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submitted 2 years ago by SillyJester@lemmygrad.ml to c/lgbtq_plus

How did it go? I'm so tempted to when I'm freshly shaven but then the stubble comes back and I feel like I'll look like a fool once it does. ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

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[-] crazyminner@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 2 years ago

Lasers are your friend.

Not enby, but I am a trans woman and I would say it really depends on your workplace. I've had some I don't feel comfortable talking about me being trans, but at my current workplace they have a rainbow sidewalk and it feels welcoming enough for me to feel like I can talk about those parts of myself.

[-] SillyJester@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago

I'm happy to hear that! I was thinking of laser but I cannot afford it plus the rest of my body is fairly hairy so I feel like I'd look silly. I will see how my time in the company goes.

[-] crazyminner@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Screw Societal expectations. Do what you feel is right (While being safe). I haven't gotten laser anywhere but my face yet. There is nothing wrong with a little body hair.

I have a cis friend, she has no facial hair but she lets her leg hair grow. Learn to own who you are and show confidence. No one will think you are silly if you do that.

[-] SillyJester@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Thanks, that's very inspirational, but I don't really care what other people think. If I feel silly, I feel silly. Obviously I don't live in vacuum and other people influenced many things about me but the influence makes up what I am rather than being something I can choose to opt out of.

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