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[-] Objection@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 days ago

It's quite good, but if you're looking for something to practice anyway I'd suggest resonance exercises. I might just be picking up because my ear is listening for it, but it's a super important part of voice training so I'm gonna infodump for anyone interested.

What is resonance?

If you're not familiar with resonance, it's a super important component of a voice (possibly even more important than pitch), which is determined by the distance from your mouth to your voice box. This video gives examples of each combination of high-low pitch and bright-dark resonance, the most important to know is "low-pitch, bright-resonance," if you know Stephen Universe, Peridot's voice is my go-to example, generally, people describe that sort of voice as "nasally" or "annoying" but notably, even if it sounds bad it still sounds female. The reason it's important is that if you break down each component of voice and work on them individually, you can get better results than if you try to do everything at once. My strategy is to aim for a "Peridot" voice first, and then raise pitch from there, which is easier/more natural to do.

How can you train resonance?

To get brighter resonance, you need to learn how to control the muscles that raise/lower your voice box, and there are two exercises that help with that. One is called, "swallow and hold" - put your finger on your voice box and swallow and you'll notice it raise, try to "hold" for a bit to keep it there, then gradually release muscles, taking note of when the voice box lowers. The second is "big dog, little dog" - pant like a dog and switch between imitating a big dog and a little dog, while again keeping a finger on your voice box to note its movement. When you pant like a little dog, it should raise higher, again, pay attention to which muscles you're using to move it. I believe both of those exercises come from the channel I linked before but I don't remember which specific video.

[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Thank you, could you be more specific about where the resonance sounded off? Adjusting resonance is respectfully, one of the first things I started working on, and that was quite a long time ago.

[-] Objection@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 days ago

OK it turns out I'm actually just dumb ๐Ÿ˜ฃ. I listened to it a bunch of times trying to pin it down and finally identified that it was audio fuzz.

"only one I found," "long-lasting," "spearmint, cooling peppermint" "cinnamon is called" those were all around the parts where I thought I was hearing something, and then the last section was clear, and when I turned the volume up, those parts all have a sort of "blown out mic" sound with a low frequency, and I heard that sound as part of your voice.

[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Oh gotcha, that makes sense! Thanks for checking!

[-] SquishedFly 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

You're struggling from the same issue that I am only now starting to overcome: since you've tried to fem your voice so much, you can't see that you're voice is perfectly passing and you get insecure because of that. The thing that helped me was someone random on the phone calling me "miss" without me telling me their name at a time when I wasn't even trying hard to do a fem voice. (Best Spam/Phishing call I ever received btw)

So if you keep talking like this and can sustain a voice like this for longer and longer then congrats: you have a new amazing girl voice.

For me, I didn't manage to sustain my "perfect" girl voice (but I also didn't try too hard) so I slipped into a passing but low feminin voice which may even fit me better since I feel like it's more natural (and for NB reasons). So don't worry if that specific tonality isn't sustainable for long

[-] pooberbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 days ago

I wish I could, but I can hear anything wrong with it. This is honestly goals for me. Your voice went high a couple times, and it sounded really natural. I can't even get that high

[-] Kayday@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

This made me tear up a little. I've been really struggling with how I perceive my voice, so this means a lot. Thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

[-] BlahajByte 2 points 4 days ago

11/10 I'd steal your voice so I can sound like a pretty girl

[-] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 days ago

Sounds very female to me.

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