Tactical Girlfriend: https://youtube.com/@tacticoolgirlfriend?si=cIchmnc2BXPm-vuM

InRangeTV videos that feature Annette Evans of On Her Own https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj9u4Ts2NpEu60oAiB6LhwAAMFZp3mqJd&si=Th0gxqR2U01J6sul And her at other venues: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL51VSG1qnkzGNYINvNHCd4iIb5Hsd9VOj&si=X57icQv5qrVVaWIR

I've come back to this in case it's useful or interesting for others -

Polenar Tactical do modern tactical and competition stuff, they appear to have at least one woman on their team at any one time, and being European their videos are easier to watch for me.

C&Rsenal do very in depth videos about the history of guns which includes a lot of non-American stuff, and their regular shooter is a lady.

Tacticool Girlfriend has unfortunately stopped making videos now, though they're still up.

Edit to add: One more for the list, 32Icon is a lady who reviews pistols for personal defense, but also some competition ones too :-)