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submitted 1 month ago by ad_on_is@lemm.ee to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

I'm just sick of Reddit.

The communities there seem much more active than the once on lemmy, which is not a surprise.

However, I oftentimes find myself doom scrolling through reddit, just because of some nonsense BS propaganda, ads, etc .., snuck inbetween of the community posts I'm actually interested in.

How can we convince the people over there to move away?

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[-] FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz 114 points 1 month ago

I'm just sick of Reddit.

How can we convince the people over there to move away?

I see things like this all the time on the fediverse. There's this sentiment that reddit sucks and it's nothing but bots and shithousery, but for some people they still want that crowd to migrate here.

I think Lemmy needs to let go of the idea of the "good" parts of reddit transferring here and everyone miraculously behaving differently, because it just isn't going to happen. The people left on reddit are there because that's the experience they want. Trying to import them en masse to Lemmy again is just going to bring more irritation and frustration IMO.

I think Lemmy would be better served working to improve and develop the communities they already have through users that are already here. Find ways to make your interests appealing to others. Be active in ways and places you usually wouldn't, and Lemmy will grow up around us organically. None of these social media giants have anything of substance to offer their huge user bases besides the niche communities you guys are missing, and that's why people spend so much time doomscrolling.

What we are missing is that someone on Reddit took the time to get these communities going too. Reddit wasn't an instant success, it took the efforts of the early membership to drive engagement and user growth. Lemmy is obsessed with the idea of short cutting this step to steal members from other networks, and that's silly.

No one is going to leave a well designed botnet social media for a black hole called the fediverse. In order to gain more meaningful membership we must first prove that Lemmy is worth overcoming the barriers to enter and engage with the people that are already here. Once the rest of the internet finds out we're cool, they'll show up.

[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 48 points 1 month ago

"Reddit is awful. How do we move that here?"

[-] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 27 points 1 month ago

We simply don't need Reddit users. We need Lemmy users who desire to start communities. Lemmy is Reddit 10 years ago, and that's just fine.

[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 month ago

Lemmy is Reddit 10 years ago

I mean it's not THAT good, but it's sure better than Reddit today.

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[-] Sonor@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

For me - and i am new - the whole point of lemmy is less people, less content to scroll, and more quality. If lemmy was reddit, i would leave lemmy too

[-] FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

There's nothing wrong with this approach either but I'd remind you and anyone else seeking this experience that Lemmy is infinitely more customizable for this than reddit ever was. The ability to block users, communities, instances, etc can be invaluable. Some instances also don't federate with everyone so it's fairly easy to find a smaller space that isn't so busy if the larger instances are too much.

Lemmy gets a lot of shit, and deservedly so at times, but there are already some very handy tools in the kit for curating your feed to your liking.

[-] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I see this a lot too and to me it mimics the 7 stages of grief. It sounds like he just passed anger and is at bargaining.

I think if most of the reddit transplants (myself a transplant) can’t arrive at acceptance, they end up going back.

[-] ad_on_is@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Reddit took the time to get these communities going...

Sure! But, in this case Lemmy is literally a federated copypasta of Reddit, like Madtodon is of X.

Therefore, I think Lemmy is already a few steps ahead, due to the existing familiarity how communities/subs are supposed to be used.

So it's not we're starting from scratch... It's just getting rid of the annoyances of Reddit.

Take Mastodon/BlueSky as an example. People are already familiar withbthe concept of how to use it.

[-] FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz 11 points 1 month ago

Sure! But, in this case Lemmy is literally a federated copypasta of Reddit, like Madtodon is of X.

This is being overly simplistic IMO. Lemmy is not a direct copy paste of reddit, just the idea is the same. Lemmy is missing many of the tools reddit has come to depend on for things like moderation and community engagement. The idea is the same but the framework is different and that comes with its own challenges.

Lemmy is a good enough platform for now and for future growth. It wasn't a drop in replacement for reddit when the exodus happened and it isn't a drop in replacement now, but it's closer. There are still lots of little things- quality of life improvements, moderation improvements, discovery improvements, etc that need to be tuned or fixed before Lemmy is ready to shoulder millions of active users, but that doesn't mean it isn't worthy of the effort today.

The beautiful part of the fediverse is we're all free to form our own ideas about how it's best grown and supported. If there's something you are passionate about there's nothing stopping you or anyone else from spinning up a community or instance about it and creating the niche communities everyone seems to miss. It all takes time, and individual and group efforts.

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[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

But, that's not relevant to communities. You can kill a community by technical means, but technical means cannot create one; it's necessary but not sufficient, and not even the hard part.

Most people are still on fucking FACEBOOK. They are willing to put up with almost unlimited bullshittery for the sake of their sense of community. Building a better mousetrap won't work, and building a vaguely equivalent mousetrap won't even move the needle.

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[-] can@sh.itjust.works 43 points 1 month ago

We don't. We just continue to stay here and grow and flourish naturally. I see no need to rush.

[-] Thetimefarm@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago

Yup, I say it in every thread of this sort I see pop up, you definitionally can't force organic engagement.

[-] myopic_menace@reddthat.com 17 points 1 month ago

Post in communities that align with your interests. Post in communities for your geographic area, if you're comfortable with that. Comment on posts you see, if you think you can add something of value to the conversation.

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[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago

Most people don't change unless they have to, and rarely even then. You'd have to make it so that they can't visit Reddit anymore.

Even on reddit itself, you can't get people to move from a sick community with hostile moderation to the preferred community. /r/Canada got taken over by /r/metacanada what feels like decades ago, and they turned it into a post modern bigoted classist hellhole, but it still ranks far above the "real" Canadian sub /r/OnGaurdForThee.

Maybe better not to compete with existing communities. Develop some anchor communities on Lemmy that are doing their own thing on topics that aren't well served on Reddit.

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[-] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago

Stop using Reddit.

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

You can't be that sick of it if you want even let go of the place.

[-] SomeGuy69@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

Where does the believe even originate from, that Redditors are any different than Lemmings? Basically the same people minus the youngest, because they stick with using Reddit. They might or might not migrate eventually.

Make communities here bigger by contributing and spread the word of Reddit alternative. Make search engines find Lemmy content and then it goes on it's own. I guess Bluesky will push the Fediverse, but I wonder how long people will stick to a Twitter esque when they could have Lemmy full text conversations and tree structures?

[-] ericjmorey@discuss.online 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Lemmy needs to mature on a technical basis. The Lemmy service itself is still lacking significantly. But it it progressing.

Outside of technical limitations, focus on communities. A few good ones are better than many mediocre ones.

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[-] Mickey7@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

One suggestion to increase participation on Lemmy of those already here is to encourage people to spend some time just looking at the "all new posts" feed. I look at it a few times per day and was surprised at the number of Lemmy groups that I never knew existed. There are far to many groups here that started out good and just faded away. If it's an interest of yours post there and try to rejuvenate the group. Message the existing moderator if you can be added as a mod for that group.

[-] blind3rdeye@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago

Just mention lemmy from time to time on other platforms; not to say "please come here", but rather just to let people know that lemmy exists and has interesting stuff on it. People will check it out if they are interested.

[-] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago

Lol it's porn.

Not anything else. Provide the better covert porn outlet.

[-] WanderingVentra@lemm.ee 11 points 1 month ago

There's porn on here. Lemmynsfw.com is actually the second most populous instance irrc (or top 3?). Just got to convince people to post to it. But then we got the same problem of trying to convince people to do that lol.

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[-] Wistful@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 month ago

They allegedly remove posts/comments about lemmy? And even if they don't, I feel like it could have the opposite effect. People would see those posts just like ads/promotion/spam. Which would give lemmy a bad rep. Unless something big happens, like some big community switching to lemmy, or someone with a big following promotes lemmy, it will hardly see a big spike in user count.

The only way is to passively "advertise" it. Maybe add the link to your lemmy account in your reddits about you section, if you are making OC add your lemmy handle there as well...

And the last way, which is most likely the best way to do it, is to post good content on lemmy, keep communities alive. And people will eventually join.

[-] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Lots of edgelords here like "I don't want the reddit plebs here" as though they weren't happily one of them a couple years ago.

Let them come over. Put the idea of federation to the test. Isn't that one of the major features of federation, if there are a bunch of shitty people you can just defederate or use a different community?
If federation does what it claims then it'll only be an improvement.

I agree with people saying not to force people here if they don't wanna be (not that we could), but the people saying that folks still on reddit are there because they inherently prefer the reddit application UX is crazy. They prefer the content in reddit. And they have a point.

Folks here are way more insufferable than reddit. Just the other day there was a post being like "why do reddit users hate Lemmy?" And linked a reddit post about it. But the comments on the reddit post were considered, nuanced, and polite; while the comments on the Lemmy post were a bunch of neckbeards crying about how terrible reddit users are.

TLDR y'all need to look in the mirror.

Edit: typo degenerate → defederate

[-] rozodru@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

can't. the ones that are still there wouldn't understand how to use lemmy and the fediverse and they'll just bash for the same reasons that bsky users bash mastodon. They want things to "just work" out of the box and are too lazy to figure things out.

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[-] Subtracty@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I don't want the masses from Reddit to migrate to Lemmy. I want people currently on Lemmy to post and comment. More engagement is what we need. No one is going to move to Lemmy if they see the top posts are hours old with only 100 upvotes and no comments.

If they didn't leave Reddit by now, they like the new Reddit experience.

[-] n3cr0@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ask and answer their popular questions again in here. Also, a popular search engine should list the thread on Lemmy.

[-] m_f@midwest.social 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Send interesting Lemmy links to people you know. That's how they get interested, and check it out. You won't convince many people by extolling the benefits of the Fediverse, you just have to show them that they'll be entertained, and maybe they'll be somewhat more likely to switch if they know it won't enshittify. I'd say you should send links from instances that don't federate with some of the weirder places like Hexbear though, that's likely to turn people off until they realize how the Fediverse works.

One thing that we could use more of that draws people in is posts about relationship issues. Entertaining for almost everyone, and pretty much anyone can create them from their own experience.

[-] Nangt3c@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Why? So moderators can come here and ban you from their communities if you don't agree with their biased bullshit and politics? No thank you

[-] btaf45@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Mods can't ban you from their fediverse community. You could just post from another site. It is why fediverse is superior to reddit.

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[-] ad_on_is@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

There are already some communities with the same tooic, but without much interaction, so I was mainly refering to joining existing ones.

However, even if that happens, one can simply go ahead and create a new community with normal mod behavior.

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[-] GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Why bother?

Reddit isn't Lemmy. Lemmy is Lemmy.

Enjoy who's here. Hi. I'm GhiLA.

[-] matcha_addict@lemy.lol 5 points 1 month ago

Which communities? I personally find most of my favorite communities to be better in lemmy than on Reddit, with a few exceptions.

[-] Maggoty@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Well there are some video game ones.

[-] WanderingVentra@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

Ya I just got to reddit for specific video game ones now basically. Or specific TV shows.

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[-] Fedditor385@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Asking people to do something will never work, telling people how something is better will trigger their curiosity to at least take a look.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Engage with communities here. The politics and tech communities are lively enough, but niche communities are lacking. Give people a reason to come here who aren't politics/tech junkies.

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[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 1 month ago

be the change you want to see. offer alternatives to subs pissed about over moderation, ads and bot activity. some instances still let you create your own communities, like mine https://moist.catsweat.com

[-] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Don't bother, just make your own communities or magazines and contribute to them regularly.

"If you build it, they will come."

You can tell people about it if you like (especially if it comes up casually in conversation), but if you try to push it too hard you'll drive people away.

If the fediverse grows too quickly, it will also introduce more problems existing systems may not be able to handle.

[-] Auster@thebrainbin.org 4 points 1 month ago

Something I've been thinking about is that changes only happen organically, so I think it's good to not be an insistent advocate for a platform X, Y or Z. Instead, I think that perhaps it's better, instead, to simply use the platform the person is more favorable towards whenever possible, and if people then share something worth sharing, it should slowly bring people over. And regarding the annoying part, at most, making a note about technicalities and the type of people in the site could be good if discussions the person is engaged in allows, and if the person didn't burn people's patience by being pedantic.

[-] bokherif@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Most of them are bots anyway and I really wouldn't want "everyone" to find out about and use lemmy because that would be the downfall of lemmy.

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