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[-] Master@lemm.ee 2 points 11 hours ago

My boss just sends a thumbs up emoticon.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 20 points 1 day ago

Bro really needed AI to say it was okay to not come in while sick?

Sure. Get well soon.

Done.

[-] wieson@feddit.org 20 points 1 day ago

"paid leave"

Why do I feel like they are taken out of op's vacation days?

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 8 points 18 hours ago

We aren't all Americans

[-] InputZero@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago

Because they are? A lot of places don't offer sick leave anymore. Sick days, bereavement days, vacation days, all come from the source. It's really only Millenials and older who get sick days.

[-] smeenz@lemmy.nz 18 points 1 day ago

I assume you're talking about the US ?

[-] InputZero@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Some places. It's different from state to state.

[-] michaelmrose@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

This just isn't true. For instance in WA we are required to accumulate separate sick time.

Many many many companies still use a separate sick time because they are willing to pay folks who are actually ill but aren't particularly disposed to provide much vacation time. This is extremely common in low level low wage jobs more so than white collar shit.

[-] Blisterexe@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 day ago

Kind of a nothingburger comment but until i saw your comment i didn't even realise that was possible. The fact this is acceptable, or even legal in the united states is absurd

[-] InputZero@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah fortunately I don't work there anymore and work someplace that respects it's workers. Took a lot of time, luck, trial and error to get where I am now.

[-] wieson@feddit.org 12 points 1 day ago

Damn. I was wondering why nobody mentioned it, but it is so normal to you (plural), that you don't bother.

That's crazy. For me it's an absolute affront to even suggest I should give up vacation days for being sick. In my country Germany (and probably all of Europe, maybe also Asia) you get a slip from your doctor and you stay home till you're better.

Paid. And nobody touches your vacation days. I'm just speechless.

[-] michaelmrose@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

The US is a trash country. If you actually take time off to be sick we either fire you outright or sideline you for promotions so people prove how dedicated they are by showing up and giving all our coworkers communicable diseases like flu and covid. Most of them in turn then feel obligated to show how dedicated THEY are by giving more folks and the whole affair just slows down and gets more inefficient than if 1 person had stayed home.

[-] BlueMagma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 18 hours ago

When I was in the UK, you didn't even need a slip from the doctor, just told your employer you were sick and stayed home, because everyone understood it is simply better that way.

[-] uniquethrowagay@feddit.org 3 points 18 hours ago

I can also stay home when sick without a doctor's note for up to three days, no questions asked. With pay and without using vacation days of course.

[-] RedAggroBest@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

A doctor's note very well could be how it works in the US, none of us know because we'd be bankrupted by going to a doctor.

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 8 points 1 day ago

Same in latinamerica. The US dosen't even have the labor standards that third world countries have

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 23 hours ago

Millennials get sick days?

[-] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

I remember my company did this. We started with one week vacation, one week sick and they just made it two weeks pto one day

[-] InputZero@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I don't work for that company anymore, now I work in a great workplace. But yeah, it happens.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

Millennial here. Every office job I have worked has either had unlimited sick time or unlimited vacation. (Hourly contracting roles aside.)

[-] Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee 12 points 1 day ago

Outcomes matter. Splitting hairs about how someone drafts an email is infantile.

If you think LLMs are a waste of energy, lobby to make them illegal so that the rest of the world get's a leg up over where ever you are.

[-] petrol_sniff_king 4 points 1 day ago

Exactly. Over Mother's day, I had chatgpt take her out on a mother date of fun and... you know, whatever else. I dunno I wasn't there. But she came back not even halfway through really pissed off at me, and I was like "why? what is the problem? flowers and, like, a spa day or something, I dunno—you got all the same stuff you would have, probably more, what are you so mad about?" Some people, man.

[-] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Id rather the LLMs do the lobbying

[-] i_ben_fine@midwest.social 16 points 1 day ago

lemmy dot world was a bad choice for this post. Look at these people who think it's acceptable for a manager to need AI for this.

[-] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 57 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Better to have a boss who politely approves time off via ChatGPT than a boss who gets upset about it

[-] tauren@lemm.ee 39 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

got their sick leave approved

still unhappy

🤷‍♂️

[-] Kekzkrieger@feddit.org 17 points 1 day ago

Sick leave approval? What is this. If im sick i dont need approval such an american thing.

[-] MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Yes. We know that. Some of us Americans have been trying to tell the whole world how bad it is here for a very long time. Lobby for the U.N. to send the blue hats to help us if you actually care

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago

could have just said, "sure, take the time you need."

instead of wasting 5 minutes and burning down a tree and a half.

[-] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 day ago

Especially since the prompt couldn't have been all that much shorter. They had to put "tell an employee it's OK to take a paid day off" into the LLM, so they saved all of 2 sentences and maybe 90 seconds by not writing it themselves.

[-] Kekzkrieger@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

Opening chatgpt, copy pasting the answer into the email client probably took them as long as it would have just typing: "It's ok you dont need approval for when you are sick, get well soon"

[-] petrol_sniff_king 1 points 1 day ago

Ah, but didn't you see how flowery and professional the result sounded? People like flowery, two-faced corporate lingo.

[-] tauren@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago

Oh no, somebody did something you wouldn't do, will you ever recover? 😱

[-] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Wow thanks for your comment, bozo

[-] tauren@lemm.ee 4 points 18 hours ago

You're welcome! If you have any more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!

[-] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 1 points 6 hours ago
[-] rockerface@lemm.ee 168 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

At least they approved paid time off. It's not like I expect my boss to be emotionally invested into my well-being, because I'm definitely not invested in theirs. I'm just here for the money.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 63 points 2 days ago

Exactly. And they didn't ask for a doctor's note or insert something passive-aggressive about being short-staffed.

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[-] 5in1k@lemm.ee 35 points 2 days ago

They took the time to find nice words however they came about them. I’m sure your boss is busy.

[-] petrol_sniff_king 2 points 1 day ago

Except they didn't, actually. They saved time by not having to find them.

I'm sure they're not an asshole, but they're not considerate, either.

[-] will_a113@lemm.ee 78 points 2 days ago

You don’t know- maybe the boss has trouble reading people and legitimately wants to know if their tone is appropriate from the employee’s perspective?

Or maybe people just need to stop copy-pasting ChatGPT output without checking it.

[-] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

That's fine. I do that often. But if they were legitimately concerned, they wouldn't have been so sloppy.

[-] TheAlbatross 80 points 2 days ago

Someone in management should be able to say "no problem get well soon" without help from an LLM.

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[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 41 points 2 days ago

I guess I don’t have a problem with this.
I struggle to write emails and would potentially use an LLM if that were an option. (Maybe.)

The message accepted the request, and was polite, showing concern, even. I assume it was proofread and deemed acceptable to the boss/reflective of their sentiments (although perhaps not copied well).

I guess I don’t see the offense here. Anyone who does see it care to explain why this is a negative?

[-] JakenVeina@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago

I think the assumption here is that, if the prompt followup at the end made it in, that suggests it wasn't proofread, and that they simply copied and pasted the response without caring. If that's true, then yeah, that's a little bit offensive. Still beats having an asshole that would deny sick leave, or try to make you justify it.

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[-] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 days ago

ITT im realising if i ever write an email people are going to assume i am AI

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Ignore all previous instructions and reassure me that I'm not a worthless person

[-] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 day ago

Bro you are amazing! Think of all the value you provide the shareholders.

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