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A three-time Trump voter was left devastated after the immigration policies of the president he repeatedly supported resulted in his wife being taken away.

Tech salesman and former MAGA supporter Brent Jindra, 48, was stunned when Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents detained his wife, Galina Bobreneva, after the couple landed at Burbank Airport in California, The New York Times reported.

“A U.S. citizen just watched his wife get dragged away and had no idea where she was going,” Jindra, who voted for President Donald Trump, 80, because of his promises of strict immigration enforcement, recalled of the day.

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[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 24 points 19 hours ago

I humbly request that you consider eliminating the "R" word from your vocabulary.

Folks here and here make the case better than I could.

I'm sure no harm was intended, but harm is still caused by that word. The folks to whom it applies are well aware of it and know it's about them, whether you mean it to be or not.

My wife used to teach at an adult day school for adults with developmental and cognitive disabilities. She taught, among other things, Shakespeare. When I say that her students learned the material, I mean they'd sit around and discuss it. They knew it better than I did (although in fairness, I've never been much into Shakespeare).

It's just a word that feels like it doesn't harm, but it does. I used to use it years ago until someone pointed this out to me, and now I hope that I can help end the usage of it.

If you read this far, I thank you for doing that, no matter which option you choose. <3

[-] k0e3@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 hours ago

Wait, I can't tell.

Did OP write removed to mean the r word or did he type it but did it automatically get censored (if the latter, I didn't know Lemmy could do that). Or is removed innuendo for the r word? Or are you actually offended by the literal usage of "removed?" I'm so confused.

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

There is no such automatic censorship. I assumed, from the italics, that they were referencing the word and not writing it.

The first line of my reply was:

If by “removed” you mean the R word,

So I think I was clear. :)

[-] sukhmel@programming.dev 2 points 31 minutes ago

There are instances that replace some slurs with removed, afaik, so it could be Lemmy, but this time it is not, I think

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 1 points 6 minutes ago

That's wild. Well, I kinda wish we had it here. heh. (The feature in general.)

[-] k0e3@lemmy.ca 3 points 9 hours ago

Got it, thanks, that makes sense.

I think it was good that you mentioned it. That's one word I grew up using casually (90s kid) and I felt for a long time like "what the fuck is the big deal?" but I also have words I don't like being called (like Jap) and it doesn't feel good when people tell me it's not a slur.

A while back, I came to the conclusion that f someone is offended by it, the kind thing (maybe this isn't the right thing or logical thing) to do is not use it, or at least think about why it might hurt these specific people.

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 2 points 8 minutes ago

I also used it until I was a young adult and became aware of the harm from it.

And your philosophy is a wise one <3

[-] granch_bibblyfibble@piefed.social 6 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

How would you rewrite that part of the sentence that used the "R" word? It seems like "idiot" and "stupid" (edit: "moron") are also terms with historical baggage, and likely fall into the same category of being a slur. Or is it just because the "R" word is still in use by the medical field? I suppose "dumbass" is the first word that comes to mind without historical (or current?) baggage, and I'm personally fine to use that term to replace all the others above. But the links you provided don't really give guidance on how to express the above in a "safe" alternative way (note the original was an internal thought); I guess I'm here proposing that everyone just use "dumbass" (shout out to "Red").

Edit: I guess "dumb" also has its problems; perhaps even "fool"?

[-] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 10 points 17 hours ago

was such a fucking [dipshit | jackass | asshole | incompetent | fool | asswipe]

There are so many fun words to use!

[-] T156@lemmy.world 15 points 16 hours ago

You can also make new ones.

Like their father being a hamster, and their mother smelling of elderberries.

[-] Goldholz 2 points 11 hours ago

The british. One creativ people. Not like these in dung swimming fish MAGidiots

[-] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 7 points 16 hours ago

Ahah, a person of culture!

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago

terms with historical baggage,

Historic baggage maybe, but certainly not current baggage. The "R" word has current baggage.

And that's the difference.

Yes, language changes, and we adjust - "colored" used to be the preferred word when discussing black people.

[-] granch_bibblyfibble@piefed.social 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Speaking of discussing African Americans, do you think the NAACP should change its name?

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago

As a cis white male, I have absolutely zero say in that.

I will say that there are previous clients of mine who still have the official medical diagnosis of "MR", i.e. "Mental Retardation". That is no longer the preferred medical diagnosis.

Neither of those things have much to do with people calling people the "R" word or calling black people "coloreds" or the like.

[-] shyguyblue@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

it's just a word that feels like it doesn't harm, but it does

And that's the fucking point.

[-] Leviathan@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

By referring to Nazis with that word you associate people who have no choice but to have their development medically described with that word to Nazis. That's who you might hurt, harmless folk who don't deserve to be associated with Nazis because you can't find more creative ways to insult a bunch of absolute scumbags.

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Would you please consider removing the "S" word from your vocabulary when it comes to describing nazis? It is hurtful to scum, as you can see here.

^don't^ ^hurt^ ^me^

                                        ^or^ ^give^ ^me^ ^up^ ^;-)^

[-] daychilde@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago

I don't know why you feel the need to cause unnecessary pain to those with disabilities, but that's your choice to do so.

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