Also sometimes saying no to anything. How dare we
I have an imaginary boyfriend I refer to when I reject men, I've got the key points about him memorised. Bad men respect another man's claim to me more than they respect my no
Oh man. I straight up told a guy I was engaged, but he said that didn't matter because I didn't have a kid with my fiancé. Saying "No" and being committed to someone didn't matter. I was fair game until someone got me pregnant.
One man's response to "I have a girlfriend" was "So do I".
They're just gross and disrespectful, the goalposts constantly moving.
See, engagement doesn't matter. Tell them you want sex because your trichomoniasis is flaring up and you need something to scratch that itch.
I'm using this.
I've already taught my neices the art of responding to dick pics with better dick pics.
Oh good lord!
and let's be honest, the kids are a turn off for reasons less than about the man's sense of honor 😅
That last sentence is why I carry knives. 😠
I am a cis male, married with kids. I am also a nurse, and work mostly alongside women everyday. Would my thoughts and perspective on the matter be appreciated? I have observations as well. "No" is a valid answer, if this is a place for venting and I'll show myself out. This just popped up in my ALL feed. I'm not creeping.
Hey stoic! Thanks so much for your respectful comment. We are trans inclusive women only, so please don't comment again. You'd be very welcome at !witchesvspatriarchy@lemmy.ca though ❤️
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