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[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

There’s that damn social contract I keep hearing about. Still have yet to seen one written.

[-] Ross_audio@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

What exactly is the constitution, or any law, if not a social contract.

If you don't like the social contracts we have, vote for someone to make them better.

Especially when it comes to the social contracts around elections.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

What exactly is the constitution, or any law, if not a social contract.

What exactly is a BDSM dungeon, if not a social contract?

What exactly is a thanksgiving dinner with the family, if not a social contract?

What exactly is a lemmy shitpost and a dipshit commenting on it, if not a social contract?

What exactly is a terms and conditions, if not a social contract?

What exactly is a terms of service, if not a social contract?

What exactly is a “please, harder daddy” if not a social contract?

My issue with “social contract” is how vague the concept is. I get that it’s an agreement we accept to have certain conditions met. But that definition itself is so vague why are we even discussing it?

[-] maynarkh@feddit.nl 9 points 9 months ago

You are right in that people seem to be misusing the term "social contract". The actual definition is not vague, but broad. The point is that a person who wants to live in a society accepts its fundamental tenets as they exist in exchange for society at large letting it live amongst itself.

So one example of a social contract might be the one that the USSR and aligned countries' societies had, which had the fundamental law of "things will continue to improve for you, but in exchange you must support our politics". When things stopped improving, people stopped staying out of politics and the society collapsed and reformed.

As far as I understand, the US "social contract" is at least on the level of ideology that if you "pull yourself up by the bootstraps", you get to "live the American Dream". When they talk about people "rejecting the social contract", what they mean is that they don't think that they are getting what they want out of society at large. If it's few people that do this, you get criminals and sovcits.

This theory is just to explain why people at large behave differently if they perceive their society as good, just, liveable, honourable and all manner of positive things.

Consider the sentiment of "If you saw someone steal from Walmart, you didn't, but don't steal from mom-and-pop shops, they need the money".

People say this is because since Walmart is perceived as not adhering to the social contract by stealing wages, killing off small businesses and mooching off public money. That means that, unlike mom-and-pop shops, they are fair game and not dishonourable to steal from. Formal law still applies to them, you will go to jail if they catch you all the same, but society will not shun you. In a way if you break the "unwritten law", then it does not protect you either.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

As far as I understand, the US "social contract" is at least on the level of ideology that if you "pull yourself up by the bootstraps", you get to "live the American Dream". When they talk about people "rejecting the social contract", what they mean is that they don't think that they are getting what they want out of society at large. If it's few people that do this, you get criminals and sovcits.

You’re probably right, emphasis on “probably” because the term is so vague we don’t really know what anyone who uses it really means. By the terms you’ve put forth, I too “reject the social contract” of “pulling yourself up by the bootstraps” allowing you to “live the american dream” on account of those words not having any real meaning. As an american, I can draw my own meaning from those words, but it will differ from the meaning others put on those words.

This theory is just to explain why people at large behave differently if they perceive their society as good, just, liveable, honourable and all manner of positive things.

And that’s the thing, because it’s different to each person, we’re all talking about different contracts, that we don’t understand but we assume about each other, causing difficulties in communication.

I’m happy to discuss law, constitution, policy, morality, etc.. but discussing a “social contract” to me sounds like we’re just discussing the unspoken assumptions of others.

As for my social contracts, those who know, know, you know?

[-] KevonLooney@lemm.ee 7 points 9 months ago

social contract noun

A usually implicit agreement among the members of an organized society or between the governed and the government defining and limiting the rights and duties of each. 
[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago
[-] KevonLooney@lemm.ee 7 points 9 months ago

Laws are explicit, not implicit. You said you didn't understand what a social contract was and I answered you. Now you're just being intentionally obtuse.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I never said anything of the sort. I said I didn’t understand the wording of the social contract. Please just link this one contract to me, since everyone’s always discussing it.

I can’t have a conversation unless I know the topic.

Topic like “agreement” is bit too vauge but hey, I’ll try: “Isn’t it great when everyone? I know, right?!”

[-] KevonLooney@lemm.ee 6 points 9 months ago

You have all the tools you need at your disposal. At this point, you are the biggest obstacle to your success.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

And what benefit will me understanding the precursor to “agreements” grant me?

Folks keep thinking I don’t understand what a social contract is.

I don’t understand why such an old term is relevant when it can’t even be defined and is different for each person. The best we can come up with is something like “well, you do the things society wants and you get treated well”. Which one person will interpret as “I give food to the homeless, because they need food” and another person will interpret as “I don’t give food to the homeless because they need to understand the grind, they need to feel the hunger, it will motivate them to do better”. Both people obey “the social contract” yet, both are participating in opposite actions.

“The social contract” sounds a lot like “don’t be a dick” which, while nice sounding on the surface really needs clarification and this is why we have written contracts, governments, law, etc.

Sure, this wasn’t the case prior to law, but we have law now so..

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[-] zazo@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

is like breaking the law is better than having no lights dawg

[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 3 points 9 months ago

It's not against the law to not pay your bills. Just don't expect any electricity, water, a roof, etc.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

See also: morality

[-] SomethingBurger@jlai.lu 7 points 9 months ago
[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

As usual, a link to wikipedia completely cured my stupidity. Thank you!

[-] betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago
[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

It couldn’t. Same goes for the person finding the link. Same goes for the person assuming I needed to be educated.

Why don’t you agree with my social contract?

[-] fkn@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago
[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Do we all share the same contract? If yes, then does that mean we share the same morals? Does it take into account how people choose to live and which laws to break?

[-] fkn@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

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[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

It is an implied thing not a tangible written down thing. Which is common in life. For example you are sitting on a bus with your headphones on, it is understood that I don't sit next to you and try to talk to you, unless something out of the ordinary happens and this is critical. In the grocery store you know that your cart goes on the same side of the aisle as you drive on.

All this stuff adds up and it becomes a basket of little rules. Follow them and things will go smoothly, don't and they will go less smoothly. It doesn't mean that your life is going to be even good it doesn't mean nothing bad will happen to you it doesn't mean everyone who breaks it will be punished. It is not even aspirational it is empirical. It is is how human civilization works.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Rules meant to be rules are written. Everything else is just made up.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Please provide evidence for your claim.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago
[-] nublug 6 points 9 months ago

name checks out. shitty troll tho. be funnier.

[-] dipshit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

We are not the same. Added to bio to avoid confusion.

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