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Advice before bottom surgery? (piefed.blahaj.zone)

Hello all!

I’m using an alt to avoid talking about this on my main but I have a date for bottom surgery (Penile inversion vaginoplasty) very soon, and was wondering if anyone has any tips or advice? I’ve read everything they’ve sent me many times through but thought it’d be wise to ask on here too.

I have a week in hospital and then two weeks stuck at home. I have a steam deck loaded up with games and a kindle loaded up with books, ready for the long haul.

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[-] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago

Expect a few months before you can do normal activities. Try to have someone available for the first 3 months to help with shopping, laundry, and other things that require lots of bending, carrying, long walks, or stairs. The more of that you have to do yourself the first 3 months, the more risk of complications and excess pain.

[-] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 2 points 5 months ago

Go for a long walk the day beforehand. You're not gonna get much exercise for a while. I stayed active until the surgery, and I was getting compliments from the nurses on how willing I was to stand up and move. Most patients just want to lay in bed all day.

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

How about you ask the questions, and we'll do our best to answer them! :)

[-] trans_throwaway@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

I guess I'm trying to work out what I don't know but should know. Are there any things people wish they were more prepared for or knew would happen etc? Are there any mistakes people made that I could avoid thanks to their advice?

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

Honestly, no. You'll be ok, and even if you forget to ask something or something surprises you, it will all work out one way or the other :)

Of course, that's not helpful when you're really close to a major life milestone, but that's why the questions probably need to come from you :)

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