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[-] macrocarpa@lemmy.world 316 points 3 months ago

Not sure who I'm writing this for or who but will share it anyway

can I maybe humanise piper Perri a bit?

Well post this scene she had a kid. Split with the dad. Got into a new relationship. 25 years old.

She left said 21 month old son in the care of her boyfriend. Returns to find the child hospitalised with multiple suspicious injuries and severe internal head trauma.

She started a gofundme to pay for his treatment. Trolled of course because porn star. The largest contributor was funnily enough an adult site.

Son didn't make it. She requested his organs be donated so he could live on in other people. His death meant three other kids had longer / better lives.

The boyfriend went to court. Gave conflicting reasons as to how the injuries occurred during interviews then settled on the old fell down the stairs response. The cause of death noted as shaken baby syndrome.

That's what I see when I see this meme. A mother whose kid was killed but had the grace and heart to use her son's passing to help other kids live. One day these kids will see the meme and not realise they're alive because of the choices of that woman.

She had sex on camera with some black guys in a taboo scene which plays on the white male insecurity fetish, which we now use as a shortcut to mean being taken advantage of. Weird, huh.

Anyway. Julienne, I hope you're doing well.

[-] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 123 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

In case this is ever useful for someone to read:

It is OK to just put a child down and leave the room if you can't handle them for whatever reason. It doesn't make you a bad person. Just leave the room, get some space and call someone for help if you need it.

Update: was not expecting a meme/prank about porn to generate such a thoughtful and valuable discussion about child safety and cultural attitudes to parenting. Thank you Piper Perri.

[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 48 points 3 months ago

As a parent of two young autistic children, breaks are very important. You will parent better and they will react better

[-] lars@lemmy.sdf.org 27 points 3 months ago

Wow. No kids here. But this is absolutely not the narrative I’ve picked up through mostly American media. In the back of my mind is this pull that essentially says that if a baby is awake—especially if they’re being frustrating—it should not be alone.

The wow is because 1. I wasn’t even aware I felt that way, and 2. because it’s in conflict with what sounds like helpful advice.

[-] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 39 points 3 months ago

I'm a parent of four, at least two of whom are autistic, and I can confirm. A child is almost never in danger in their crib; and if you are unsure of your ability to control your anger, they are potentially in danger in your arms.

American popular media has a fairly rosy and tidy view of kids. Even when they're portrayed as difficult, they're still lovable scamps. And, to be clear, kids are great; I love being a dad more than almost anything I've ever done.

But they're also very difficult; and no matter how even-keeled you are in normal life, you find yourself in a pretty dark place when they're still crying and you're on your third night in a row with only two hours of sleep. Sitcoms never show the end of the frayed rope.

I haven't ever shaken or otherwise harmed my children. But I have often been horrified by the dark intrusive thoughts that come into my mind at 3am; and four kids in, I'm much more comfortable with leaving them in bed.

[-] lennybird@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago

My wife and I joke about this all the time — how the hell can we become more like Daniel Tiger's parents!? We swear right off-camera in the other room they're ripping a massive bong or something to remain that chill.... And Daniel, that kid is perfect, listens to reason all the time, and pretty much never has a tantrum!

Just once I want to see Daniel lose his shit followed by the parents who are exhausted trying to hold it together. I want a realistic portrayal of parenting and childhood tantrums. I want to see the parents break down and over-punish or say something wrong but then retract and come back and say sorry, etc.

That being said, we take our own deep breaths, try our best to comfort our kiddos when we can and ensure that all their needs are met. And when all else fails—gas, diaper, food, play-time, teething, checking for cold symptoms, holding them in a low-stimulus room, etc. — we give them a little time to try to calm down or take a nap. On the flip-side, we're not fans of the CIO method and aren't just going to let them go on and on for a half hour or more. A reset after that tends to reveal whatever the problem is.... But anyway, we're still learning.

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[-] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago

I hear you fellow dad. I doubt anyone wants to admit it but we all have limits to our patience, kindness and responsibility, especially, like you say, when deprived of sleep and getting screamed in the earhole for long periods of time. Kids (and especially babies of course) don't understand that. A couple of times I've been so strung out and stressed that I've had to put the baby down and go outside and beat the earth with a stick. This was much easier to do, having previously been given the advice by a midwife. It's too easy to think you should have infinite patience, which is why I think things can go tragically wrong in some cases.

[-] constantokra@lemmy.one 5 points 3 months ago

Trampolines work wonders. Even one of the little ones. Jumping rope is good too, if you're good at it. Your leg muscles are your biggest muscles and engaging them will burn off the most stress hormones the most efficiently.

[-] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

No kidding. My outlet is a long bike ride, but that assumes my wife is home and not also feeling at the end.

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[-] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 10 points 3 months ago

Yeah, there's a totally inflexible cultural expectation of parents to be there for their kids no matter what, with no regard for bedrock emotional and psychological limitations or even common sense. Incidentally, I think this is why so many people are shocked and appalled when they become adults in the big bad world and discover that it isn't devoted to them. It's a tough gig for the best of us but if you've been brought up with an illusion of god-like figures who can unfailingly be summoned at all times to protect you from everything then I think adulthood is a wake-up call that probably never ends.

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[-] secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.world 49 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

she sounds like a really cool person and it's awful that happened to her son

this joke isn't making fun of her or saying she's a bad person. people can like porn like this without being bad or racist people.

but i'm glad you told us a bit about who she is. porn stars and sex workers do something really kind, in a way, because they are providing something people really want, but may not otherwise get, which is also a fundamental human need. i hope one day society changes and we glorify sex workers for being valuable members of society and i hope one day being a porn star is completely a choice and doesn't have to be disentangled from "late stage capitalism" or extremely unequal wealth distribution or whatever you want to call our current era. People who star in pornography, if not forced to star in it due to poverty, choose to become slightly public figures, in a strange way, and should expect possible jokes like this. this joke is not making fun of her, it's making fun of the play on words. it sucks she was trolled for a gofundme, however, and perhaps this joke should be seen in that context as therefore being unfair.

did the boyfriend get convicted? is she doing alright now? i hope she's doing well too. there are between 3-6 parents out there who owe everything to her right now and always will.

[-] mechoman444@lemmy.world 35 points 3 months ago

Well, for like thirty seconds I was amused by this post and now I feel like complete shit.

Thank you internet strange.

[-] kofe@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago

Thank you for sharing this. She and her son deserve it

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 20 points 3 months ago

To pull on one thread of your very sad story: the shocking displays of racism in seemingly all black/white interracial porn is beyond disgusting. I think it plays a big part in perpetuating racism in younger white men, because in their very formative years, seeing the type stuff I’ve scrolled past? It can seemingly only work to turn men on if it plays on racism. And some of them lean so hard into this that it’s just outright racism. But when people are scrolling porn, they’re not in their right minds. So if they have those racist inclinations, or they just grew up almost never interacting with any Black people, it only serves to pile racist stereotypes and conditioning into their brains. It’s disgusting.

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 3 months ago

I dunno. I've watched vids in this genre when the lady performer is someone I'm already interested in seeing. They don't make me feel insecure or engender racism in me. But then again, I was already an adult when broadband internet became a thing. And true broadband, fast enough to allow instant streaming, was still years after that. I can see your point for kids growing up with it though.

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Yeah, I definitely mean more now. When I was a kid, we didn’t have just huge scrollers of porn. You had to look for what/who you wanted. Now, in this time of “maximum engagement” and algorithms, they will put popular stuff in front of you, hoping to get you watching. It’s gotta be where a lot of the incest interest comes in, too. And the more inflammatory they make the titles, the more they can put you onto specific niches of taboo pleasure, the more likely it is they can get you to click and keep clicking. So they will put like “I SHRED my INNOCENT little sister’s VIRGIN PUSSY” or like “four HUGE DICKED black men VIOLATE this young pristine WHITE PUSSY”

Like…ew. What the fuck.

Just another example of how the internet has been weaponized and bastardized from the early days.

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[-] dgmib@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Since I get the feeling I don’t want to look it up.

What were the alleged ”liberal media lies” that “ruined” this girls life?

[-] indepndnt@lemmy.world 28 points 3 months ago

The image in this post is trolling. If someone searches the suggested phrase, they'll find a porn video. All of the text before that is meant to bait Trump supporters into wanting to know more. There were no liberal media lies about her. The comment you're replying to gives some (presumably true) background on her but doesn't really have anything to do with the completely fabricated original post.

[-] eran_morad@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

Heartbreaking.

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[-] SonicBlue03@sh.itjust.works 91 points 3 months ago

An in-depth probe was done by the BBC. Both parties seemed satisfied in the end.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

You have unintentionally demonstrated your purity with this comment.

You may pass into heaven.

[-] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 81 points 3 months ago

This is funny, but 100% of Trumps supporters know who she is. You don't campaign that hard to ban porn if you're not miserably addicted to it.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 11 points 3 months ago

Wait there are people who aren't miserably addicted to it?

I don't know if you noticed or not, but Sears ain't making catalogs anymore.

[-] Naboo_calls_for_aid@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 months ago

I didn't catch it til I read your comment. Is there that much crossover between trumpets and the conservatives trying to block pornography?

[-] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 13 points 3 months ago

Yeah, it's a major part of the Republican "Project 2025" plan for if Trump wins in November.

Not only are they promising to uphold the First Amendment and all forms of free speech, they are also promising to ban porn because it is "too offensive". Very coherent stuff...

And yeah, most conservative men have a porn problem and their desire for a ban is a desperate call for a nanny state that will protect them from their own sex drives.

[-] Naboo_calls_for_aid@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 months ago

I've honestly been shocked that pornhub has been inaccessible (without VPN or other means) in Texas as long as it has. Guess now we know what's on the ballet this year.

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[-] MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works 54 points 3 months ago

I lay in bed some nights and ask myself, "Why God? Why didn't they take me instead of her?!" Sometimes, life just isn't fair.

[-] Late2TheParty@lemmy.world 54 points 3 months ago

I've watched that video over and over and over again. The librul media has gone too far! (Well tbh, once I finished the first time, I didn't have the energy to watch it again.)

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[-] JSocial@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 3 months ago

This always makes me laugh. Anyone seen the aftermath of searching this IRL?

I fucking hope so.

[-] littlebluespark@lemmy.world 25 points 3 months ago

I'd need a second towel for that 🤌🏽

[-] JSocial@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 3 months ago

Bwahahahahaha.

Goddamn I'm a 12 year old boy at heart.

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[-] ChihuahuaOfDoom@lemmy.world 30 points 3 months ago

I fucking hate what they did to that poor girl.

[-] riplin@lemm.ee 36 points 3 months ago

Yeah they shafted her pretty hard.

[-] bazus1@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago

Those accusations were a real gut-shot.

[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 25 points 3 months ago

Username checks out

[-] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 25 points 3 months ago

I already know what this is going to be, but I'm going to search it anyway.

...

Yup.

[-] LEDZeppelin@lemmy.world 20 points 3 months ago

Next up: Drump writes Ms. Perry $130,000 check in “legal fees”

[-] then_three_more@lemmy.world 19 points 3 months ago

Lol BBC liberal media. They have a massive Tory bias.

[-] squid_slime@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago

Tories have great funding from corporate, thus BBC have better funding from the Tories, capitalism baby

[-] then_three_more@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

It's not just that. As government they have influence over who runs the BBC. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBC_Board

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[-] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 months ago

Forward Piper Perri BBC to sixteen people to stop the steal!

[-] wildcardology@lemmy.world 13 points 3 months ago

The video has been around for years and I've never seen it. Not really a fan of Piper Perri so I never bothered.

[-] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 months ago

Don't believe the lies bro.

[-] JimSamtanko@lemm.ee 8 points 3 months ago
[-] Naich@lemmings.world 7 points 3 months ago

It just took me 5 minutes to work out what was going on. God I'm slow these days.

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 3 months ago

Hahaha! I didn't recognize the name (though I thought it seemed a bit familiar). I fell for the joke. But that's probably only because I don't like blonds. If the name had been a brunette, I'd have been more likely to get it without doing a search.

[-] pigup@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago
[-] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago

Why would BBC care about American issues this much?

It’s too much of a stretch for the joke

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[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

I didn’t downvote because I agree with the story of who this person is and she’s a good one after someone had to explain it. But i downvoted that this political meme was a disaster at getting the correct information and emotion across. The title was lacking (yet your anger wording on the meme itself was not) and this was needlessly confusing for what a meme should represent.

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[-] squid_slime@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The FUCKING libs! At it a gain! Tarnishing the name of this beautiful young god fearing Republican! /s

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