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What happened to "You're welcome!" as a response to "Thank You"? It's not even included in the canned answers on an apple watch. Have we as a society abandoned it? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I hear "No problem" far more often.

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[-] Mongostein@lemmy.ca 26 points 7 months ago

I think we collectively decided that “you’re welcome” doesn’t make sense. Welcome to what??

[-] acastcandream@beehaw.org 21 points 7 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

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[-] Pandantic@midwest.social 7 points 7 months ago

Implying that it was an effort, but you are welcome to it. Whereas “no problem” denotes that the effort is was not a problem for me to do. I use them interchangeably - “you’re welcome” as a response to a complement, or something where there was moderate effort put into the task; “no problem” when the task was low effort (“Thanks for responding to that email so quickly”) or I feel my effort was obliged (helping pick up after a meeting).

[-] artichokecustard@lemmy.world 15 points 7 months ago

you're whale cum

[-] lanolinoil@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

to impose on me duh

[-] ettyblatant@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Maybe it's "you are welcome (to ask me for help/favors, as I am neutral to the task. I might even enjoy it.)"

And "it's not a problem (for me to do what you asked me to do; we have now both acknowledged that I have done something to help you that was not organic to me, but now we can move past it with no further conversation.)"

I bet "no problem" to some people is like seeing someone wear a T-shirt to church. They'd really prefer it if you would put on a suit and tie, even though the purpose of both are the same (cover my body when away from home because that is our current social agreement), because a T-shirt is disrespectful.

Also everyone sucks, it is a problem, and you are not welcome.

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