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Also, the first class tickets for the train were totally worth it.

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[-] Lazycog@sopuli.xyz 131 points 2 months ago

Still remember your post months ago asking for advice for moving. I'm happy it worked out for you and your family squid! Hope you guys can settle down soon (I'm sure there's tons of paper work and other bullshit) and relax!

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 90 points 2 months ago

Hasn’t quite worked out yet. I still need to find a job (but I have interviews lined up) We came over a little early because we were worried that when the deportation start, everyone who can grab the first plane they came out of the US. We might never get out otherwise.

[-] metaStatic@kbin.earth 49 points 2 months ago

good to see you didn't wait to find out, the Berlin wall went up overnight after all.

[-] Aaron@lemmy.nz 30 points 2 months ago

You've done right by your daughter. Good luck on the job search!

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago
[-] Lazycog@sopuli.xyz 16 points 2 months ago

Wish I could help, but I'm not in UK. Nevertheless, I believe in you and keeping my fingers crossed that you find a job quickly.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

I am optimistic. Thanks.

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[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 94 points 2 months ago

Even though you are a relative stranger on the internet its really inspiring to see you do this.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 56 points 2 months ago
[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 86 points 2 months ago

Wait, wait, wait, you can not be pulling this shit!

Are you a flying squid or not?

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 87 points 2 months ago

I keep telling people, we can only fly 30 meters at a time.

Plus, Wonder Woman can fly and she has an invisible jet.

[-] Stovetop@lemmy.world 32 points 2 months ago

Best start writing metres if you want to survive in the UK. People have been mercilessly dunked into the Thames for less!

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[-] SassyRamen@lemmy.world 38 points 2 months ago

He's been saying he'd do it.

Squid, proud of you. I did the same but that was 2 years ago

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago

Thank you, but I also think they were joking.

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[-] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 45 points 2 months ago

Wow! You weren’t kidding.

I’m so glad you got out, you’re one of my favorites.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

Thank you, and likewise!

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[-] sevan@lemmy.ca 32 points 2 months ago

Wow, 1st class, I didn't realize out of context comics paid so well! :)

I'm really impressed with how quickly you've made such a huge life change, that takes some serious courage for you and your family. I would love to follow along behind you, but have no path for it, so I'll have to stick things out and hope for the best (or not worst) here.

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[-] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 2 months ago

Hey, congrats for taking that big leap, even if it is to the UK (having lived in a couple of places in Europe including over a decade in the UK, my opinion of the UK is pretty low).

It takes a lot of guts to take yourself out of the environment you know (with all it's implicit expectations of "this is how people behave") and move into a different environment were people don't value the same things, expect the same or behave the same.

Good luck!

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago

Thankfully, due to my British father and grandmother, I know some of the basics. But I still have a lot to learn. Thankfully I've got us registered with an NHS clinic (waiting to hear back from them) and just got our new phone numbers.

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[-] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 28 points 2 months ago

America is a shithole. I got out in '17 and my quality of life has improved tenfold.

[-] GhostTheToast@lemmy.world 18 points 2 months ago

Feel free to not answer because this is identifiable info. However, how did you emigrate? Where to? Did you have a family with you or just yourself?

Admittedly, while I think America is a shit hole as well, It's got to get pretty bad before I'll be able to convince my wife. However, I'm trying to plan out our escape plan.

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[-] alekwithak@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago

Hey, no crabs are allowed to leave this bucket!

[-] Shoe@lemm.ee 27 points 2 months ago

Welcome to the UK! Not sure on your final destination, but I'm based in South West England. Please feel free to reach out if you need any help or guidance, especially if you're heading down this way 🙂.

[-] frank@sopuli.xyz 25 points 2 months ago

Ah congrats on the move, squid. We left the US for the EU in December (planned since the summer) and I can't imagine a better choice already. I know you've got a million things going on, and of course job, housing, etc are all top priority, but I have some lighter advice on getting used to a new place.

To meet some people and make some friends, there are lots of volunteer opportunities. It's a fun, helpful, community building way to give a little back.

London has a TON of ex-pats/immigrants. Not that the point is to meet a bunch of Americans or anything, but any you do have left for a reason, so they're more likely to be like minded.

Say "yes" to any bids for connection you can. Even if getting invited to an activity that isn't your jam, if you get an invite, go! It can be lonely at first, and feel like drinking is the only way to meet anyone. But social circles can spread quickly once you get them a little off the ground.

Have fun, and enjoy some piece of mind!

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[-] superkret@feddit.org 24 points 2 months ago

Welcome! You must be hungry after the long trip. Here's a plate of beige, enjoy!

[-] IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 22 points 2 months ago

I'm both glad you made it out and jealous I don't have a similar history with another country to move to. You're a great parent for everything you do for your daughter. Hope the last bit of the trip went smoothly and you find a job quickly.

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[-] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

Good luck, I hope you and your child find the UK to be less shitty than America. :)

Having emigrated to France with my kids in 2017, I think you're making a good decision.

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[-] then_three_more@lemmy.world 19 points 2 months ago

Also, the first class tickets for the train were totally worth it..

Damn you yanks be rich!


Welcome to our cold rainy island.

Hey, you made it Squid. Congratulations and welcome to the UK. As I previously said when we’ve been in the same thread, anything you need that I might be able to help with just reach out.

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[-] Rin@lemm.ee 16 points 2 months ago

I'm based around south yorkshire if you need anything squid. Hope you like it here

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

Thanks! In Blackburn in a VRBO at the moment, but I have no idea where we'll end up. Looking for work everywhere I can.

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[-] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

That’s some Grade A dad’ing Squid! Happy for ya, proud of ya. Best of luck over there!

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago
[-] ns1@feddit.uk 15 points 2 months ago

Welcome, glad you could join us! And you have a pot of tea already. Hope settling in goes ok when you arrive.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

I was raised on proper English tea by my British father and grandmother. However, I have more recently discovered that British tea is weak-ass shit compared to Irish tea.

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[-] Nfamwap@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

Welcome to the UK. And if anyone asks, you ain't seen me, right?

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[-] Skua@kbin.earth 15 points 2 months ago

Welcome to our little grey rock. It has been a warm winter, but if it gets cold enough to snow in your area then your cultural induction to our society is to endure half of the country shutting down in a panic

[-] weariedfae@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 months ago

Oh wow congratulations. All the best from us left behind! I can't imagine the undertaking to get out and give everyone who has ever emigrated props.

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[-] whome@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 2 months ago

I just took a look at your post history to see the origin story to this, seems to me you ARE Lemmy?! Every other post I saw seems to be from you...

[-] Klear@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

Yeah, Lemmy is basically just Flying Squid and The_Picard_Maneuver. The rest of us are bots and/or figment of their imagination.

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[-] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

Good luck, mate.

[-] Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

Welcome to the UK :)

[-] Bonesince1997@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

Good luck to you and your family, Squid. You took action!

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