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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by firefly@neon.nightbulb.net to c/programmerhumor@lemmy.ml

Difference Between Nerd and Geek

Has anyone written a scientific treatise on the differences between nerd and geek?

On the one hand, I could instigate endless debate about the finer points of nerds.

On the other hand I could construct nerds with a 3-D meat printer.

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[-] Zachariah@lemmy.world 72 points 8 months ago
[-] gramathy@lemmy.ml 30 points 8 months ago

I feel like dweeb and dork are reversed here

[-] SnotFlickerman 18 points 8 months ago

Finally, someone else who remembers the Dweebs!

There's dozens of us! Dozens!

[-] tjsauce@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Sluts, bloods, dweebies, dickheads... They love him! They think he's a righteous dude.

[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Username checks out

[-] firefly@neon.nightbulb.net 12 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

This is genius. ^^^

Analysis of the styles and colors of Venn diagrams by nerds and geeks could be represented in yet another Venn diagram. Somebody call Banach for help.

[-] Wooster@startrek.website 46 points 8 months ago

If this is a joke, it’s going over my head. But as I understand it:

Geek: Socially Acceptable, Really smart about a particular topic, or in general. Nerd: Socially awkward, really smart about a topic or in general. Dork: Socially awkward, not especially bright.

[-] snooggums@midwest.social 16 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

How I remember it being used as a kid in the 80s/90s and were about less popular things like math/science/chess/D&D/band/etc.

Nerd - Knows a lot of minutes about a thing, but is generally introverted in how they approach it. They will discuss it calmly with other needs, hang out in small groups, and might even hide their interest if they are bullied.

Geek - Knows a lot of minute about a nerdy thing, but is extremely excited about it externally. They 'geek out about the thing and want to share it with everyone.

I assume they were used differently in different places and times, so that's just my experience.

[-] OmanMkII@aussie.zone 9 points 8 months ago

That's more or less my understanding, a nerd knows a lot of useless random facts, but a geek will tell them to you whether you asked or not.

[-] firelizzard@programming.dev 6 points 8 months ago

I think the word you want is minutiae?

[-] snooggums@midwest.social 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Yes, autocorrect seems to be worse than usual lately.

Minute <- just checked and it switches the words and I guess it is time to figure out how to turn autocorrect off.

[-] aviationeast@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

The other two I agree with but a geek:someone who thinks they know it all, and occasionally gets things right. Asshole by nature.

[-] Xkdrxodrixkr@feddit.de 37 points 8 months ago

relevant xkcd:

[-] 7uWqKj@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

A geek is one who buys an Apple watch to take phone calls, monitor his heart rate, and control the colour of the lights in his living room.

A nerd is one who buys an Apple watch and hacks it to run Doom.

[-] souperk@reddthat.com 8 points 8 months ago

neither, I am autistic, it's not a choice, it's a need.

[-] flora_explora@beehaw.org 2 points 8 months ago

Same. I often find people identifying with "nerd stuff" and wanting to be seen as nerdy somehow annoying for exactly that reason. I didn't choose to be awkward or to have intense special interests.

[-] firelizzard@programming.dev 2 points 8 months ago

I’d stop being awkward if I could but I wouldn’t give up my intense interests. You?

[-] flora_explora@beehaw.org 1 points 8 months ago

Interesting question!

I have the feeling that intense interests often lead to being awkward because it is assumed that "normal" people don't so this. If I start passionately talking about my interests, neurotypical people often don't get why I'm so intense about it and either find me boring, too much or cute (in a patronizing way). And having learnt to mask a lot and not show my interests, I often feel frustrated not to be able to share my interests. So for me, being awkward and having special interests are tied together.

But still, I'd rather be awkward than being such a boring person without the passion for their interests. I'm also trans and queer, and I wouldn't like to be a cishet person either. Although it sucks so much not fitting in society and frequently being discriminated against, I wouldn't be me without these traits. I would just be a very narrowminded, boring and passionless person I guess (I obviously don't know how to imagine being someone else, not meant to be offensive). In my utopia, people would just be accepting of others and different needs and expressions.

[-] firelizzard@programming.dev 1 points 8 months ago

I’m a cishet white dude so I experience effectively zero discrimination directed at me, but I am on the spectrum.

I guess basically everyone I regularly interact with either is also on the spectrum or has intense interests regardless, or is used to people like that. Though TBF I have learned to not get intense if I’m in public talking to random strangers. But if someone asks me a question like, “how do computers work”, I will answer at great length.

[-] SnotFlickerman 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)
[-] leaky_shower_thought@feddit.nl 7 points 8 months ago

merriam-webster has something on the lower part of the page.

it seems very close to what others have said: dork is the generally awkward fellow. nerd is the hobbyist who sacrificed socializing to the art. geek are the nerds with some niche circle.

[-] TootSweet@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

I doubt there's consensus on the topic.

[-] firefly@neon.nightbulb.net 6 points 8 months ago

Exactly as expected!

[-] Maerman@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 months ago

Nerds do well in school. Geeks don't.

[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 months ago

I can't decide if I'd rather be a nerd or a geek. Maybe I'm a neek? Or a gerd?

[-] StThicket@reddthat.com 3 points 8 months ago

Gerd is a female name where I'm from. You should stick with neek.

[-] turbowafflz@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago
[-] Brickwald@lemmy.one 1 points 8 months ago

To me, geek is associated with pop culture while nerd is more broad.

[-] majiks@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago
[-] firelizzard@programming.dev 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

If my IQ was higher than my body weight I’d be the smartest person on the planet…

Edit: I was thinking lbs, that makes a lot more sense in kg.

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