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Deleted my Reddit! I am now entirely federated online except for Pixelfed! (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 hours ago by Intergalactic@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

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The fediverse has been good to me so far, I am more than happy to support these projects, and to support the future of social networking.

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[-] Flamekebab@piefed.social 2 points 15 minutes ago

In general I've found Lemmy to be closer to the feel of old forums in interactions. Arguments and petty squabbles are still entirely possible, but it doesn't feel like every interaction is about to become one. It's what pushed me to stop using Reddit - everything seems to end up as a fight for the slightest reason. Whilst I'm plenty abrasive as a person, it felt like Reddit got worse over the last 5 - 10 years.

They might have a bigger userbase now than when I joined but it's not ended up being worth it, I feel.

[-] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 5 points 1 hour ago

Just make sure to follow tge rules.

Whatch out for tankies
Dont mention the ex reddit

Other than that we are glad to have you. Welcome to our little(for now) corner of the internet.

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 1 points 2 minutes ago

I used to be a tankie lol

[-] Jerry@feddit.online 32 points 3 hours ago

You've ascended! You're now part of the real world!

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 21 points 3 hours ago

Feels like it. Interaction feels more human here 😂

[-] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago

I, too, feel more human here fellow human 💪

[-] Pringles@lemm.ee 13 points 3 hours ago

Lemmy: very human to use.

[-] solsangraal@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 hours ago

and, in over a year of being here, i've yet to see anyone whining about reposts!

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 7 points 2 hours ago

Okay, but don't say that I did nothin' for ya m'kay!?

Here it is just for you:

[-] solsangraal@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 3 points 1 hour ago

Well I don't know if "wise" would quite apply...

[-] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I wouldn't exactly call what I was complaining about my first week reposts, but I definately had system shock while I was still figuring out how things worked.

I'd see 3 different communities, all about the same topic, and I'd subscribe to them all.

Well, if you have 3 communities all focused on the same subject, when there's breaking news about that subject, they're all going to post that same news story.

So in my feed I'd see the same url posted from 3 different instances. It's not exactly a repost, but it feels the same.

I still don't know what the solution for that is. Feels less like a me problem, and more like a systems concept problem. Instead of having 3 communities with 3 users each, I feel like it'd be better to have 1 combined community with 20 users.

Now you may be saying "heeeey, wait a second! 3+3+3 doesn't equal 20!!!". In which case, congrats, you passed American public school high school. But I feel like one community with more users to start with would attract more users going forward. Kind of like a snowball effect that a single split community of 3 never got the snowball rolling on.

I like the idea of decentralized, I DON'T like the idea of fractured, and there is a difference. Right now, Lemmy feels like both.

So you take the good, you take the bad, you roll it up, and what'dya get? The facts of life.....the facts of life.....

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 4 points 2 hours ago

Well now I don't want you to feel left out so... this is for you:

[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 2 points 57 minutes ago* (last edited 56 minutes ago)

It’s nice over here, it’s not the same 15 questions across subs every 3 days. It’s not the same recycled stories ad nauseam. And, there’s more Gowron.

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 13 points 2 hours ago

Welcome! People are kinder here, overall. You'll find yourself less defensive, more willing to engage, less snarky, easier to be around irl - man, Reddit was (is?) toxic AF, and whether or not I came here I was definitely leaving there.

Remember to block early and often here - back there that was almost pointless bc a never-ending stream of Reddi-trolls was ready to take their place, but here that actually works!:-)

Check out !newtolemmy@lemmy.ca for many more tips. You are going to like it here:-).

Also, since you mentioned PixelFed, check out PieFed as well as a Lemmy alternative - it has e.g. "categories" of communities rather than making you find and subscribe to each one individually, so it's a whole different style compared to Lemmy where you have to browse by All to find new content. I'm speaking to you from it right now.:-)

But either way, I find that (most of) the people here are more worth talking to than Reddit:-).

[-] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 12 points 2 hours ago

Kinder???? How DARE you. I'll have you know I only kissed 2 puppies instead of 3 this morning

[-] PlantJam@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago

I kissed four so the universe is now back in balance and there's nothing you can do about it.

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 8 points 2 hours ago

[-] ShadowRam@fedia.io 6 points 2 hours ago

People are kinder here, overall.

That may be because there aren't troll bots, stoking the fires, to drum up 'discussion' which makes it look good to advertisers that it is an active pool of users.

Did no one see the all the bots around 2015/2016 learning on Reddit?

They would say all sorts of non-sensical stuff as they learned, until there would be a hit or two that would get responses out of people, and it would re-enforce the bot to say more things like that.

Guess what kind of stuff/topics gets a plethora of responses?

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 2 points 2 hours ago

Yeah that, but also the humans there too were a bit much. The entire culture is like "entertain me, while I shit on your efforts to do so". People (don't) wait to speak rather than actually listen.

Here we are allowed to have an older crowd of people - who use Linux btw - and do more to step up to be the change that they want to see in the world rather than merely vent like children.

I definitely would have left Reddit regardless of whether Lemmy existed to come to or not, so I get why so many content creators left Reddit - it just became not fun anymore. (And yeah, the chasing after profits is what originally made it that way, but also the sheeple consented too.)

[-] technomad@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 hours ago

Why exclude Pixelfed though?

Welcome, by the way! 😁

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

Still haven’t been approved past the 48 hour mark.

[-] ptz@dubvee.org 19 points 3 hours ago

Congrats. This is my last remaining form of social media, but once I got my feed and block lists curated, it's been pretty great here.

[-] Intergalactic@lemmy.world 12 points 3 hours ago

Yeah, I need to still need to work on it, some subs seem pretty inactive with low user engagement, but I am here to change that.

[-] FundMECFSResearch 9 points 2 hours ago

What’s nice about here is even if you post an engaging post in a completely dead tiny community it still has the potential to get quite big since lots of people browse via all.