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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Grail@aussie.zone to c/main

Two hours ago I made a post to !libertyhub@lemmy.blahaj.zone about US politics. I had previously had a good relationship with the head moderator of this community. They've encouraged My political posts, and he's removed comments by people that misgendered Me, and reminded people of My pronouns, like in this thread two days ago:

https://imgur.com/RuNKgM1.png

https://imgur.com/GLT7HR0.png

However, an hour ago in this new thread, the same moderator who was telling people to respect My capitalised pronouns uses lowercase pronouns to address Me:

https://imgur.com/fmGtHvf.png

And he has left up earlier comments which also seemed to misgender Me, and which I specifically pointed out:

https://imgur.com/KZnosuC.png

Even as some users in the thread gender Me correctly:

https://imgur.com/EBuGfom.png

I'm making this thread in the main community because since the mod has banned Me, I can no longer report the comment or leave a reply correcting the pronoun. I would like to gain the attention of @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Misgendering trans people and banning Them at the same time so They can't do anything about it is not the kind of thing I expect to see on Blahaj. This mod is clearly 100% aware of My pronouns, and made a choice here. I suppose they could be using the general "you", but it just doesn't look like that, what with banning Me, telling Me My post isn't welcome, and telling Me to go to a different community. I used to have a good rapport with this mod, they said several times that they valued My posts. I posted something he disagrees with, and now all of a sudden respecting trans people's pronouns isn't a priority anymore. He's misgendering Me and they're leaving up comments that also misgender Me. It feels targeted.

EDIT: I cannot seem to embed images. Every time I hit edit and fix the image links and press save, they change to some kind of aussie.zone image proxy link. For now I have left them as links without embedding them.

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[-] rumschlumpel 18 points 3 months ago

And that mod is really quick to ban people, hell they banned me last week less than a minute after I made a comment on one of their posts simply for saying that dems and the GQP weren’t the same (their post was implying that they were the same). The reason they banned me was for being a “liberal”.

That's fucked up mod behavior.

[-] Gormadt 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The best part is that being a "liberal" isn't against their rules, and my comment wasn't even rude.

Definitely tempered my expectations about that community.

Story Time if you're curious

Basically it went like this:

"Huh, neat a lefty community. I wonder if this one is going to be a chill one I can hang out in."

Immediately sees a "both sides" posts

"Well that's missing some much needed context"

Makes comment and carries on

Gets ding in inbox after loading up another community

BANNED for being a "liberal"

"Well that answers that question"

The mod's behaviour is on full display in the post as well.

The comment that got me banned

And the post

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this post was submitted on 20 Jul 2024
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