

I think they crave shared experience, the social activity of watching together, of picking something that everyone wants to watch.

I miss it too, except I never wanted to watch what they wanted to watch. I couldn’t do it either.

Now I just miss them.

[-] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago

I've never seen someone panic when the internet went down as my 72yo mother

[-] starlinguk@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

Or my 83-year old mother in law. Most of the stuff that happens happens because she doesn't read. She'll just blindly click.

[-] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

Millennial here, I got (and sometimes still get) my fair-share of bashing for spending way too much time on the computer. Some were concerned that I will be unable to talk with other people about the series currently running on the TV (!), although early on they mourned the "football star" I was supposed to become, with my late stepmother not really giving up on that until she thought instead I could be the next Zuckerberg (TL;DR: she originally hated computers because they crashed and she also read an article on the Columbine shooting once, but changed her mind once Facebook came out).

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[-] TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

In the worst case Boomer can’t even remember how we watch TV in the 90s which was exactly the same way but without our phone. We didn’t watch TV scotched to the screen like people like to think, there’s a reason why ads are blaring noise like a fucking bombing alarm now.

[-] leadore@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Boomer here (cusp between boomer & gen x): Why not both put down the phone AND turn off the TV?

I have a TV but pretty much only turn it on for local news & weather. I absolutely can't tolerate the ads and there are no good shows anyway except a few on PBS. I use a flip phone. I won't call it a 'dumb' phone because it's still android underneath and has navigation. But no internet.

Of course that doesn't stop me from sitting on my ass in front of a computer on the internet, but at least I'm not doing that 24/7 and have other things for entertainment like books, games, hobbies.

edit: not to imply I speak for other boomers. Most of them are on their smartphones all the time, getting notifications every 5 seconds like everyone else.

[-] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 4 points 3 months ago

Not a shower thought.

Also never heard this from any boomer - and I have a large family that extends from 90 year-old grandparents to newborns.

[-] proudblond@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

It’s adjacent but my boomer dad thinks I should be getting my news from network news stations since I also don’t get the newspaper. For some reason he thinks those sources are more reliable than the internet without thinking about who owns them.

[-] EmotionalSupportBees@lemmy.today 3 points 3 months ago

The boomers can't either. When I visit my parents half the time when I look over at my parents they're on their phone.

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