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[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 5 months ago

Continue with that analogy. What would happen if that woman had no other option. Should she choose the nice guy, the chad or object to the choice being fostered upon her and choose nobody? And if she's paired anyway with that person, should she then act as if it was her choice, or take actions to disengage from that person and destroy the system that caused these turn of events?

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 43 points 5 months ago

You can tactically vote for Biden to avoid Trump and still take actions to dismantle the system.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 5 months ago

So the woman in our scenario should decide to choose the "Nice Guy" tactically?

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 32 points 5 months ago

No, I’m saying that your analogy breaks down.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I don't think it does. A choice fostered upon me at the threat of violence is not a choice at all. I refuse to participate and therefore legitimize such a farce.

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 23 points 5 months ago

You’re free to do nothing, but smart people choose to minimize harm when there are only bad choices in front of them.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 months ago

Who said I'm "doing nothing"? Voting isn't doing anything. Only actions outside the ballot matter.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 14 points 5 months ago

Voting isn’t doing anything? Did you not see what happened when Trump got to pick three Supreme Court justices? Roe is gone dude. This stuff matters.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 5 months ago

It really doesn't. This is the momentum of your country either way. Or did you forget that your democrats had chances to put Supreme Court justices and they just...didn't?

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

What are you talking about? The senate has to approve them. The GOP controlled the senate. I get you don’t understand our system but before acting so smug I’d make sure I understand what happened.

Also they’re not “my” democrats.

[-] Maeve@kbin.social 6 points 5 months ago

Hrc won the popular vote. How did voting harm reduction then do anyone any good?

[-] TigrisMorte@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

Folks that stayed home to prove a point made sure the SC would get the three. Failure to Vote resulted in the harm. Had those folks Voted, harm would have been reduced. You the failure of your own position.

[-] Maeve@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

Right, because the dnc totally didn't ignore Bernie Sanders, or Dennis Kucinich. Again, please.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

I don’t understand the question. We don’t elect based on popular vote.

[-] Maeve@kbin.social 4 points 5 months ago

I'm saying hrc votes were worthless; throw away votes. Hence a non vote was the same, and a third party vote was at least as valuable, and when enough people support a third party candidate, it will be worth more, because it shows the two major parties they have something to worry about.

[-] LinkOpensChest_wav 6 points 5 months ago

This is also a good point. I think we'd have a better shot at electing a third-party candidate than we would of pushing an establishment democrat left.

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[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 13 points 5 months ago

Non-participation is not the same as doing nothing. If she chooses to date neither, neither is in her life. If you do nothing, you still get trump or Biden. The analogy doesn’t hold.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 5 months ago

And so I refer you back to my first comment in this thread

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I have read it don’t be an ass. Make a point or don’t.

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 months ago

My point to this kind of comment is made in that post. We're just looping at this point.

[-] BolexForSoup@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

If the comment was sufficient we wouldn’t be here. It’s a bad analogy. Accept that it has flaws or make your case. Don’t keep pointing to the same insufficient comments as if the only answer is our lack of comprehension. Several people clearly disagree with it on the same grounds so maybe consider you’re wrong.

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[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 6 points 5 months ago

Yeah nah mate. You have the right to not vote. But if you choose to exercise this right you don't get to whinge about the person elected by those who did vote.

Society is not composed of you and you alone. It is composed of many. You took yourself outta this decision but it's still being made freely by everyone else and no, it doesn't impinge on you to accept the democratic consensus of the many

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I understand that I'm living in an oppressive system enforced by violence and that my life is shaped at the threat of state violence. you don't need to reiterate that to me. It's why I'm not legitimizing it by participating in this farce of "democracy" and instead dedicate my life to changing it.

Whichever puppet is on top doesn't change all that whatsoever. Nor will your platitudes about be "accepting the democratic consensus of the many" when I don't have the alternative due to said violence.

[-] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 months ago

Well said. As someone who is going to vote for Biden to keep Trump out of office, I harbor no ill will towards leftists who choose to reject the whole charade. One way or another, we need to bring down the system, and I don't see any evidence that voting for centrist democrats is likely to incrementally move us towards a better system.

On the contrary, it seems more likely to me that Trump would potentially accelerate the evolution of society by fucking everything up so badly that we would have no alternative but to make radical changes.

However, given that I am unable to be certain of the future outcome of each timeline, I believe that voting for Biden minimizes the risk of a worst case scenario. But again, I don't approve of shaming leftists for abstaining, because the reality is that both parties are colluding to maintain the status quo, and ultimately if Trump wins the election its not the voters who will be to blame, but the Democratic party for failing to produce a credible challenger.

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[-] Jaytreeman@kbin.social 6 points 5 months ago

You've got some good points. Keep up the good fight

[-] kashifshah@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 5 months ago

But if you choose to exercise this right you don't get to whinge about the person elected by those who did vote.

roflmao, sorry, that is just absurd.

until the UN General Assembly says that the right to share an opinion only applies to people who vote, you are totally wrong.

i’ll exercise my universal right to complain and have self-determination in government by not voting for genocidal maniacs, thank you very much.

[-] Pietson@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

You can refuse to vote but you're still going to end up with one of those two as your president. Are you OK with not having a say about which one it ends up being just to make a point to nobody in particular?

[-] kashifshah@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 5 months ago

Are you OK with not having a say about which one it ends up being just to make a point to nobody in particular?

Abstention makes a point to everyone in general through the tracking of voter participation levels.

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[-] kashifshah@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 5 months ago

A choice fostered upon me at the threat of violence is not a choice at all

Indeed. Vote your conscience or don’t vote at all.

[-] Maeve@kbin.social 4 points 5 months ago

Yes. While there's nothing wrong with sex work, if you're forced into it to survive when you'd rather not (marriage or cohabitation because it's either that or sex someone to get a low or higher paying job) it's still forced prostitution, and once Mr. Nice Guy has you, it's mask off, 100. Even if you willingly choose Mr. Nice Guy, and the mask comes off, it's a bait and switch, rather than duress and still scummy.

To put it another way, if your choices are die from dehydration or drink poisoned water, dehydration may be less agonizing than drinking from a brackish source.

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[-] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago

If the woman in the scenario is going to be stuck with the nice guy or Donald Trump, then yes she should tactically choose the guy who isn't an unapologetic rapist. She can influence the nice guy's behavior, and avoid the horror of Trump. She does not have to condone or accept the nice guy's bullshit behavior, and there will be a future.

[-] TigrisMorte@kbin.social 5 points 5 months ago

Your utterly not related nor relatable to reality scenario is pointless.
Should she choose to watch Star Wars or Star Trek after having stabbed both your imaginary scum bag and his friend chad. Has the same relevance to the Election.

[-] kashifshah@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Or you could maybe take actions to fix the system. Because whatever you lot come up with after dismantling is going be worse for everybody else.

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 21 points 5 months ago

You can still do both. The only viable path to election reform comes from downballot state elections anyway.

[-] kashifshah@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 5 months ago

You can still do both

Not sure that I follow what you mean. You can’t fix a system that is being dismantled, so I’m guessing that you mean something else.

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago

Well if you properly dismantle the system, we won't be voting this November anyway. Better get on that quick, bud.

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[-] null@slrpnk.net 12 points 5 months ago

And if she's paired anyway with that person

This line right here is where it should be obvious how far this "analogy" has to be twisted to even start to become analogous.

[-] TigrisMorte@kbin.social 8 points 5 months ago

It is an irrational nonequivalency and stupid.

[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 7 points 5 months ago

object to the choice being fostered upon her and choose nobody?

do you genuinely think not voting will make neither candidate win

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