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[-] eah@programming.dev 24 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

There should be a government program to handle situations like this if there aren't. Take an assessment of their current skills and interests and get them into employment and/or training for something that fits. You basically need to intervene when the parents won't and do it in a way that's as least stressful for the person as possible. It would pay off in the end because otherwise this person may end up on government assistance later when they most need it. Politicians who can pull this off may get to claim to have reduced unemployment in their reelection campaign. And it's just a good thing to do. Some people won't take the initiative. You have to do it for them and hold their hand.

Edit: As far as I can tell, the closest thing to this in the US is the one-stop centers. Each state has their own.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Public_employment_service

[-] Nalivai@lemmy.world 17 points 21 hours ago

Wait, you guys don't have that? US I assume? Damn, does your government do anything?

[-] RamRabbit@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

There are plenty of programs to help you get a job. Though, if you are 38, living with your parents, and never got off your ass to support yourself, the problem is you. A program that helps you get a job can't do shit for you if you are this unmotivated.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 30 points 20 hours ago
[-] Napster153@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

They kill poor white people too on occasion so it balances out.

[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

The conversion ratio is terrible. They need to start killing more white people for the good of the economy.

[-] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 15 points 19 hours ago

Oh, come on. It kills far more than just brown people.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago

The only thing our government actually does that's uncontroversial is running a bunch of parks, and even those are understaffed

[-] TootTootComingThru@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago

I don't think the federal government has a program like this, but I went through unemployment after getting laid off last year in Massachusetts and they had resources to help you find careers and training/qualifications and whatnot. Some of the dumbest, lowest empathy people you encounter bitch about Communist Taxachusetts non stop but we have it pretty good here compared to some other places in the Union.

[-] 5318008@lemmy.ml 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

The tax revenue per capita in Massachusetts is about $9000. (source)

I measure it this way because it gets around the comparison problem of some places having no income tax, but high sales tax toake up for it.

Anyway, we should happily pay $4000 per year difference to not live in Oklahoma.

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 4 points 20 hours ago

Governments are for Communists.

/s

[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 8 points 18 hours ago

The US used to have the Job Corps program...

[-] Canonical_Warlock@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 15 hours ago

There's also temp agencies. They're shit and the jobs they give you will be shit but they're pretty good at finding something for basically anyone who isn't completely unemployable. Someone whose only issues are a lack of transportation, housing, and work history would still be considered a good get by most temp agencies.

[-] OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world 8 points 21 hours ago

Japan is probably the closest by actually having the hikikomori problem in public discourse. Most of the rest of the world they probably end up homeless.

[-] tetris11@feddit.uk 8 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Japan is just ahead of the curve when it comes to problems related to arrested development. They're not better at planning, they just experienced their tipping point earlier

[-] TeaWithDani@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Lots of people end up on welfare and in social housing under similar situations. We stigmatize those people so much that it never enters public discourse in the same way.

People who are unhoused tend to have even more severe difficulties resulting in that situation.

this post was submitted on 19 Aug 2026
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