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Advice before bottom surgery? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 5 months ago by trans_throwaway@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/transgender@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Hello all!

I’m using an alt to avoid talking about this on my main but I have a date for bottom surgery (Penile inversion vaginoplasty) very soon, and was wondering if anyone has any tips or advice? I’ve read everything they’ve sent me many times through but thought it’d be wise to ask on here too.

I have a week in hospital and then two weeks stuck at home. I have a steam deck loaded up with games and a kindle loaded up with books, ready for the long haul.

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[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

How about you ask the questions, and we'll do our best to answer them! :)

[-] trans_throwaway@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

I guess I'm trying to work out what I don't know but should know. Are there any things people wish they were more prepared for or knew would happen etc? Are there any mistakes people made that I could avoid thanks to their advice?

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

Honestly, no. You'll be ok, and even if you forget to ask something or something surprises you, it will all work out one way or the other :)

Of course, that's not helpful when you're really close to a major life milestone, but that's why the questions probably need to come from you :)

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