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[-] DocMcStuffin@lemmy.world 251 points 2 weeks ago

That's an interesting way of saying statutory rape.

[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 140 points 2 weeks ago

its kinda gross how far the media will go to not use the word rape... especially in this context

[-] miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 2 weeks ago

Trump's a rapist but the media is afraid to say so. Suspected pedo, too.

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[-] procrastitron@lemmy.world 32 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

They’re not lawyers, though… they’re reporters.

They’re just reporting what the prosecutors accused the person of and if the prosecutor didn’t use the term “statutory rape” then the reporters probably shouldn’t either.

They don’t want to get the reporting wrong if they aren’t experts on the subject and even more so the don’t want to expose themselves to lawsuits if they do get the reporting wrong.

I really don’t think the reporters are trying to minimize the heinousness of the crime (at least not in this case). It looks more like they are just being conservative in what they state.

[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 17 points 2 weeks ago

also; reporters dont write headlines

[-] procrastitron@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

That’s true but the same issue applies to both the article (which doesn’t use the term “statutory rape”), and the editor (who likely doesn’t have any legal expertise).

[-] RejZoR@lemmy.ml 108 points 2 weeks ago

Always the same wording when the rapist is a woman...

[-] dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 weeks ago
[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

I don't know if we do that unironically anymore.

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[-] magnetosphere@fedia.io 59 points 2 weeks ago

I’m not very surprised that a teacher raped a student. I AM surprised (and glad) that she was dumb enough to talk about it TO ANOTHER TEACHER.

[-] HowAbt2day@futurology.today 8 points 2 weeks ago

Happy cake day

[-] JPSound@lemmy.world 54 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Rape. It was rape. Call it what it is. The longer we tiptoe around teachers having sex with kids, the longer the problem will exist. She raped a kid.

[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 weeks ago

Statutory rape in particular. We need to normalize the usage of the term statutory rape.

[-] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 43 points 2 weeks ago

Might be a power thing, but what adult woman wants an inexperienced 16 year old?

[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 58 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

A pedophile.

Like literally, by definition.

10 year age gap there, 26 yo woman vs 16 yo dude.

Flip the sexes around, that's a pedophile, no argument at all.

Other than from people who really, really really feel its necesarry to 'well actually you mean ephebophile'.

Grooming is kinda the whole modus operandi here, they get off on the power dynamic, in every way you can interperet 'get off' and 'power dynamic'.

[-] Buffalox@lemmy.world 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Considering he is above the age of consent it is obviously NOT pedophilia.
If she had been a neighbor it would be legal. The reason it isn't is because she is a figure of authority. Which technically from a legal perspective makes it rape.
In 14 US states it is actually legal!!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent
Are you really saying 14 states have legalized pedophilia?
Do you even remember how it is to be 16?

My sister has been happily married to her husband who is 15 years older than her for 30+ years, are you saying my brother in law is a pedophile because of the age difference?

You are judgemental and pushing your norms on other people. And it's disgusting you have so many upvotes!

I had decided to resign from this debate, but some of the comments here, like yours are just so far beyond what lawmakers have decided in by far the most countries it's insane. Are you also considering LGBT immoral?

It's wrong yes, but the term pedo should be reserved for when it's justified, which it isn't here.

[-] Nythos@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

My sister has been happily married to her husband who is 15 years older than her for 30+ years, are you saying my brother in law is a pedophile because of the age difference?

I’m not the one saying pedophilia here but relationships like this entirely depend on what age they got together I feel.

[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Are you really saying 14 states have legalized pedophilia?

Yes, asterisk.

Asterisk:

Unless those laws specifically have something like... you as a 16 yo can consent to sex with someone 16, 17, 18, some cutoff age after which it goes back to not being ok, then yes.

(I'm fairly confident a good number of those state laws do include some kind of consideration of that)

The age differential matters.

Once it gets too much, its no longer two post-puberty kids exploring their sexuality, the difference in maturity and social status becomes manipulative and exploitative.

Do you even remember how it is to be 16?

Yes.

I was interested in girls my age, +/- one year.

Lost my virginity to a 17 yo girl, one grade above me, not my teacher, 10 years older.

When I was 26? When I am now 36?

Uh yeah, still interested in women roughly my age, though the age range has widened a bit as I get older... doesn't get anywhere near 16 though, more like +/- 5 at 36, +/- 3 at 26.

My sister has been happily married to her husband who is 15 years older than her for 30+ years, are you saying my brother in law is a pedophile because of the age difference?

Assuming your sister, at age 16, married a 31 year old... uh yes absolutely that's disgusting.

You are judgemental and pushing your norms on other people.

Pushing my norms, no.

I'm expressing my opinion and stances, not mandating everyone else follow them.

I find your sister and her husband's relationship to have a disgusting origin, but I'm not going to advocate your brother in law be jailed.

That would be pushing my norms.

Judgemental? Oh sure, absolutely, guilty as charged.

And it's disgusting you have so many upvotes!

Well now who's judgemental?

Its the internet. People are allowed to have strong opinions.

I don't agree with yours, you don't agree with mine.

This is... arguably the entire point of an online discussion system?

Are you also considering LGBT immoral?

Absolutely not, no, frankly I have no clue how you could even think that would be a reasonable other position to expect me to hold...

I am queer lol, I've dated a trans woman, I've dated an ambi-gender person, bi women... I've gotten handsy and made out with bi and gay guys a few times... I seem to mostly go for a feminine presenting person, or a person with feminine aspects... but I'm considerably more flexible with that than your stereotypical straight man.

LGBT relationships are an entirely different thing than massive age gap relationships, I again have no clue how that seems like a reasonable assumption to jump to.

It woukd be weird and creepy if a 26 yo woman had a romantic or sexual relationship with a 16 yo girl, if a 26 yo man had a relationship with a 16 yo boy.

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[-] ZeffSyde@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

I think that part of this narrative gets fucked because there is a fairly large segment of reporters that fantasized about getting with their cute youngish teacher back when they were in school.

This is not to say that this is ok. It isn't. This is SA, CSA, really. And even if the teacher were teaching/seducing 18 year olds on a college campus it would still be a gross misuse of power.

[-] thejoker954@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Easier to train.

[-] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

One who wants a one sided deal that she snd she alone controls. There's never a shortage or men who look for other women, but then these kind of people should adapt to an actual relationship.

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[-] TheEighthDoctor@lemmy.zip 30 points 2 weeks ago
[-] dgbbad@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 weeks ago

As someone who works IT at a school, this is far too common. I've ignored many a new teacher coming up to me with questions because I thought they were students, and I ignore students at all cost. This has happened in the intermediate buildings. You just can't know how old anyone is anymore, so I assume everyone is underage until proven beyond a shadow of a doubt.

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[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago

I don't get this. Not even high school girls find high school boys attractive. How could a grown woman? And what's with the language, the word is raped or sexually abused/assaulted, 16 year old here is assumed unable to consent to sex with any adult.

[-] SpacetimeMachine@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

They are almost assuredly turned on by the power dynamic, not necessarily the student themselves.

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[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 21 points 2 weeks ago

How stupid do you have to be to tell a coworker that you raped a kid. Hey, how was your weekend? Guess what I did that's super illegal?

[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 16 points 2 weeks ago

Since when is telling a coworker a crime /s

[-] Redditsux@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

😱 How does this still happen in this day and age?

[-] HenryDorsett@lemmy.world 81 points 2 weeks ago

Because pedophilia still exists.

And a 16 year old boy will say yes to pretty much anything sexual, hence why this woman ~~exploited a minor~~ nah, not sugar coating. This woman used a position of authority to rape a child.

[-] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

Also. The teacher profession is all but dead in America. A lot of people that would be bad for students get weeded out through years of education and training. Most school districts are luck if they have more than 50% of their teachers educated/trained. The rest are individuals who could pass a background check. Poor areas, are under 30%. Just because someone can pass a background check doesn't mean they should be around minors. But schools have no other option.

[-] HenryDorsett@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Heh, I applied for a substitute position a little while ago.

Called back. I'm a MMJ patient, and only have a high school diploma, and no teaching skills or experience.

They were fine with that. Obviously, don't bring drugs on campus, but if its just residual in my system its fine with them.

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[-] JPSound@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago

Rape. It was rape. Call it what it is. The longer we tiptoe around teachers having sex with kids, the longer the problem will exist. She raped a kid.

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