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Respect fire guy (sh.itjust.works)

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[-] UltraMagnus0001@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago

Brown guy here, I like fire too

[-] vaionko@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago

You know it's American when skin colour is mentioned for no reason

[-] eestileib 19 points 2 days ago

I went to an engineering school and I am here to tell you that pyromancy is practiced by every type of person.

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago

The best pyromancy comes from the United States, we have such classics as The German Barbeque, Korean Barbeque, Vietnam Barbeque, and California.

[-] AllOutOfBubbleGum@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Is that a jab about all the forest fires CA keeps experiencing? If so, well done. I chuckled.

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago

I'm from the Inland Empire here in SoCal I have to make jokes or the sirens call of the inferno starts to eat away at ones mind.

[-] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 5 points 2 days ago

You forgot the Midwest Bonfire with 1000 drunken teenagers and a fire big enough that the local fire chief comes to check on it.

[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Isn't that just Sunday?

[-] Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

Yeah, whats the deal with "white guy"? Guys like fucking with fire. Black, white, brown, blue. If theres an alien species on the other side of the galaxy, you can bet they have something very much like guys, and the love fucking with fire.

[-] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

This is the campfire equivalent of that one person who makes best friends with the family dog at every party. Some of us enjoy the group but our social skills are only on par with fires and dogs.

[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 153 points 2 days ago

There's something really cathartic about placing shit in a firepit and just watching it burn away.

[-] javiwhite@feddit.uk 89 points 2 days ago

" ...some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the wood burn "

[-] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 37 points 2 days ago

White guy detected

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[-] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago
[-] MagicianWithABadPlan@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

I too feel very seen right now.

[-] SapphironZA@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago

I wonder if there is a genetic component to keeping fire for recreation or comfort.

I think all societies have a cooking on fire aspect.

The use of fire seems to play a much more active role in societies in cold climates. It seems to play a less prominent role in the tropics with warmer nighttime temperatures.

[-] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

This reminded me of something my dad told me when I was younger. It was mostly to justify saying that no, I did not need a TV in my room, but still kinda interesting:

In many cultures (definitely the ones my family grew out of), the fire served as a gathering spot. People would talk about stuff, share food and jokes, and relax together. It was a shared experience and source of comfort that helped strengthen interpersonal bonds.

His argument was that the family TV served a similar function (without the whole 'also it's the means for cooked food' aspect, which shouldn't be overlooked). It's a point that made some sense to me at that stage of late 20th century mainstream society.

Hmm...the 21st century, defined as billions of little fires, and many of us cold. There's a really pretentious poem here somewhere.

[-] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Yeah I miss the days when my entire family would gather by the TV at night to watch something, anything really, I could be laying on the sofa reading a book but still enjoy the company and finding something interesting while channel surfing was it's own joy, now I can stream or download anything I want to watch on all my devices and I can't find anything interesting that makes me feel the sense of peace I had back then as a kid

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[-] breecher@sh.itjust.works 70 points 2 days ago

I didn't know it was a racial trait.

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 40 points 2 days ago

Yeah, like why does race need to be involved here? Fire should be for everyone to enjoy.

[-] sem 21 points 2 days ago

Outdoor recreation and camping was and still sort of is exclusionary to black folks especially, but there's a lot of people trying to change that

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[-] bstix@feddit.dk 49 points 2 days ago

It's all good until you experience a fire where there's two of them.

[-] Glitterbomb@lemmy.world 38 points 2 days ago

'I was kind of saving that stick'

[-] phtheven@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago

'Dude, you're choking it'

[-] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

Oh man.
One = chill small little fire.
Two = big fire, no one's getting cold.
Three = call the fire department cause we're about to start throwing big shit on this flame.

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

Lol, depends on the group. I was recently at an sca event and had a fire going with another tender, and we worked great keeping the fire stoked and we're super chill about it. We even helped each other reset the stack as it collapsed and more fuel was added.

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[-] Sunbutt23@lemmy.world 94 points 2 days ago

Of course I know him. He’s me!

[-] violetsoftness@piefed.blahaj.zone 59 points 2 days ago

I absolutely adore keeping the fire going. I was a white man for decades so i'm not dodging the allegations. I have never been camping where i was not the last person awake and always keeping the fire just right until all the wood was gone.

It's all about the air flow. Too much and everything burns too quickly in a roaring furnace, too little and you have no light and not enough heat. By constantly adjusting the logs you can maintain the proper air flow to keep everything just right. Rotating a log to present fresh wood to an eager flame here. Squeezing two logs a little closer to reduce the oxygen and trim things up there. A proper fire adjusting stick (and a backup) is crucial.

Give me a stack of seasoned wood, a k-bar, a magnesium fire starter and a comfy camp chair and i'm in heaven from the time the sun sets until the wood runs out.

[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 38 points 2 days ago

I was a white man for decades

I feel like someone's gotta ask: Are you no longer a white man?

[-] syaochan@feddit.it 66 points 2 days ago

Too much soot from staying near the fire

[-] Alxe@lemmy.world 38 points 2 days ago

Probably a trans woman? From the name and Fed instance.

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[-] violetsoftness@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

@Alxe has it, I am now a white woman :)

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[-] Sabata11792@ani.social 27 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don't know why, I just have to keep poking that fucker with the dedicated poking stick, then wave the burning poking stick around for a bit.

[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

That's 100% my brother. The weirdest part, it looks so much like him I had to text him and ask if the chick in the background is an old girlfriend, because I'm genuinely not sure that's not my brother.

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[-] Saleh@feddit.org 32 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You all laugh until the fire is in the oven of a hut with freezing temperatures outside and the fire guy is the one getting up in the middle of the night to keep the fire going. You then wake up to a cozy hut instead of spending the first two hours awake freezing in your sleeping bags.

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[-] Get_Off_My_WLAN@fedia.io 47 points 2 days ago

I feel like it's a do-or-die caveman instinct or something.

I was hanging out with a group of people in my friend's backyard. We were supposed to have a bonfire, but the wood was wet and wasn't burning. We used all sorts of fuel, fire starters, etc. I saw what looked like corner of a log turn into ember, so wouldn't give up. Never got a flame when we were there, of course.

I felt very proud though when my friend sent me door camera footage of the firepit turning into a massive blaze in the middle of night that woke her up.

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[-] buttnugget@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

This is a white thing? I never knew that.

[-] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 days ago

I'm black and I like fire, though aside from a fireplace visiting family once, I haven't had much opportunities to tend an open flame. I did enjoy keeping it going that one time though.

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[-] notabot@piefed.social 15 points 2 days ago

Sabre-tooth tigers might sneak up and attack if the fire goes out, at least, I've not been attacked by one when the fire is burning, so I just can't take the risk.

[-] daggermoon@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago

It's me, i'm that guy. I'm fun to camp with ladies ;)

[-] Chee_Koala@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago
[-] lime@feddit.nu 44 points 2 days ago

sorry you had to find out this way

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[-] distantsounds@lemmy.world 31 points 2 days ago

DONT HATE it’s all he’s got

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