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submitted 2 months ago by sloppysol@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

As simple as possible to summarize the best way you can, first, please. Feel free to expand after, or just say whatever you want lol. Honest question.

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[-] tvik@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 months ago

Man - how I hate that on almost every post that shows some vulnerability and shares their belief we have lemmys trying to convince people about it not making sense.

Be respectful guys. Thank you to all the upvoters of the actual content - I see you.

[-] callouscomic@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Given all of my unresolved prior trauma caused almost exclusively by my upbringing around those believing? No thanks. Fuck everyone that believes this shit. It too clearly self-selects the narcissist asshole who wants excuses to not have to answer for how shitty they are. They ram it into EVERYTHING and use it as a blanket for pure judgment amd shame of others. Fuck em all.

And don't give me this religion vs spirituality bullshit. Very clearly the vast majority are affected by religion. It ain't my job to sort through that when 99% are clearly bad apples.

I'm speaking from actual personal traumatic experiences from childhood home, multiple churches, multiple schools, and lots of extended family and family friends. Fuck. Them. All.

[-] Inaminate_Carbon_Rod@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Everytime I’ve shared on Lemmy that I’m a Christian I’ve been met with nothing but huge negativity.

Everything from accusing me of being a Trump supporter, to telling me I should abandon my belief system because bad people believe the same thing as me.

I’ll have a read through this thread, but it’s very unlikely I’ll reveal anything more about how Faith has changed my life.

I used to be a hardcore atheist who mocked all believers so I understand where it’s coming from. I’m not here to fight.

[-] waterbird 30 points 2 months ago

Makes me feel more assured and will reduce my suffering until I die. After my death, regardless of if I am right or wrong, the net positive of having had the soothing idea of a larger meaning can’t and won’t be retroactively undone. So why the hell not?

[-] Lyra_Lycan 28 points 2 months ago

Upvoting the actual answers here, as some who were not the target audience and haven't read the question have answered.

[-] folaht@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Agree.

OP wants to hear opinions from people agreeing with statement X, not those who disagree.

I disagree with the notion of the universe being a probability game, but that's not asked.

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[-] RedCarCastle@aussie.zone 24 points 2 months ago

In some sort of greater being yes, in any kind of church or following no.

I find I have my own belief in some unknown cosmic entitys, something along the lines of energy is always in a state of flow, life and death, rocks to dust, consciousness to the sprawling reaches of the universe a bit of new age spirituality stuff,

[-] Libra@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

I don't believe in the Christian god because there are too many contradictions and I don't think the divine truth is corruptable. Anything so corrupt it doesn't even agree with itself cannot be divine truth.

[-] Manmoth@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago
[-] Libra@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago

I see a fair amount of Christian-related posts in your post history so I'm gonna go ahead and suggest that this is probably a conversation you don't want to have. I'm trying not to be an asshole here, but I am very well read on the subject of Christianity, so suffice to say that contradictions exist, they are widely known, and I find Christian apologia on the subject wholly unconvincing.

That said, if I'm really the person you would like to go on this journey of discovery about your religion with then I will take you, but I can't say that you are very likely to enjoy the results.

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[-] 1SimpleTailor@startrek.website 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Sort of, but it's more a comforting theory rather then a true belief. I came up with it when I was younger, doing a lot of psychedelics, and meditating often on the nature of existence and reality.

My theory is that God is everything. The earth, the stars, our fellow beings. All of reality makes up a complex web that I loosely refer to as a "consciousness" for lack of a better word. The nature of this "consciousness" is incomprehensible to us. It does not activly intervene in our daily lives, and operates on a scale beyond our comprehension. Mostly, it simply is. It is the oblivion from which our consciousness was once plucked, and it is where we will one day return.

In essence, each of us is a tiny fragment of reality experiencing itself. The meaning of life is to experience it. All of it. Joy, pleasure, and suffering. It is all a part of the whole of existence. When we die and return to the infinite our individuality is lost, but maybe God learns something about itself.

[-] Jayb151@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

In short, yes because you lose nothing by trying to emulate Jesus.

That said, the church be crazy af

[-] runiq@feddit.org 6 points 2 months ago

I may not believe in God, but I can definitely respect the man. ✊

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 months ago

For most, it's indoctrination.

[-] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Truth is proof - I can neither prove the number of gods is >0, nor prove it is =0.

Thus cautious agnosticism (since the evidence suggests, if there is at least one god, then they really hate us).

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[-] nagaram@startrek.website 7 points 2 months ago

Personally I'm a huge fan of the Alcoholics Anonymous understanding of "god" and I think it applies more widely.

In AA it is supposed to be A-religious so as to accommodate as many people as possible. To them, god is whatever higher power you need to put your faith into to do better. An entity who you are striving to make proud or you are asking for guidance or help, etc.

This genericized god idea kinda gives up the game to me as an atheist, but it doesn't mean it's bad. In fact it's made me believe in god as an idea.

There are plenty of studies on "manifesting" goals and how saying out loud to yourself or to someone at all substantially increases your chance of succeeding in your goal. This is just prayer or a magic spell or whatever else you wanna call it. I call it a ritual.

The fact that god is a made up idea has been uncontested in my mind for eons, however the psychological power of a belief in god is new to me and makes me appreciate the systems of religion more (doesn't excuse a lot of their bullshit).

[-] Manmoth@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

AA is a great program and is basically secularized Christianity. Two great religious books that talk about the program from a more explicitly religious perspective are "Breathing Underwater" (Catholic) and "Steps of a Transformation" (Orthodox). Even with your agnostic perspective I think you would find them enlightening.

[-] ryan213@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago

No. I believe in Stephen Fry.

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[-] Mangoholic@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

If there is a god or something like a god, it has to be the sun. The sun makes all life possible and has near infinite energy, I can not think of anything more deserving to be god. Will it save us or help us as individuals, i don't think so, its a god we are insignificant in comparison and will burn when staying in its presence for two long. Also its real.

Another idea I had was from Einsteins quote: "to believe in god you have everything to gain and nothing to lose." So by that logic you better believe in all gods for maximum gain. There are a bunch more suns aswell ;)

[-] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You cannot have a painting without an artist. A sculpture without a sculpture. A tool will never use itself, it takes a user.

Imagine a blank and static universe. Someone had to add or move something to start the initial reaction even if they never play a part in the events after.

In some sense there is a creator. I just don't know in what capacity.

[-] Zenith@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago

Why someone? Why not something? Physics say a monopole magnet is mathematically possible, something like that would absolutely cause a disturbance because it doesn’t conform to the laws of physics we have defined like every action has an equal and opposite reaction… I think you’re right, something happened but I don’t know why it would be someone and not simply probability and the natural world conforming to that probability

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[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago

Hmm. I think you can't have those things without an observer. Art, beauty and utility are in the eye (or hand) of the beholder, and apt to appear anywhere.

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[-] IttihadChe@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

I believe in God because I think its the best explanation for the existence of our universe with it's laws. A being outside of our current space/time setting our universe into motion just makes sense to me.

[-] Manmoth@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago
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[-] FooBarrington@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

If our universe requires a being outside it as an origin, why shouldn't that being itself require another being of even further outside as an origin, and so on?

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[-] calmblue75@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

For me, God is a character stronger than me.. Someone whom I call upon in times of despair. That's it. No deeper meaning than this.

[-] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I believe in all gods, much in the same way I believe money, justice, and math exist.

Doesn't mean I follow any or all of them, yahweh is a dick and so are a few others, but some are chill.

[-] Mubelotix@jlai.lu 4 points 2 months ago

I used to believe because of how convinced other people were. I thought they had a good reason. Turned out they had not

[-] Fuck_Team@lemmy.one 4 points 2 months ago

I believe in a god but it is strange lol. I will truly never understand the concept of being all knowing and powerful so my idea is he's either so bored with his existence he created us for entertainment or simply boredom. I imagine him similar to a comic book writer or tv show creator

[-] orbitz@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

I do not, no proof. If there was a god such as in the Bible why give us reasoning abilities when they give no proof? And if so, then I put forward the idea that if there is such a god, they don't care if we believe so why bother?. Not to go all gamer but like the Sims, they made us and took out the pool ladder and saw what happened.

If there is a god that has such powers and cares, well fuck them cause they ain't helping us it seems. If they are well we're too far off course for it to matter, this playthrough is spiraling and it doesn't matter if we believe or not cause we may be circling the drain.

So seems easier not to believe because if you do it's more depressing.

[-] whiskers165@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago
[-] weirdbeardgame@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

I'm LDS some people might call us Mormon.

The short of it is I asked God and I felt his presence. Not like any earthly feeling, more like the burning the bible / new testament describes.

But even without any of that I'd still have believed / known. I just, always have if that makes sense? I might've gone a different direction in my beliefs but I'd still have known he's there.

[-] Cethin@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago

I have always wanted to ask someone who has this opinion how they confront the knowledge that people from every religion have felt the same thing? Some people have felt this way multiple times about mutually exclusive faiths.

That's one of the largest things that led me to be an agnostic atheist (meaning I don't claim to have knowledge, and I hold no belief in a god; I don't disbelieve, it's the ascence of belief). I was raised non-denomination Christian, but I had a good Buddhist friend in high school. It made me curious about other faiths, and they're almost all mutually exclusive, yet every one has people certain they're correct. What are the odds I was born to a family that believed the correct one?

I'm not self-centered enough to believe I'm special and all the other people are just unlucky, so the result is that it's most likely I wasn't born lucky, and neither was anyone else. So many religions have faded out of existence, so the odds are if any are correct they don't exist anymore. Why would I think I happen to find the right one?

I know this is unlikely, but I'd be interested to hear an actual opinion about how that feels, not hearing about what you're supposed to believe (which I've heard before). I think it's interesting to know if it makes others feel the same way I once did or not.

[-] Manmoth@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago

This is why a "feeling" should not be the reason you convert to a religion. You should be skeptical of Christians that argue their conversion on feelings alone. I certainly had feelings that I attribute to the Holy Spirit when I was an inquiring Christian but I frankly tried to ignore or diminish them to stay sober minded. Relying entirely on emotionalism or charism is historically discouraged as you could just as easily be swayed by demonic forces (e.g. prelest). It's one of many critiques of charismatic Protestantism and the LDS church.

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[-] palmtrees2309@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago

I dont know. I am conflicted about it. If god exists why would he create all the suffering and pain? If he doesnt, all the world is just a probability game.

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[-] KeepFlying@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

If you look at it very very loosely, many major religions are reaching toward the same general concepts and have enough similarities to suggest a consensus that there's a "something" up there.

We probably all have an imperfect idea of what that "something" is, but there are enough similarities (or echos of the same ideas) across many religions to suggest they're looking at the same indivisible thing and interpreting it differently.

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[-] andybytes@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago

In times of peace, I'm agnostic. In times of christofascism, I'm militantly atheist. People go to church or talk to God because it is an existential crisis. They are just scared of dying. Momento Mori.

[-] sebsch@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

For me "God" isn't some person with wits and thoughts.

It is just the circumstances in where we live. The time the physics the vibration and energy filling the matter and thoughts.

There is no need in praying to it (except for you self). We're in a happy stream full of energy filled with feeling "souls" going into the same direction in time and filling this strange place where we feel energy as matter, waves and colors.

[-] Manmoth@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I believe in God because I don't believe knowledge is possible without a transcendent being. (e.g. the impossibility of the contrary) Otherwise you are dealing with infinite regress or axiomatic circularity. Materialism breaks down with origin theories. Metaphysics aren't substantial yet exist. Math and logic aren't descriptors of the world but integral to how the world is structured. The Orthodox view is that these principles are a reflection of the divine mind.

(I am an Orthodox Christian)

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