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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by Vijfsnippervijf@feddit.nl to c/Plural

First, over the last weeks, we had an internal discussion on whether or not to come out on Reddit, and ended up with a majority in favour.

We are an endogenic system and have been since the body we belong to was born. We maintain a collective identity separate from our internal identities but each one of us is still a full person internally. Our body is 21 years old at the time of writing and AMAB. Our collective identity has the following characteristics:

  • Gender: bigender (non-binary)

  • Mental/intra age: ~13-15

  • Country of origin: Netherlands/Peru

  • Pronouns: they/them

  • Current study: Bachelor of Data Science (NL)

  • Current side job: Supermarket/grocery store inventory keeper

We have way too many hobbies to count in a non-dedicated post, however we can say that we love creativity, technology, travel and togetherness!

In total we have 9 members at the time of writing, the last to join having done so a couple months ago. Here are the names, ages, identities and roles of some of us:

Luka: 29yo trans-female human, gatherer and manager internally, does not have any specific task when fronting;

Timo: 8yo bigender human, internal judge, cook or musician when fronting;

Tes: 55yo robot, internal headspace mapper and gathermate, hygienic or housekeeper when fronting;

Mita: 3yo female octopus, archaeological collector, mentor and councilwoman internally, negotiator when fronting;

Nero: 16yo non-binary human, internal decision helper, reader when fronting.

It feels like these help the body and the collective identity more than they hurt, but we might still need help from others in managing our system.

EDIT: you’re welcome to ask us any questions. It may be someone else who answers, however.

~Nero, 16-01-2026 (originally posted on Reddit.com, reposted by Nero on 19-01-2026)

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Plurality

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This is a community for those who identify as, or are questioning if they may be, plural. No matter what kind of, or the source of their plurality all are part of the plurality umbrella and are more than welcome here! We also encourage those who are curious about plurality and want to learn more about it, as well as those who are questioning.

What is plurality? - still being written

TLDR for community rules

  1. Follow lemmy.blahaj.zone general rules: no personal attacks, no insults, no doxing etc.
  2. All plural identities are valid; do not dispute the validity of anyone or anymany.
  3. Don’t pressure those who are questioning; let them decide whether they’re plural or not.
  4. We are not therapists or professionals; this community is not a substitute for professional help > (though we understand being careful with 'professionals' as they are often not kind to us plural folks).
  5. Be mindful of what you post here; put trigger warning in the post title for negative and/or triggering contents.
  6. All rules apply regardless of who or what is using an account; as with real life, each member of a plural group is responsible for the entire group.
  7. Do not insist any stop using a term they prefer to refer to themselves.

More info about this community's rules - still being written

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