This seems like a great way to advertise that you are an incompetent and impotent man who blames others for the fact that you’re a piece of shit.

I’ll never tire of saying it but if you’re a bloke who’s makes “being a man” the focal point of your personality then you do nothing but broadcast your insecurity and utter lack of meaningful contribution to society to anyone with two brain cells to rub together. Sad.

they should man up and let people be

Pathetic...

Give the Destiny Church wiki article a gander. What a bunch of swell guys. Naturally it has a section for sex abuse allegations.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Destiny_Church_(New_Zealand)