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submitted 2 years ago by TGhost@lemmy.ml to c/mtf

Hello there,

Sorry for my english first,

For very recently now, im a girl at home, and i feel so good like this. Im so good when im wearing my sweatrobe,
When i see my legs shaved, i love them, i love me.

But now when im going outside (i keep the socks under pants) as man, i feel so unhappy, so bad.

How can i still go on without feeling shit to be a man now... i mean, its just wears...

Ive always hated do shoppings, but now i check robes on shops by walking the streets, and just that make me i want to be dress in girl mode, and i feel so unhappy, so sad, i want to cry at theses moments.

Do that will pass with the time,
Is it the classic way of the MTF ?
Could i be happy as girl at home, and as man outside ?

I just hope i feel like this, because affirming me to myself with wearings, is new...

Im now home, with my sweatrobe, with you lemmy, and my guitar, and now im good, now i'm...

Ty for the reading,

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[-] FoundTheVegan@kbin.social 13 points 2 years ago

Oh sis, there is no timeline on self discovery or happiness. Girl, just keep doing things that make you happy and live comfortably. I'm so happy and proud of you for taking these first steps at understanding who you are! ♥ 💕 It's okay to stay in the house especially if you are considered about safety, but it's also YOUR RIGHT to go and live a normal, happy, productive life in whatever way that feels comfortable to you.

Take it one day at a time and one milestone at a time. But above all else, keep following your bliss!

[-] TGhost@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Im flooded with emotion 🥹🥹.

I Got no words to answers you correctly 🥹🥹

Ty to write me this, One day at a time.

🩷

this post was submitted on 30 Oct 2023
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