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[-] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 149 points 1 week ago

In FromSoft games it's the complete opposite.

[-] kibiz0r@midwest.social 99 points 1 week ago

If you’re designing games for the male gaze, the gender select screen is basically “are you here for the ooh-ra, or the a-woo-ga?”

[-] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 1 week ago

Creating my XIV Roegadyn female character

"Why not both?"

[-] Zachariah@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago

What if you’re designing for the male gays?

[-] Opisek@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

Are you here to slay or are you here to slay

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[-] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 67 points 1 week ago

Let's not pretend we don't know the reason.

[-] pzzzt@lemmy.world 67 points 1 week ago

As a masochistic woman, I feel attacked. 😅

[-] Kevo@lemmy.world 76 points 1 week ago

Which is... a good thing for you?

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This raises the good question of whether masochists need consent in some situations

Edit: from the severe negative feedback, I presume then that user pzzzt has legitimate cause to feel attacked, and that user Kevo is false in their presumption that this is a good thing for them. Or we might all be overreacting to some risqué banter. Real thinker.

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 40 points 1 week ago

both pzzzt's and kevo's comments were jokes

you brought up the topic of consent, which is never a joke in kink communities, hence why you got downvotes

[-] chickenf622@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 week ago

No there is never a situation where consent isn't involved or given before hand

[-] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 week ago

please think again

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Consent is the line that separates kink from abuse. It has to be the thing that people who do kink treat as the most sacred thing. If consent were not there, “doms” would be committing horrific acts of abuse.

The things I have let men to me have been only okay, and only enjoyable, because they were done to me with my consent. Taking a crop after a careful warmup by a partner who asked you in detail about what parts are okay to hit, and how you would like to be treated afterwards, and how long you’d like it to last - this is fun. Having a hookup spank or choke you out of nowhere? Not fun. Even if I enjoy spanking (or being choked, but choking is genuinely not safe and it’s concerning how common it is) - when I don’t know what the boundaries are anymore - I can’t relax and enjoy myself.

I lived as a 24/7 “you can hit me whenever you want” painslut, and even then, there were days where I didn’t want to be hit. Even the most extreme masochists are still people, and are still going to have limits.

Any kink community worth its salt will pillory you (not in a fun way) for not taking consent seriously. That’s how you can tell if they are safe.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I guess I didn't really understand what a masochist actually meant, as I attached some kind of sadist connotation to it, when it's just a pain-related kink. Thanks for the extra context, and I will try to update my understanding

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Healthy sadism and masochism are when adults come together to talk about things that they enjoy doing or being done to them, and then doing those things in a way that is fun for both parties. What that looks like can look like a whole bunch of things, even things that we would see as actual crimes if they were being done to people who had not said “yes I want this.” (nothing like some light waterboarding)

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 15 points 1 week ago

Ah, I presume 'pzzzt' refers to the sound of electricity between the clamps?

[-] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

Arcing electricity is not good.

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

Them seem like kink-shaming words!

[-] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

Advice for safety.

[-] JackRider@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

me too 😅

[-] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 51 points 1 week ago

I can only imagine what it's like being part of the recording team when it comes to getting the hurt sounds. Probably something like this.

[-] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 44 points 1 week ago

Anyone who's played Dead By Daylight can attest that all the characters hurt sounds like the right side

[-] pyre@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago

you should hear yourself while climaxing and then see if you can make any distinction

[-] Karjalan@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago

When my partner cums it sounds kind of like, how I imagine, someone getting stabbed would sound and I should be used to it by now, but it off catches me off guard

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 week ago

oh I just scream for a while tbh

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago

It made the other parishners feel really awkward

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

I don't even have to be orgasming. I just scream sometimes. Some people say I'm quirky.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago

based and AAAAAAAA pilled

[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

I recorded myself and ran it through Shazam and it returned this?

[-] meaansel@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When I see these memes, I always rememmber Unreal Tournament 99, where female death sounds are decidedly unsexy, see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEv6IB2TRAQ%3Ft%3D444 starting at 7:24

Maybe because of that "throat vibration" effect? I wonder if they got it right on the first try, or had a first draft and had to scrap it and come up with sounds that couldn't be mistaken for anything else

[-] riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago

Props to them. That sounds like a woman dying in a very unsexy way.

[-] Daelsky@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

Yes omg I love that game and that’s a thing I always found particularly unique to it. I’m so happy to see someone else point it out.

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[-] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago

A women being hurt 9 times of 10 is screaming. Imagine how annoying that'd be in a game.

[-] erin 17 points 1 week ago

The "women are always screaming" stereotype is sexist. It's a direct extension of the pseudoscientific hysteria diagnosis that used to be commonly accepted. "A women," as you put it, might scream, and you might find that annoying. Women as a category have higher pitched voices on average, and the line between "reasonable yelling" and "hysterical screaming" is often just one of pitch, even when the cause for alarm or injury is the same.

Additionally, neither I nor any of the women in my life "scream" in response to injury. We yell in pain just like someone with a masculine voice, if a bit higher pitched. Some may, but it's not common and is usually reserved for situations of extreme alarm or fear, or occasionally excitement. Any time a woman does scream on video, you always see someone in the comments complaining about how annoying women screaming is. The same is never said about men screaming, unless they scream "like a girl."

9/10 times. How out of touch are you?

[-] Aoife 3 points 1 week ago

they're a lemmy.ml user, so the answer is usually 'very'

[-] bruhduh@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago
[-] MazonnaCara89@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Dude literally most of your latest posts are about porn/hentai/sex💀

[-] JanUwU42@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

Dead By Daylight 100% xD

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