There is this notion going around that women in general enjoy sex less or want less of it. Which is nonsense. Maybe talk to your wife and learn what she likes, Richard.

It's been pretty hit or miss with the women I've been with. If I had to guess about 50% were okay with or liked doing it, the rest either didn't like it or refused entirely. Which is fine if they're not really into it it doesn't do anything for me anyway.

It really depends. Setting aside taste (some guys really are unpleasant tasting, but not most of them) - if your guy runs less hot than you, a blowjob to completion means one less opportunity to do something for both of you. So it can feel like: oh getting all turned on by it, then it's over and you are left hanging for days while he generates enough sex drive to have sex again. That was the issue with my ex, who was a once a week guy. Husband now, we are pretty equal and it's not a big deal. If I do this one morning, after work we can still fuck.

Mostly agree with you on it being a fun thing to do though, you are right about that. It's not a chore or a drag, just sometimes frustrating.

I've always been enthusiastic to do it for my man's pleasure, but never enjoyed the act for it's own sake. Also cum is like raw egg white and it really takes me out of an erotic story when the female characters are obsessed with consuming it. But to each, her own.