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submitted 1 year ago by ickplant@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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[-] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

All these are accurate for me except I've graduated the chair to an over-sized under-bed drawer, all my bills are automated, and I have a car that has a proximity key so it always stays in my pocket (and I wear the same pants for a couple weeks on end).

But yeah, those are just learned coping mechanisms.

[-] quicksand@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

My chair is just 2 corners in my bedroom

[-] tehbilly@le.ptr.is 1 points 1 year ago

Automated bills is a weird one for me. I absolutely know they'd be useful to keep me from forgetting important things, but I manage to talk myself out of it as I'd "lose awareness" of where my money goes.

... I need to stop making excuses, huh?

[-] reptar@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I went from routinely missing to never. You absolutely should set that up.

I can relate on the losing awareness aspect. So, I also put them all on my calendar in red (recurring, of course) then switch to green with the title appended w/ "DONE" when I've paid it, or verified auto pay is scheduled.

[-] tehbilly@le.ptr.is 3 points 1 year ago

Ooh, I like that! I can still maintain awareness but there's no real penalties if I forget to for a day or few. Thanks, I think I'll be setting that up today!

[-] Unaware7013@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Your bank should allow you to setup autopay alerts, I get them pretty regularly for mine (email stating 'your auto pay to COMPANY is pending for $xxxx on yy/zz') but I also don't read them. And I have a budget setup so I know where that money is going to go this week anyway. And I check my accounts weekly to pay off my credit card so I see it there as well. Mainly because I have a reminder to do so.