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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by DandomRude@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Please convince me that I should continue my support or advice what I can do. I'm prepared to do my part, but I can only do so if I can be sure that my support is not going to people who think arbitrary Censorship is alright (needs to be based on objective community rules and not on the political agenda of mods).

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 69 points 11 months ago

Because they are ok with other instances operating without censorship. Or with different ideological bias. Some people want their safe space. I do consider it generally harmful, but that's how humans are - we want to discuss with like-minded people even if it limits the range of discussion.

On the balance, Lemmy existing is a benefit to humanity. You don't have to talk to developers themselves.

[-] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 63 points 11 months ago

This really just seems like "I want to complain about .ml" with extra steps.

I don't care for them, so I don't go there.

Open source projects will be used for things of which you approve and of which you do not, that is life.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

You do realize that the developers of Lemmy (the software) have a very close relationship with lemmy.ml, right?

My question simply relates to whether I can support the software development without supporting lemmy.ml.

[-] Sandbar_Trekker@lemmy.today 32 points 11 months ago

My question simply relates to whether I can support the software development without supporting lemmy.ml.

No. You can't support Lemmy without supporting lemmy.ml because the developers use lemmy.ml for testing. They have not created a means for users to separate out their donations from one or the other.

That's why others are suggesting you should just support a different but similar fediverse project like PieFed or Mbin instead.

[-] stinerman@midwest.social 27 points 11 months ago

That's not what your question says though. Your question asks for reasons why you should support the development of Lemmy because you don't like the moderation decisions that the developers make on their instance. That's a different question than "how can I support the software without supporting the people making it." The answer to that is you can't.

As others have said, you can fund your instance if you so choose. You can also try to fund a fork/replacement.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 45 points 11 months ago

Bear in mind that ActivityPub is so much more than just Lemmy. Mbin and Piefed both exist as alternatives.

[-] Nemo@midwest.social 31 points 11 months ago

I mean, you could support piefed development or one of the *bins, instead.

[-] nintendiator@feddit.cl 31 points 11 months ago

Just to be real:

Every instance is an example of arbitrary censorship. It's just that .ml is specifically about a kind of censorship you don't like.

All that said, there is no "should". Donations are voluntary, they are not the only way to contribute to the development of the fediverse, and there is already both alternatives and competition, and you could support those instead. I hear Pixelfed is making the rounds.

[-] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 11 months ago

I hear Pixelfed is making the rounds.

I think you meant Piefed. Pixelfed exists too, but that is more Instagram-style. Piefed feels pretty similar to Lemmy, just written in Python.

I personally like how Mbin integrates with Mastodon. Or at least the idea. I can't figure out how to search up a specific Mastodon user.

[-] nintendiator@feddit.cl 9 points 11 months ago

Piefex! Pixelfie! Fedfed! I always get them mixed up!!!! I'm Fedfed up with it! XD

Thanks for the notice.

Also interesting note on mbin, I tend to forget it can do that and it has also a lot of other niceties, but I have experimented very little with mbin. ~~My account sits 3 weeks unused~~

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[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

I understand that, but the Lemmy developers are deeply rooted in .ml. I just wonder whether it makes sense to support that. I am aware that this is FOSS, but there is no transparency as to whether my support actually ends up in the software development or perhaps in .ml, which I do not want to support.

[-] nintendiator@feddit.cl 4 points 11 months ago

Then the next best thing to do is to support instances directly. I'd guess most of them have a tip jar or donation box.

Be aware that if supporting unsavory people is your issue, you might want to skip some payment processors and pay the instance hoster directly. Some payment processors, like PayPal or Stripe, are into some unsavory stuff such as targetting sex workers, or appropriating your savings if you post speech they disagree with, or blocking access to service in countries of the third world.

[-] Libra@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago

Thank you. People seem perfectly happy with lemmy.world blacklisting lemmy.ml altogether and such because it's censorship that they agree with, people generally only get cranky in the pants about censorship when they agree with the thing being censored.

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Donate to an individual instance then. Or fork your own, call it Demmings, and see where that takes you.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

I already do that. So stop supporting Lemmy developers and only support the instance?

[-] 30p87@feddit.org 15 points 11 months ago
[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 8 points 11 months ago

This is what I do. I don’t give tankies money but I’m happy to support all the instances I have accounts on.

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 19 points 11 months ago

That sounds like a you problem

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Is it my fault if a comment I posted is removed by .ml-Mods simply because it states that there can be no justification for terrorism?

Honestly, I can't support that. Do you see it differently?

[-] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

That's just stupid. I would definitely resort to terror tactics if fighting a stronger enemy, like THE COALESCED FORCES OF WESTERN IMPERIALISM. It's not like you can talk amoral monsters into being good, or like you have the time and resources to develop nuclear bombs and aircraft carriers.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

I just don't want my opinion to be censored for political reasons. That's what I had hoped for from Lemmy – not some propaganda bullshit. Do you really see this platform as a counterpart to Truth Social? If so, then I'm in the wrong place, because I'm interested in exchanging opinions and arguments, not in having my opinion confirmed.

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[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Again, why is that my problem? You can post about that literally anywhere else. What you do with your money is not the concern of me, nor anyone else looking at this post.

[-] rumimevlevi@lemmings.world 4 points 11 months ago

It's like both siding slavery during Nat turner revolt

[-] leraje 16 points 11 months ago

If they had developed a centralised bit of software such as Twitter or Reddit you'd have a point. In that case you can't support one without the other.

On a decentralised bit of software you can support the developers and spend your time on an instance they have no control over. So supporting the developers for development is not the same as supporting any particular instance - thats why a lot of instances accept donations too.

[-] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 11 months ago

Except there is no separation in where the money goes

[-] leraje 5 points 11 months ago

Not the point. The issue OP has is with the instance .ml - if they are donating to the developers then they're contributing towards development costs which affect both .ml and every other instance. If that's too much of a hurdle for them, maybe they could switch to donating to their instance admin.

[-] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There should be a way to donate to development of Lemmy and it not go to ml but there is not that option because just goes to desalines and he clearly spends his time power tripping as mod of ml.

Donating to your instance admin is great but that is not furthering the development of Lemmy, it is ensuring your instance endures.

I have donated to all (my app, my instance as well as others, and lemmy dev) but i am not happy with the fact that last one means i have donated to ml and the issue IS there is currently no way around that. That IS the issue, and is why piefed is growing.

[-] leraje 4 points 11 months ago

"that option because just goes to desalines"

Who is the developer of the software. How they choose to develop Lemmy is up to them - you do have a choice though. Support them or don't. What no one who donates has a choice over is how the developers choose to use the development funds they receive.

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[-] stinerman@midwest.social 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

You should not continue supporting it if you feel that the developers aren't deserving of your money.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Just finished that librapay subscription and reallocated the amount to another FOSS project.

[-] twice_hatch@midwest.social 13 points 11 months ago

Why should I convince you for free?

[-] untakenusername@sh.itjust.works 12 points 11 months ago

I mean, there's always other places in the fediverse to put ur money

ik this isn't what ur asking, but i wanted to put it out there for you to consider

[-] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I would answer but I feel like this post is more about you trying to convince others to retire their economical support that any other thing. Or at least it feels like that.

Decision is yours, same as our decisions are ours.

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[-] socsa@piefed.social 12 points 11 months ago

Support piefed instead. It's fine for the Lemmy devs to have their opinions, but if they are going to be assholes about it then they can deal with the fallout. I've been around open source communities long enough to know that this quickly becomes a sunk cost fallacy, and the fediverse will be better off ripping off this bandaid as soon as possible.

[-] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 11 points 11 months ago

There is no way to convince a person who is raised in a capitalist system why "arbitrary censorship" is way better than "democracy" where all significant media is capitalist owned. The only difference is that one is honest, the other isnt. If you come to my house, I will absolutely arbitrarily censor you if I dont like what you're saying. Thats called personal freedom.

The "freeze peach" approach is a purely capitalist idea where you supposedly can say anything, even shitting on someone elses table but you have no actual way to change the broken system you're in. Thats how they like you, divided, shitting on those you deem lesser and incapable of organizing.

So no, the people who make lemmy are the people who let you say exactly what you are saying now. From my pov, they deserve huge donations. Does that have to do anything with their instance? Not in my opinion.

But because I like to discuss these things: an instance is your private matter. you can do whatever you like and hear whatever you like. If that means you only say nazi stuff for example, that is your choice. And defunding those who give you actual freedom (before lemmy there was reddit and nothing) while not defunding the police or the state that does the exact opposite (looking at you, USA) is just wild imo.

[-] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 14 points 11 months ago

There is no way to convince a person who is raised in a capitalist system why "arbitrary censorship" is way better than "democracy" where all significant media is capitalist owned.

I was brought up under arbitrary censorship. Democracy where all significant media is capitalist-owned is much better.

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[-] bluGill@fedia.io 4 points 11 months ago

I was brought up in a clasical liberal society. That it was also capitalist is incidental.

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[-] rumimevlevi@lemmings.world 9 points 11 months ago

You do whatever you like

[-] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago

Piefed is growing

[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago

They're building a system that allows you to avoid censorship that you don't like. I'd focus on that part.

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