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Pastor’s daughter, 6, killed in freak badminton accident while on vacation (www.independent.co.uk)
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[-] mocha_lotsofmilk@lemmy.world 66 points 10 months ago

This is the sort of thing that would break me if I were to believe in god in the first place, man. Like, like religion or not, this dude devoted his life to an entity that has a "plan" and then his sweet daughter dies in an accident that his other kids were also present for and participants in. How could you believe after that? Fuck. Hope they make it out of this as well as they can.

[-] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 31 points 10 months ago

Totally agree. And can you imagine being the person whose racket broke and killed her? Whether you did something wrong or not, you'd always feel responsible for her death. At least, I would.

[-] mocha_lotsofmilk@lemmy.world 18 points 10 months ago

Sounds like that person was her sibling too... Just tragic

[-] Obi@sopuli.xyz 8 points 10 months ago

They're setup for a life of pain, depression and self harm behaviour...

[-] Galapagon@sh.itjust.works 14 points 10 months ago

Because it's " part of the plan, and it was challenging at first, and it tested my faith. I even asked 'y u do dis god?' and then I learned something something god is glorious n such"

[-] erin 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I'm not religious, but I grew up in a religious home. It's worth noting that "everything happens for a reason" and "God has a plan for everything" are not in the Bible and are not doctrine, as far as I remember. These are platitudes people with a poor understanding of their religion say, but not actually part of the belief system. This pastor likely has a more nuanced, and possibly more painful, view of this event through the lens of their belief.

[-] WldFyre@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

Those tenets were definitely a part of my upbringing haha

[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Hey now, daughter is singing psalms in heaven right at this very moment!

Or she's in hell of course.

[-] PM_Your_Nudes_Please@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Something similar (but maybe not quite as tragic) is why my wife and mother-in-law lost their religion. My MIL was catholic, and initially tried to raise my wife as such. But my wife was really painfully sick for years as a child. Basically all of her elementary school years were spent either in pain or unconscious. She doesn’t even remember most of her childhood. Watching her go through it and not being able to do anything to help was what caused my MIL (and by extension, my wife) to lose religion. Because what kind of benevolent god would intentionally inflict that on a child?

[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 35 points 10 months ago

Sorry, how would the aluminum shaft of a racquet separate from its handle, on a downward swing, while 10-year-old boy is holding it, striking and piercing the skull of a girl who is sitting on the sidelines... be an ACCIDENT?

Sounds like a sibling squabble got a bit out of hand and that 10-year-old boy needs to be watched verrrry closely forevermore.

[-] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 16 points 10 months ago

I'm very suspicious of this story, myself. Somebody hit that little girl with the racquet.

[-] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Yeah I'm speculating that the preacher refuses to state and publicize the obvious facts, because that would ruin his 10-year-old son's life, and tarnish the entire family's life, and the preacher's image, and career.

[-] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 11 points 10 months ago

It was an act of God

[-] arin@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Quite literally

[-] TheOctonaut@mander.xyz 34 points 10 months ago

Yeah this isn't the first thing I should have read today

[-] Hugh_Jeggs@lemm.ee 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I don't understand why people click these things. They're specifically designed to sell to you via advertising, and the byproduct is making you upset

Just... don't

[-] Daxtron2@startrek.website 14 points 10 months ago

All part of gods plan saying 4 kids was too many.

[-] Pratai@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

Careful with that edge.

[-] Dkarma@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Reality is a blade I guess

[-] SoleInvictus 2 points 10 months ago

"Gawd just called this angel home early"

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 12 points 10 months ago

I don’t understand how this happened. A badminton racket shattered moving through the air? And exploded with such force that a shard flew across the court and hit the girl on the sidelines with enough force to impale her skull?

[-] skeezix@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Yes. Then exited and tore through a six inch wooden beam.

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

So is this pastor protecting his son? Is that pretty much the takeaway here?

[-] skeezix@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

The takeaway is don’t play badminton.

[-] Dkarma@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Just like 9/11

[-] SoleInvictus 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Based on the article, I gather that the racket shattered during play and the aluminum shaft was launched with enough force to impale her through her skull. The momentum behind tools like that is pretty significant and the cross-sectional area of a badminton racket shaft is very small. An adult skull is only around 6-7mm thick. Given she was a young child with a relatively thin, soft juvenile skull, I can see how it could impart enough force to shatter through thin bone if everything lined up perfectly.

Given it was a group of children playing, I wouldn't be surprised if the kids were also trying to smash the shuttlecock as hard as possible.

That was a lot of fucked up analysis. I'm going to go hug my cat and wife now.

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I mean, sure, the human skull is only so thick and a child’s skull is soft- er, but…we’re still talking about a shitty little badminton racket. I’ve hit my head pretty fucking hard, on relatively sharp stuff. Breaking skin on your head is relatively rare. To be impaled by a randomly shattering racket, with that thin aluminum? After the thing flies at least a few feet through the breeze off the water…with enough force to then impale bone?? It just sounds really…implausible. With enough force to kill her! It almost seems more than implausible, honestly. Unless there is a factor they just aren’t sharing. Did the kid intentionally hit his sister is the question. It sounds that way, honestly.

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