Fuck, man, if they were a Jew and talking about people who were voting for Nazis, would you say the same?

Fact is that conservative ideology in the modern day is overWHELMINGLY centered around dehumanization of GSMs, amongst others; and Trump's particular brand of snake oil doubly so. It's not 'categorically judging strangers' off some random attribute; it's judging strangers based on the company they want to run the country, which is not exactly an irrelevant category to consider.

You may be right about your family treating everyone with dignity and respect. But speaking purely as a matter of logic and likelihood, the other poster is absolutely right to doubt that.