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[-] greenteadrinker@midwest.social 38 points 2 years ago

I’m not European nor am I that young, but I share the same sentiment. Commuting by car isn’t good in a lot of aspects and kids are too expensive. Also having kids in this climate seems extremely stressful. Not only do you have to worry about extremely invasive tech, but you also have to worry about the changing climate and the (what seems like) global cost of living crisis

[-] rglullis@communick.news 4 points 2 years ago
  • 1990: "wow, the ozone layer is getting destroyed. Who knows if we might have a planet. Might be better to not have kids"
  • 1970: "wow, life is more expensive than ever and the world might end in a nuclear war. Might be better to not have kids"
  • 1950: "wow, we just got out of the war and will need to rebuild the whole continent. Might be better to not have kids"
  • 1800: "wow, I spend 15 hours a day working in a factory and I can barely sustain myself. Might be better to not have kids".
  • 1400: "wow, I have back-breaking work in a farm and all of it goes to some king and I will never see. What is the point of this? Might be better to not have kids."
[-] inlandempire@jlai.lu 38 points 2 years ago

Indeed, anyone can make up quotes about anything, without providing any substance to a discussion.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 4 points 2 years ago

If you need it spelled out for you, I'll help: life was never easy, but it never stopped people from stepping up to it and taking the responsibility for it. That includes having kids. Being "afraid of having kids" because of some external issue seems like a bad excuse from people who just don't want to accept the responsibility.

[-] vmaziman@lemm.ee 42 points 2 years ago

Saying it’s our responsibility to have kids it’s implying it’s our responsibility to endlessly expand and multiply. That is the domain of viruses and creatures that exceed the environmental carrying capacity of their species

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago

it’s our responsibility to endlessly expand and multiply.

Not necessarily. We can still encourage people to have kids but keep it close to replacement rate (2.3 kids per woman)

[-] vmaziman@lemm.ee 16 points 2 years ago

But isn’t it the fact that we have so many people coming into the middle class with middle class resource usage that causes planetary resource overruse? Either we need less people in the middle class, or 7 billion ppl have got to go back to pre industrial levels of consumption

[-] rglullis@communick.news 4 points 2 years ago

Either we need less people in the middle class, or 7 billion ppl have got to go back to pre industrial levels of consumption

No, we need less people living with the north american standard of consumption. This is not the same as "middle class".

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

There are already way, way too many people on the planet.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago

And most of them are in Asia, old and about to die in 25 years or so.

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

The population on China and India is still growing. Have birth rates dropped below replacement levels?

[-] rglullis@communick.news 3 points 2 years ago

population on China and India is still growing.

China is already declining.

Have birth rates dropped below replacement levels?

Yes, India is already below replacement levels and dropping further.

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Thanks for the sources. Interesting to see that "The number of new births a year has nearly halved since 2016" in China.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago

That's what demographic collapse looks like. Birth rate drops a cliff because the population finds itself suddenly without people in fertile age.

[-] RIPandTERROR 5 points 2 years ago

What a fucking stupid argument. How is it anyone's "responsibility" to have a kid? Please spell it out.

Here's my argument: it sounds hard and I don't wanna. Explain to me how I'm irresponsible. JFC 😂

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago

What is your plan when you get to old age?

[-] force@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Use the hundreds of thousands I would have otherwise spent on kids to live my best life until I die? duh

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Understand that we are talking here about a scenario where the global fertility rate drops significantly (less than one child per woman), like what is happening now in South Korea, Spain, Italy, ok?

Given that scenario and the economic collapse that would be coming with it, what would you be spending on, exactly?

Has it occurred to you that all that money that you have been saving and putting in some pension fund will likely not be there if there are no younger people to keep the economy going?

Also: what is stopping you from "living your best life" now that you are young?

Lastly

Use the hundreds of thousands I would have otherwise spent on kids

Yeah, that is not a thing in Germany. Decent public schools, decent health care system, government gives you 250 euro per kid per month, no car dependency, which means that kids are a lot more independent a lot earlier in life... having kids does not cost that much.

[-] PolishAndrew@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Lol 1950 was a great time to have kids, ever heard of baby boomers? The war boosted the economy, lots of people owned houses and started families. Same after world war 1, there were the "roaring 20s" before the great depression hit.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baby_boomers

[-] rglullis@communick.news 2 points 2 years ago

1950 was a great time to have kids, ever heard of baby boomers?

It is always a great time to have kids.

That's the joke.

[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

Ever heard of global carrying capacity?

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago
[-] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Yes, and I'd rather go through demographic collapse instead of global resource shortages that lead to massive amounts of death and suffering.

[-] Konlanx@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago

So what you're saying is this all could have been avoided if people had less children in the 1400s?

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 2 years ago

"This all", good and bad, could/would happen anyway...

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