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Not sure if this is the right place for this, but I have to post it somewhere.

About a week ago we picked up a little puppy from the SPCA. They said he's a whippet cross short-haired pointer, but I don't really see either of those breeds in him. Don't care, he's adorable. Decided to call him Pippin.

We already have a rescue greyhound, Pete and they can be touchy at the best of times, so we just fostered initially, with a plan to fully adopt if things went well.

Meet and greet was pointless IMHO. The shelter is 3 hours away, so poor Pete had a 3 hour drive before finding himself in a noisy dog shelter with a 3 month old puppy. He was so stressed that I don't think he even really registered the puppy was there. Anyway, the point is apparently just to make sure they aren't going to attack the other dog on sight, so we were given the green light to take the puppy home.

The drive back was uneventful. Pippin puked on me twice, poor thing. Obviously never been in a car before. Pete just seemed to be happy we weren't in the shelter anymore. Had a few pee stops along the way, where we let them interact on leash a bit more. Pete was fine. Gave him a sniff, and then pretty much ignored him.

We did our best over the next week to do all the things you're meant to do. We both work from home, so they were never alone unsupervised. We watched Pete for signs of stress, and separated them when he'd had enough. We also had a section of the bedroom where Pete sleeps cordoned off, so the puppy couldn't get in there, but Pete could. We started crate training the puppy, and fed him in there away from Pete. We went on 1:1 walks with Pete, and kept him as closely as we could to his normal routine. We did our best to prevent Pippin playing with high value toys. We did everything we could think of, and everything suggested online.

Things seemed to be going ok initially. When they were outside, the greyhound was fine with him. When we were inside though, it was a different story. It just started with Pete looking really uncomfortable when the puppy was around. Stiff, whale eyes, lip licking etc. Then he started growling if Pippin got too close to him. Usually at that point we'd separate them. Last night though, Pete was in one corner of the room, and Pippin was in another. It all happened really fast, and we're not sure what triggered it, but Pete lunged at Pippin and chased him out the room nipping him the whole way.

So the fact that he did that without a growl first, and the fact that it's gone from ignoring him, to uncomfortable, to attacking tells us that Pete is probably not going to accept Pippin. Like, we could keep trying but we run the risk of Pete injuring Pippin.

So my today my partner is taking him back to the shelter. We're hoping the fact that it's at least familiar to him, and his littermates are still there (they were born there) will mean it's a little less stressful for him.

We're devastated. I can't stop crying. He was only here a week, but we fell in love.

I dunno. Send good vibes please

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[-] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 2 points 1 day ago

I'm so sorry.

[-] farngis_mcgiles@sh.itjust.works 24 points 3 days ago

having an adoption go wrong sucks. that pup is adorable i bet they'll get picked up fast try not to blama yourself.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 19 points 3 days ago

I'm so sorry, but you did the right thing. Pippin will have a good life in another home.

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Look, I get it. You put in a lot of effort and worked really hard to try to make it work with Pete. Don’t forget that. Sometimes relationships (even between dogs) just don’t work out. You and your partner made the right decision taking Pippin back to the shelter. Take that picture of Pippin and get it printed and hang it on the wall.

💙

[-] chickenf622@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago

You loved the dog enough to make the hard decision that was in their best interest not yours. Take solace in that fact as much as it sucks.

[-] Gerudo@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 days ago

You did fine, every usual tip you followed.l better than a lot of pet owners I've known. Sometimes, it just doesn't work out.

[-] Brekky@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Take comfort that you made the hard choice for the good of the pup despite how much it upset you.

[-] TheFermentalist@reddthat.com 4 points 3 days ago

I can see the GSP in his face. You did the right thing, but holy shit it’s rough.

[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I'm sorry but that is a really selfish reason.

It takes time for a pet to get acclimated. Several months at the very minimum.

You don't just give up on a pooch like that; you train them.

If you don't have the patience to properly train your dogs, then you should have never adopted any to begin with.

You are a terrible person. Shame on you.

[-] Kraiden@kbin.earth 12 points 3 days ago

You either didn't read the whole post, don't know dogs, or you're a troll. Either way, go fuck yourself

[-] scytale@piefed.zip 2 points 3 days ago

Not familiar with the process so pardon my ignorance, but do you just return it to the shelter? Or do you have to find someone to give it away to directly?

[-] Kraiden@kbin.earth 2 points 3 days ago

I'm not sure what the normal process is, but as we hadn't had him very long, and because we were worried it would escalate further, they were ok with taking him back.

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