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I know that there are a lot of trans people on hexbear, and I know their beliefs are sincere. What I don't understand is how they square the fact that they would be brutally suppressed, raped, tortured, murdered by the very groups/governments they unwaveringly love and support. It sickens me. Is it a manifestation of self-hatred? I just don't get why they would degrade themselves like this.

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[-] EvilEdgelord@sh.itjust.works 41 points 2 weeks ago

They're attention whores, and you willingly feed them.

[-] Chronographs@lemmy.zip 27 points 2 weeks ago

For the most part because you can support their right not to be bombed into oblivion to further America’s imperial ambitions and also disagree with how they treat their lgbtq people. Often these countries were left leaning in the past until America installed a right-wing government.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 34 points 2 weeks ago

But you can support these people without supporting their corrupt and violent government?

I stand for solidarity with all peoples, not their rulers.

[-] CommunistLady 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I usually just lurk blahaj occaisionally but your post annoyed me enough to post for the first time in 2 years

From their thread:

https://hexbear.net/post/5521160

Most places in the world are fairly equally shit for trans people. If a place is doing well, it is often hard for trans people still. If a place is in war and in famine, downgrade those conditions a step as you would if it were somewhere nice and calm.

And Iran isn't even the worst conditions. Of the countries with the most trans surgeries, the USA is number one, Thailand is two, and Iran is three. Iran's major cities are very modern and even look nicer to live in than many American ones.

Cost of living is very important to trans people, as we are often making less due to discrimination. Every trans person I've talked to in China has mentioned the discrimination and some unusual cultural quirks, but they've also mentioned they've not met a single homeless trans person. For the record, it's very easy to find homeless trans people in America, you can find some on hexbear even in our mutual aid comm. And despite the discrimination, these Chinese trans people have cheap housing in the downtown of major cities

[-] kayzeekayzee 18 points 2 weeks ago

Really? Right in front of my blahaj.zone?

I'm pretty sure if someone posts something transphobic, ada personally hunts them down and shoots them with a rifle.

[-] couldhavebeenyou@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Lol some top comments from their struggle thread following this one:

Stupid fucking ass moron liberals can't fathom having multiple different priorities, and in this case holding internationalism and socialism through anti-imperialism as a priority above sexuality or gender-identity.

I actually think they CAN comprehend it because they all hold nationalism above these things anyway. Gender-identity and sexuality to them are deprioritised when it comes to America's strategic alliance with Saudi Arabia for example, why? Because they are nationalists that place their nationalism and supremacy above that of these issues.

The good old "well, they're muslim so they have to be as bad as the Taliban/ISIS and completely indistinguishable. I won't look into this at all." thing. Israel's policies are in line with many of these nations on LGBTQ, with exceptions only to pink-wash their genocidal ethno-state.

[-] pissnshitworldwide@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago

LMAO I got 4 comments deep in their thread before I bailed from the radioactive dumbassery. First one accused me of masturbating while writing this post (WTF?!), second accused me of supporting bombing those countries (I don't), third was defending non-voters (Because Trump loves LGBT, Iran, and Palestine, right guys?) and the fourth said Iran has better trans healthcare than the US ( Hmmm... Wonder what that could be about...)

[-] Zetta@mander.xyz 10 points 2 weeks ago

My understanding is that the majority of them want to see America fall (for good reason IMO, we're just billionaire slaves) so they vocally support the opposition to America. They understand the terrible aspects of some of those countries, but given we live in a western propaganda machine that covers those issues readily they focus on pointing out Americas hypocrisy and highlighting all the issues that our propaganda agencys (news) ignore and sweep under the rug.

You'd be better of asking In an instance that isn't defederated from them (like mine), I assume yours is defederated since nobody from hexbear is here yet.

[-] 4am@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 weeks ago

Some of them actively Stan for the authoritarian regimes and deny their atrocities, even when there is concrete proof. Even when it’s obvious who is in the wrong.

Others are just pointing out why other countries respond negatively to the United States’ actions.

They are not the same.

[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yeah but then they go and stay stupid shit like "censorship is a good thing". So it's kind of hard to understand the Tankie mind when they literally support oppression. Westerners may be brainwashed by propaganda but at least not all of them are authoritarian bootlickers.

[-] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

This is MeanwhileOnGrad you're writing in.

[-] flamingos@feddit.uk 7 points 2 weeks ago

TBF, they do criticise Russia for its LGBT policies: https://feddit.uk/post/9516220

[-] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

I don't think they support (modern) russia, they do oppose ukraine though.

[-] couldhavebeenyou@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

They most certainly support them

Wrt China, there were some threads about how why you shouldn´t move there if you´re lgbt+, but it´s all just a really smart play by the CCP "because such rights should come gradually and it would be too divisive at a time where their people need to stay united and strong"

[-] breecher@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Bizarre how almost everything they post is regurgitation of Putin propaganda. Believe what they do, not what they say.

[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

hamas famously known to be a long time supporter of LGBTQ+

[-] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Israel just murder a hundred innocent trans people. They bombed a prison in Tehran, including a wing that housed the regime's trans prisoners. They dropped a massive precision bomb right on top of the trans wing and murdered a hundred innocent trans prisoners. I can't recall Hamas ever doing something like that to trans folks.

[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Fuck state of Israel, fuck Hamas. To think that a fundamentally islamic group would be ok with LGBTQ+ people rights is simply delusional though.

[-] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Why do you think that then?

[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Coming from a much more mildly religious context (compared to Hamas), I know how the majority of religious people feel about this issue. My perspective on the topic is if they are not oppressing them now, they sure will later especially if they come to power.

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[-] wetbeardhairs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago

Find one person who has a fully consistent ethical and moral framework. One.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 24 points 2 weeks ago

You can’t just reply that to dismiss value criticism.

[-] wetbeardhairs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

The criticism is that the instance isn't consistent in it's beliefs. My point is that no one is.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 20 points 2 weeks ago

Sure, but “no one’s perfect” in the way you use it just ends up dismissing and sidelining valid criticism.

[-] wetbeardhairs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 weeks ago

I mean... yeah. You guys are pointing at fucking tankies and expecting them to have a logically consistent framework for their beliefs. Lmao.

[-] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 weeks ago

This should have been your first reply. The blanket statements were a bridge too far. This criticizes the actual instance and describes the problem.

[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

"Whatabout"

[-] it_depends_man@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Consistency is so easy: "I'm right, everyone else is wrong, in all questions, for all eterntiy." Done.

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[-] couldhavebeenyou@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago
[-] breecher@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Ah, the whataboutism. Inevitable result of the confused tankie when confronted with reality.

[-] redlegion@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago

It's not like Israel would be any better.

[-] pissnshitworldwide@sh.itjust.works 39 points 2 weeks ago

I don't support Israel either

[-] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago

Whatabout aside, in the specific areas of trans rights they are better than most of the places listed by OP, from what I can tell.

[-] Stovetop@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I mean, on the LGBT+ front, Israel is not going to imprison or murder you just for being queer like other countries would. But they might if you're the wrong shade of brown and call their invisible sky daddy the wrong name, or even just have the wrong political opinions online. Or even if they think you're close enough to any of these things that you're probably enough of a bad person anyways.

But IIRC, Tel Aviv nevertheless has a notably robust queer community, so it's probably still safer to simply exist there as a gay person compared to the 60+ countries where homosexuality is criminalized, or the subset of those where it can actually get you killed.

At any rate, countries/organizations can be bad in different ways, so I don't think it invalidates what OP said, even if it's possible to whatabout other examples that the hivemind would agree with more.

[-] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

Israel did just specifically blow up Irans prison where they keep trans people

[-] couldhavebeenyou@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

They attacked the HQ of a horrible religious militia which was physically linked to a prison where they held, amongst others, a lot of trans detainees. It´s Iran's regime that´s claiming "oh look at how they´re specifically bombing our precious trans prisoners"

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[-] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

So did the Palestinians. My ex did a few journalistic pieces on that. Go look up Tanya Habjouqa and the photog work she did on middle east trans people. It's fascinating, beautiful, and sad.

[-] redlegion@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

There's just this bizarre Israel apologist stance that isn't founded in reality whatsoever, and it's almost as sinister as the extreme hatred of Jews generally.

I'm perfectly contented to take a non-interventionist stance on pretty much everything in the middle east. You can't protect any group in that region without aligning with fascists.

[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 3 points 2 weeks ago

mandatory support of Hamas

Are you conflating the support of a nation with the support of a state that exercises control over that nation?

[-] Rampsquatch@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 weeks ago

We aren't, but hexbear seems to.

[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 2 points 2 weeks ago

Hm. Alright.

[-] pepsi_not_coke@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Hexbear are a bunch of transwashing chuds.

[-] parker@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

i find it oddly strange people from instances like .zip downvote this post @Sami@lemmy.zip , generally i think the zip stance is acceptable of people of all minorities (AFAIK? but Sami is an admin from .zip so.. weird stance to take) which dbzer0 instance would be too then theres some oddities users one downvoted too @anarchrist@lemmy.dbzer0.com some people here really in disguise "secretly" downvoting posts a fascist/bigot bootlicker would

[-] Sami@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

You're engaging in bad faith just like the post itself is doing.

[-] parker@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

im open to your critic but just calling it bad faith and not elaborating more on why you think so is also bad faith

[-] Sami@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Sure, framing it as mandatory wholesale support for x,y,z is disengenuous the same way it would be to call someone who is not vehemently against the United States as a concept in its entirety a bigot due to their current persecution of racial and LGBT minorities. Multiple things can be true at once but when you zero in on specific injustices that nearly the entire world exhibited just 2 decades ago and apply the same standard to people experiencing very different conditions (for example, people who have only known conflict for their entire lives and have not had the same opportunities that rich, safe countries have had) then it comes off as dishonest or at the very least just very myopic and ill informed. Should those injustices be criticized: yes. Are the people pointing out the perceived hypocracy doing it because they genuinely care about LGBT people impacted in those countries: no. I don't agree with all perspectives expressed in the other direction but I understand why they exist when we exist in a space where certain people are painted with broad strokes while others are afforded infinite nuance in their positions.

[-] parker@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

fair points i may have misjudged you, my apologies

[-] anarchrist@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Idk where you're getting this but my client has no up or down vote on this and I don't recall reading this post. I normally ignore flame war rage bait horseshit unless some turd ats me on some purity test witch hunt so congrats I've down voted it now.

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