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There was this one mom and pop burger joint that had the simplest, most basic, super greasiest burgers but to this day they were the best burgers I've ever tasted. The place was tucked away in an alley and it was one of those "you have to be a local to even know this exists" places.

Also, having moved from a smaller town to a bigger city, I miss how close everything and everyone was. You wanted to go see someone, or go do something, it was always just a walk away instead of having to deal with all the hullabaloo of traffic and bus lines and yada yada.

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[-] randombullet@programming.dev 3 points 1 week ago

All the mom and pop restaurants I grew up with that have since closed.

Also knowing all the short cuts it took through the neighbor's yards to get home.

[-] zlatiah@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Moved from a mega metropolis and got shuffled around a lot

Might be an oddity here but... I basically missed nothing. I grew up pretty sheltered, and on top of that my hometown didn't really have much going for it despite its size. Probably the only redeeming quality is the high-quality public transit... which isn't remotely as good as it seems if you actually live there

I think now that I've grown up & have more defined interests, my hometown is starting to feel a bit more exciting since there are all kinds of hobby groups & such... But still feels mostly soulless to me IMO

[-] 30p87@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

Being next to my servers all the time.

[-] YurkshireLad@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Family and the memories, I think. And the hills, and maybe some of the architecture. Otherwise, every time I go back, I’m glad that I left.

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Definitely the curry - cheap and really tasty. Also the moors are great to wander in a Wuthering Heights kinda way.

[-] hogmomma@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I'm from Ft. Worth, TX and have lived in CT for 20 years and I couldn't put my finger on what exactly it was that I missed most about it until I went down there last year. It's the balmy evening breeze. Gets me every time.

[-] SlartyBartFast@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

The bicyclability

[-] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I miss being able to hear my own thoughts when I go out in nature.

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Honestly, not much.

I went from the west coast (Nevada) to the Chicago area. I miss a couple of friends, fast commutes, and good Mexican food. That’s about it. Chicago has so much more opportunity and access to a ton of things.

[-] ShadyGrove@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Chicago does have some amazing Mexican food though! To be fair, I haven't had any in Nevada, but I would imagine it's comparable?

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There’s a larger portion of migrants from Mexico and South America, in general, so Nevada (the west coast really) has a ton more authentic selections.

There are some good places here, but it’s also sporadic whereas the west coast it’s all over the place!

[-] alsimoneau@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago
[-] CCMan1701A@startrek.website 2 points 1 week ago

The slim chance I'll see one of my school friends while it and about. There is not no way I'll see anyone I grew up with unless we plan to.

[-] this@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

We had a small restraunt similar to chipotle but like, way, way better. Nothing away from home even comes close, I miss that place.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago
[-] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

yup. I don't miss much about the south at all - the lack of seasons, the horrible infrastructure, the shitty schools and shittier politics, but goddamn do I miss cajun food and texmex.

it makes me hungry just to think about what I'd eat landing in NO or san antonio.

[-] Underwaterbob@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Air quality. I moved from eastern Canada to southeast Asia. It's always hazy here by comparison. And you can see like half the stars. There has been a little improvement in recent years. Maybe China is getting its shit together.

[-] WhereAreMySocks@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Honestly? Not much.

I grew up in the countryside, there was maybe like 50 kids in my entire school. Somehow I became the main bully victim. Later I spent a few summers at the grocery store which doubled as a cafe in the weekends, and honestly it showed me the adults weren't any better with their constant gossiping and rumour spreading.

I got out of there as fast as I could afford it. It took a few tries in different places both big and small, but I eventually landed on my feet in a small city.

Still close enough to nature that the countryside of me doesnt feel cramped. Found my crowd, made friends, and discovered passions I never knew I had. Life is pretty good right about now. Bought an apartment with my partner a few years ago. Now we're gonna be parents soon!

I've reestablished connection with my family too. We've talked it all through, and now I go home to visit and spend time with them once or twice a year, so I guess that's the answer to your question. Anyone else there I couldn't care less for.

[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

The food, the city, pretty much everything... Except the people

[-] remon@ani.social 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Moved away from a small rural village. Except for a couple of friends/relatives that are still living there am not missing a single thing.

[-] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

I grew up in a small town in rural Scotland and now live in a city in England. So I miss the fields, the sea, the hills, the forests, the food, the people, the closeness, the pace of life, the community.

[-] ProfThadBach@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm from a what was a little town in Western North Carolina and a kind of missed the smallness of it but now it's just turned into and Asheville suburb.

[-] scytale@piefed.zip 1 points 1 week ago

I used to live in a dense mega-city. Traffic and pollution aside, I miss how most things were reachable by walking or a short public transportation ride. A convenience store on every other corner, grocery store 5-10 min ride/drive away, and everything you need within a 4 mile radius.

[-] truite@jlai.lu 1 points 1 week ago
[-] Tehhund@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Feeling superior to everyone.

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 1 week ago

One dozen warm, salty panisses rolled in a paper and an anisette to slide them down peacefully. Yes I'm a walking cliché so what

[-] Smokeless7048@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I grew up in the Okanagan, and moved to a rural coastal community.

I miss the seasons, coldy snowy winter's, asphalt melting summers.

I also miss the fruit and veggies, while I have blackberries here, I don't have the apples, peaches, strawberries, and endless veggies.

[-] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Zestos and Polly's Freeze and that's about it.

I miss their malts, they were always the best.

[-] lucg@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago)
  • shelf-stable spinach
  • quiet and splash-free porous asphalt
  • as well as non-car infrastructure
  • not needing to book a train 4 months ahead to get a fair price. I didn't even know it was abnormal that I could show up to any station, tap my card, and board any train that goes to my destination
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